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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Let Women Swim

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IcakethereforeIam · 26/08/2022 00:00

Just seen this article on the Critic about women only swimming sessions. Apparently, there's going to be a meeting at the Ladies Pond in London on Saturday 27th August regarding the decision to let men self I'd into the space.

I've not seen a thread on this.

thecritic.co.uk/let-women-swim/

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DadJoke · 29/08/2022 10:37

RhannionKPSS · 29/08/2022 00:45

Yes DadJoke why were the women removed from the men’s pond when those women “ identified “ as men that day? Do tell us what the difference was.

Because, as every single protestor admitted, they were lying.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/08/2022 10:38

Yes — they are “permitted” to do so - if it’s a proportionate. They are not “obliged” to. This is how the 2010 Act changes things.

It doesn't change anything. They were always allowed to demand access and people were always allowed to exclude them. Like any other male people.

RoseslnTheHospital · 29/08/2022 10:38

How can anyone possibly be lying about how they identify at any moment in time? It's an unquestionable internal feeling, not an objectively verifiable fact.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/08/2022 10:39

Males without GRC are just male for the purposes of the Equality Act. It was assumed in its drafting that there would need to be places which were female only.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/08/2022 10:40

And male only, of course.

334bu · 29/08/2022 10:44

Dadjoke , why do you support allowing male people into female only spaces? Do you believe female people have no right to single sex spaces?

jesuissweary · 29/08/2022 10:48

DadJoke · 29/08/2022 10:37

Because, as every single protestor admitted, they were lying.

Utter crap. We weren't lying. We were following the rules of TRAs by feeling manly and therefore identifying as men.

I wonder if the by-laws have been updated since we went. Because they very clearly excluded any adult of the opposite sex accessing single sex spaces.

JellySaurus · 29/08/2022 11:06

Because, as every single protestor admitted, they were lying.

And every single male who claims entry into the women's pond is not lying? How can you tell?

Artichokeleaves · 29/08/2022 11:40

DadJoke · 29/08/2022 10:37

Because, as every single protestor admitted, they were lying.

Sweetie, you do realise there is no such thing as the Layla Moran test or the Vulcan mind meld?

There is absolutely no way to tell whether the person obviously of one sex and claiming the identity of the other and right to access facilities on the basis of this claim is lying or not.

None.

There is no way to police this claim. There is no way to ascertain whether the person is intentionally lying to gain access, or is wholly convinced internally of their claim, or truly does have a soul of the opposite sex in the wrong body, and the impact on those of the other sex is exactly the same anyway . That's the issue.

That's precisely what these women were demonstrating.

Along with if females say no to males it's awful, poor males, and the males come in anyway saying smugly that females can't stop them.

And if males say no to females it works, the gatekeeping is successful, and those females are accused of lying/flashing/any other smear possible to make it clear that trying to trespass on male territory is Not Ok.

Can you really not spot the misogyny here? The flat out sex based thinking?

The binary sex based thinking?

The bottom line that heads males win and tails females lose?

And it's irrelevant anyway.

Males have three separate choosy choices. And because of their selfish entitlement, some females now have no access at all because those males said so.

This is just flat out male supremacism and it's unacceptable. It's not inclusive. It's just plain revolting.

Which is why I applaud those revolting females who made the point by attempting to access the male pool and waking everyone up to this. God knows as females we live in revolting times.

RhannionKPSS · 29/08/2022 15:43

Artichokeleaves · 29/08/2022 11:40

Sweetie, you do realise there is no such thing as the Layla Moran test or the Vulcan mind meld?

There is absolutely no way to tell whether the person obviously of one sex and claiming the identity of the other and right to access facilities on the basis of this claim is lying or not.

None.

There is no way to police this claim. There is no way to ascertain whether the person is intentionally lying to gain access, or is wholly convinced internally of their claim, or truly does have a soul of the opposite sex in the wrong body, and the impact on those of the other sex is exactly the same anyway . That's the issue.

That's precisely what these women were demonstrating.

Along with if females say no to males it's awful, poor males, and the males come in anyway saying smugly that females can't stop them.

And if males say no to females it works, the gatekeeping is successful, and those females are accused of lying/flashing/any other smear possible to make it clear that trying to trespass on male territory is Not Ok.

Can you really not spot the misogyny here? The flat out sex based thinking?

The binary sex based thinking?

The bottom line that heads males win and tails females lose?

And it's irrelevant anyway.

Males have three separate choosy choices. And because of their selfish entitlement, some females now have no access at all because those males said so.

This is just flat out male supremacism and it's unacceptable. It's not inclusive. It's just plain revolting.

Which is why I applaud those revolting females who made the point by attempting to access the male pool and waking everyone up to this. God knows as females we live in revolting times.

Well said Artichoke!

TheBiologyStupid · 29/08/2022 17:27

Well said Artichoke!

+1

WomaninBoots · 29/08/2022 18:19

RhannionKPSS · 29/08/2022 15:43

Well said Artichoke!

+2

It is so obvious what the patterns are I don't see how anyone can say they don't see them and be in good faith.

VerveClique · 29/08/2022 18:35

So, all men have a choice of three ponds.
Some women can’t use any of the ponds.

It’s a reflection of so many aspects of life!

RhannionKPSS · 29/08/2022 19:13

Well I just saw an old fashioned “ men” bathing suit in a second hand shop today, very tempted to buy it & join the women in the “ men’s “ pool next time...( as long as it’s not a knitted suit ) 😂

Helleofabore · 29/08/2022 19:16

There is absolutely no way to tell whether the person obviously of one sex and claiming the identity of the other and right to access facilities on the basis of this claim is lying or not.

If transitioned males respect females so much, as they tell us they do (reader, we have seen much evidence to show this as being demonstrably false in too many occasions ), why would any transitioned male use a facility knowing it cause females distress and that females will have to self exclude?

Whenever we ask this question, the answer is either crickets, or when we had some active transitioned males on this board, they continued to appeal for special treatment and to be able to continue to access these spaces even if to do so caused females distress.

It is good to know that there are some transitioned males who do respect females and don’t enter these spaces. I do wish there were more and they spoke up. Maybe one day they will.

TheBiologyStupid · 29/08/2022 22:21

It is good to know that there are some transitioned males who do respect females and don’t enter these spaces. I do wish there were more and they spoke up. Maybe one day they will.

Fingers crossed...! (But breath not held.)

JellySaurus · 29/08/2022 23:25

TheBiologyStupid · 29/08/2022 22:21

It is good to know that there are some transitioned males who do respect females and don’t enter these spaces. I do wish there were more and they spoke up. Maybe one day they will.

Fingers crossed...! (But breath not held.)

Some have done so. They get attacked online and called 'truscum' by TRAs.

dorasalter · 29/08/2022 23:47

Yes. Because divisions in the trans community are respectable divisions.

Let's take the example of a father-of-two, who has had no medical intervention and only chose the name "Erin" last Thursday.

Is Erin trans?
It depends who you ask - and it's okay to disagree because gender identity is complex, and everybody is valid.

But is Erin a woman?
That's just a straight yes. No other answer will do.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 30/08/2022 05:16

If transitioned males respect females so much, as they tell us they do (reader, we have seen much evidence to show this as being demonstrably false in too many occasions ), why would any transitioned male use a facility knowing it cause females distress and that females will have to self exclude?

Yes. Why?

Just found this.

Let Women Swim
TheBiologyStupid · 30/08/2022 09:12

But is Erin a woman?
That's just a straight yes. No other answer will do.

Only in Erin's head. Meanwhile, back in reality...

SolasAnla · 30/08/2022 09:16

mobile.twitter.com/cath_heseltine/status/1563638385763287041
So proud of my daughter supporting #LetWomenSwim all day on Hampstead Heath.
“Mummy, when are they going to give the Ladies Pond back?”
“We want to get it back for women and girls in time for it’s 100th birthday in 3 years”
“But I’ll be 11 by then

[ Note : link to petition has been removed and there is a picture of the 8 year old holding a pic with 3 Muslim women and a text "Let our sisters swim!" ]

SallyLo29873307:
When does she have to start wearing a hijab? Is there a formal age? Until that age, could she swim at the mixed pool with her father?

cath_heseltine :
Puberty is when practicing Muslims start hijab so yes it’s fine for an 8 year old to swim in a mixed pool & she does swimming classes at the local leisure centre where they have family changing cubicles. But unfortunately her dad can’t swim well enough for the ponds.

SallyLo29873307 :
If I'm at the pond with my wife, do you have any issues with your daughter seeing us kiss?

cath_heseltine :
I’m not a fan of public kissing but it’s a free country and we can look away from couples making out in public, so I’m not going to have an issue if any couple does that in front of my kids.

mobile.twitter.com/SallyLo29873307/status/1564503472816263168
Excellent. What about a bit of gentle groping? Nothing too sexy -maybe just a quick grind or bum grab

So it only took SallyLo29873307 second tweet to begin ask what level of public sexual activity SallyLo29873307 can preform in front of an 8 year old child

damibasiamille · 30/08/2022 12:10

What is "SallyLo"'s agenda, I wonder? asking these strange questions!

Sounds a bit groomish to me!

Artichokeleaves · 30/08/2022 12:13

How sexually inappropriate will you permit me to be in front of your child? Let me push until I find your boundary Confused

Wtf is wrong with some people?

SolasAnla · 30/08/2022 15:23

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 28/08/2022 16:15

Seems to have gone wonderfully, as it's provoked union leader Dr Jo Grady (UCU) to speak out in the strongest possible terms against... the act of picketing.

I'm not kidding here. She actually used that exact word without ever thinking, "hang on, what the hell am I typing? I head up a union. I can't condemn picketing!" She then admitted she hadn't even been there today, after proclaiming the pickets she hadn't seen were intimidating.

tweets

The ladies pond is a safe, serene, special place. People picketing it today against its trans inclusive stance are being a nuisance at best, and intimidating or harassing at worst. Leave the pond and its patrons alone. Just let people live in peace.

I go frequently. I can’t imagine how fuming I’d be if I had to squeeze my way past them today to get in. It would have put me in a terrible mood and completely ruined something that is otherworldly and blissful. Miserable people trying to make everyone else miserable. Bog off!

Not to mention how horrible this must be for anyone who feels targeted by this group. Facing a gauntlet of people who question your right to exist peacefully and live a full life. Awful, just awful.

I also doubt those picketing even use it. Just turned up to ruin everyone’s day.

Jo Grady broadening the bandwidth of what it is to be a Union Official

So her recent activism included cheering on the Posties strike

Her Union will likely end up engaging in some kind of industrial action which will as a by product cause harm to students who have gone into debt to attend 3rd level and are trying to catch up after Covid

She's so tone deaf she could be sitting in the middle of Big Ben and not feel a thing.😬

SolasAnla · 30/08/2022 15:28

Artichokeleaves · 30/08/2022 12:13

How sexually inappropriate will you permit me to be in front of your child? Let me push until I find your boundary Confused

Wtf is wrong with some people?

100% One handed typists vibe.

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