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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Woman thrown out of female loo because of man!

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OhSusannah · 21/08/2022 13:16

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Cailleach1 · 21/08/2022 13:38

I had a peek at their website and google reviews. Where women have pointed out that the women's toilets are open to males, the owners/manager has responded to say the police have been notified of this hate crime.

Are they saying that a woman correctly identifying a male human as a man is a hate crime?

Or, is the audacity of women correcting sexing and objecting to male bodies in spaces where we are in a state of undress is hateful?

If either, they are saying women have no rights to safety, dignity and privacy. And, should just shut up if males want to say they are as much a female as a woman. I say Allison Bailey's tweet where she alluded to Rome burning. Using another Rome allusion, I think the barbarians have breached the gates and are enjoying terrorising women.

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 21/08/2022 13:49

Oh yes. They won't be happy until we are back in our place.

I'm getting mighty pissed off with this nonsense now. I never used to frequent the feminism boards but find myself here a lot recently, what the hell is going on?

JellySaurus · 21/08/2022 13:50

Hypocrites.

Woman thrown out of female loo because of man!
JellySaurus · 21/08/2022 13:51

I expect the manager has reported himself to the police for his hate crime.

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 21/08/2022 13:54

But the manager is a man, he is allowed to intimidate the woman. It's the woman who's not allowed to 'intimidate' the man dressed as a woman. Have I got that right? It's so hard to keep up.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 21/08/2022 13:55

The manager's an idiot. Campsites are where you allow your children greater freedom - maybe going to the shop unescorted for the first time or the toilets. Parents need to be able to risk assess. Would I allow my 6 / 8 /10 year old daughter to go into mixed sex toilets alone? Unlikely. Would I allow her into a women's toilet alone - probably.
Would I take my family to a campsite where the owner gaslights and openly bullies women? Nope.

OhSusannah · 21/08/2022 14:02

But she says the man was dressed as a man. He wasn't even pretending to be a woman (well he was but he didn't have a frock on). So now we have men, being men and saying they are women. Jeeez. Where will this madness end?

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Georgeskitchen · 21/08/2022 14:03

"He's a woman"
😉😉

Cailleach1 · 21/08/2022 14:15

One response from the business to a google review tried to smear the woman who objected to the male in the female toilets as ignorant, and said how it was terrible that this behaviour seems to be acceptable to some.

I presume they are disgusted that women feel entitled to stand up for themselves, or are not intimidated enough to prevent them from audibly correctly sexing (and thus assessing the environment) a male human. Despite such fellow traveller misogynists trying to shout them down and throw them off premises when they do.

The precious irony of someone who says 'he' has had all the surgery and is now a woman calling someone else ignorant. The dark ages beckon and want their soul alchemy back.

VestofAbsurdity · 21/08/2022 15:10

I wonder if all those TW who insist on using women's toilets because they are 'scared' in the mens and those who have made alterations to their appearance/taken hormones/had surgery/dress as they think women should dress are going to be happy that men clearly being and looking like men will be joining them in there, where's the much vaunted safety and validation now?

EarthSight · 21/08/2022 15:18

Have you sign the sign? Cringe. Comes across like it was put there by a certain type of man in his 50s or 60s thinking it was humorous, same type of man who calls his wife 'THE Wife'. 🙄

Andromachehadabadday · 21/08/2022 15:29

I see the owners have said this person ‘biologically identifies as female’, they have no clue what they are talking about. How does a male identify ‘biologically as female’

They also made a post referring to ‘hermaphrodites’ and then deleted it. I assume they were trying the ‘but hermaphrodites!’ As a rebuttal, because they have no common sense.

Misstache · 21/08/2022 15:39

I’m concerned with him telling her “not to go in the stall.” Was he taking a giant poo or was he like masturbating in there or something? A woman might tell you there’s no toilet paper in a stall or the lock is broken, but I’ve never had a woman just be like “wooooo don’t go in THERE.” Gross.

Staynow · 21/08/2022 15:45

VestofAbsurdity · 21/08/2022 15:10

I wonder if all those TW who insist on using women's toilets because they are 'scared' in the mens and those who have made alterations to their appearance/taken hormones/had surgery/dress as they think women should dress are going to be happy that men clearly being and looking like men will be joining them in there, where's the much vaunted safety and validation now?

And if TW don't want to use male toilets because they're afraid of men how do they not understand that women don't want to share toilets with TW/men for the same reasons???

BlodynGwyn · 21/08/2022 15:48

Two men intimidated a woman inside a 'female only' space. Men have truly won.

If we complain, let alone try to stop them from watching us shower or use the toilet, then we are guilty of a hate crime.

When they hid in the shrubbery waiting on women and girls to flash their genitals to, we could report them - or chase them off. They don't have to rough it anymore out in the rain and cold - they can just watch us legally in comfort.

It's open season on women again.

BlodynGwyn · 21/08/2022 15:53

Misstache · 21/08/2022 15:39

I’m concerned with him telling her “not to go in the stall.” Was he taking a giant poo or was he like masturbating in there or something? A woman might tell you there’s no toilet paper in a stall or the lock is broken, but I’ve never had a woman just be like “wooooo don’t go in THERE.” Gross.

I thought the same thing. He'd stunk it up.

I've been told by my sons and husband that men will joke with each other if they've made the toilet stink. I have never heard a woman say anything like that in my life.

He was a man being a man.

BlueWhat · 21/08/2022 15:57

Good grief the owner is reporting everyone for hate crimes! Thames Valley Police have their work cut out for them!

Woman thrown out of female loo because of man!
Helleofabore · 21/08/2022 15:57

MrsOvertonsWindow · 21/08/2022 13:55

The manager's an idiot. Campsites are where you allow your children greater freedom - maybe going to the shop unescorted for the first time or the toilets. Parents need to be able to risk assess. Would I allow my 6 / 8 /10 year old daughter to go into mixed sex toilets alone? Unlikely. Would I allow her into a women's toilet alone - probably.
Would I take my family to a campsite where the owner gaslights and openly bullies women? Nope.

Yes. I don't see mixed sex toilets and shower blocks as being remotely 'family friendly.'

And the act of reporting questioning a male who was in the female toilet as a 'hate crime' at a family friendly camping site has a definite chilling effect.

I suspect that this will backfire on this camp ground.

VestofAbsurdity · 21/08/2022 15:58

And if TW don't want to use male toilets because they're afraid of men how do they not understand that women don't want to share toilets with TW/men for the same reasons???

Their brains won't compute that because of how fucking obvious and correct it it is and you'll get a load of guff about TW are women, not threatening, different, special, most oppressed yada yada yada.

beastlyslumber · 21/08/2022 16:02

That's just pure misogyny. Fucking hell. Hopefully that's their whole business down the shitter because what woman wants to go camping and have to share bathroom facilities with a bunch of blokes.

EsmaCannonball · 21/08/2022 16:03

So hope the owner gets done for misgendering.

BlueWhat · 21/08/2022 16:05

Cooooo ooooo Daily Mail!! Over here 👋

Please may we have an article and a picture of the sad faced transwoman and manager outside the female toilet.

They can tell your readers about the big, bad bigoted woman who doesn't want someone with a penis in a female only space.

I do love a good Daily Mail "sad face".

Clymene · 21/08/2022 16:11

I saw the hermaphrodite post. (I apologise for using that horrible word). The owner said that the employee was one and thats why he was allowed to use the women's toilets. And the woman who complained had really upset him.

Artichokeleaves · 21/08/2022 16:20

Females excluded from their only space, so that male people can have their choosy choices from all the spaces.

Women's space excludes women to provide access to men.

Glad we're now seeing all this openly being discussed front and centre.

Shall we now get onto the obvious bloody underlying thing here which is the foundational belief that being born male confers a value and importance over being born female, and this is male supremacism?

And that this is very obviously based on a belief in a binary sex class system that sees sex over any gender identity and has no difficulty knowing the hierarchy without any need to check in any way? Which means that no one believes male people are ever anything but male and removes any justification for them invading female spaces and blocking females from any resources at all?

Ohsugarhoneyicetea · 21/08/2022 16:21

Men's toilets seem to be the safer ones now, as all the creepy males are invading the women's facilities now. Shame they stink so badly.

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