It's usually one straight forward question.
"What do you plan to do with the female people who now can't use any space so the male people can take their preferred choice from all the spaces?"
You then work through the answers:
- This doesn't happen.
Response: Provide the evidence.
- Well those females need to get over their trauma/disability/abandon on the spot their faith, culture, family and roots on the spot because nasty religion I don't agree with and share in personally so have no respect for in a rather unpleasant racist/colonial/white supremacist kind of a way
Response: Are you expecting the male people to get over their trauma in using male spaces? Or in fact to get over or tolerate anything at all? No? I wonder why your unequal sex based expectations here?
- Privilege!!
Response: So females should suffer through some kind of political thought of original sin? You are happy that the sex class of female should be disadvantaged and some females excluded (most of them from vulnerable groups) so that this small group of male people can have everything they want?
So in fact you're seeing this in an entirely sex based way, where there are two sex classes and the one has a birth right of being the priority and the birth right of the other is to sacrifice and care for the other? How is this not sexist as fuck? How can you go on pretending to believe that these male people are anything but male since your actions are screaming that you believe in fixed sex classes and everyone operating on the basis of them?
Why can there not be answers that work for everyone instead of male people get exactly what they want at the expense of female people with very unequal sexist standards of care and consideration? Why can male people not be expected to compromise and have some reciprocal care and respect for female inclusion and access? Is inclusion only for TQ+ male people?
At that point they tend to either start realising there are issues here, or they take the mask off and disintegrate into full blown zealotry which is usually unfortunately based in quite a lot of internalised misogyny in women, sexism, racism and homophobia which this agenda provides a naice fig leaf for the expression of.