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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

LOJ and monkeypox. Knows what a man is

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123Callie · 26/07/2022 19:27

So LOJ has finally decided that men who have sex with men ARE more at risk of contracting monkeypox after all. And he wants them to know this so that they can all go and get vaccinated. Strangely, he is not using inclusive language at all. He only mentions men. There are transwomen at risk in exactly the same way but no mention of the women who sleep with men who sleep with men. Now that men are affected he is well aware that clear language is necessary for health campaigns.

Also, on another note, he doesn’t want men to stop having sex with multiple strangers. That’s fine despite the known risks. Can’t expect a man to take responsibility for his own health over servicing his raging libido.

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PearlClench · 26/07/2022 21:16

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:03

The risk has zero to do with what genitals someone has.

The risk is to do with behaviour and networks.

What behaviour?

What networks?

It's a lot like Owen likes to lecture women on being inclusive, but feels justified in excluding people when it suits him.

hatedbythedailymail22 · 26/07/2022 21:16

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:14

Well most people with penises don’t engage in the sort of activities (gay saunas, dark rooms and hook up sites*) that pose the particular risk for gay men, so no.

Do more men than women engage in those behaviours though, is the actual question? And I think the answer is yes. So it would appear that having a penis does in fact make some difference, does it not?

PronounssheRa · 26/07/2022 21:17

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:00

The reason LGB Alliance were ridiculed was not because they were pointing out the higher risks for gay men but because they were calling for gay venues to be closed.

As a temporary measure they asked for all commercial sex venues to be closed to keep the outbreak under control until health protection plans could be implemented. Compare that with OJ who at the time laughed as an LGBA tweet talking about the risk of monkeypox was taken down. Now we have over 2000 confirmed cases.

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:18

yourhairiswinterfire · 26/07/2022 21:13

The reason LGB Alliance were ridiculed was not because they were pointing out the higher risks for gay men but because they were calling for gay venues to be closed.

All commercial sex venues.

And OJ 'lol'd' because their tweet was taken down for ''medical disinformation''. Saying you think all commercial sex venues should be closed is an opinion, not 'disinformation', so it's unlikely he was referring to that bit.

Semantics. There are extremely few straight commercial sex venues. The vast majority are gay venues.

Calling for the closure of commercial sex venues is essentially the same as calling for closure of gay venues.

IncompleteSenten · 26/07/2022 21:20

Has anyone posted his 'lol' tweet screenshot at him?

PearlClench · 26/07/2022 21:22

PronounssheRa · 26/07/2022 21:17

As a temporary measure they asked for all commercial sex venues to be closed to keep the outbreak under control until health protection plans could be implemented. Compare that with OJ who at the time laughed as an LGBA tweet talking about the risk of monkeypox was taken down. Now we have over 2000 confirmed cases.

Sounds eminently sensible, really.

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:23

PearlClench · 26/07/2022 21:16

What behaviour?

What networks?

It's a lot like Owen likes to lecture women on being inclusive, but feels justified in excluding people when it suits him.

OJ is using perfectly inclusive language by reflecting that men who have sex with men are most at risk. Trans women do not necessarily face the same risks as gay men.

Even in the article he recognises that people who are not MSM might also need prioritisation and targeted comms, such as sex workers.

PronounssheRa · 26/07/2022 21:23

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:18

Semantics. There are extremely few straight commercial sex venues. The vast majority are gay venues.

Calling for the closure of commercial sex venues is essentially the same as calling for closure of gay venues.

Utter nonsense. I dont believe for one second you think there are hardly any commercial sex venues for straight people.

hatedbythedailymail22 · 26/07/2022 21:24

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:18

Semantics. There are extremely few straight commercial sex venues. The vast majority are gay venues.

Calling for the closure of commercial sex venues is essentially the same as calling for closure of gay venues.

That's not semantics. You're saying that commercial sex venues are gay sex venues. But also that being gay makes no difference to risk factors.

Are you telling us that commercial sex venues are not a risk?

Pruella · 26/07/2022 21:28

.But also that being gay makes no difference to risk factors

They said the opposite of this.

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:29

PronounssheRa · 26/07/2022 21:17

As a temporary measure they asked for all commercial sex venues to be closed to keep the outbreak under control until health protection plans could be implemented. Compare that with OJ who at the time laughed as an LGBA tweet talking about the risk of monkeypox was taken down. Now we have over 2000 confirmed cases.

Policing the sex people can have is a terrible public health practice both for civil liberties reasons and because it is totally ineffective.

As well as stigmatising gay sex (the ‘all’ venues is a misnomer since the vast majority of them are gay venues), it would merely have driven that activity into cruising grounds, cottages and onto apps.

If people want to have sex with multiple partners they will have sex with multiple partners. If they do that in a licensed venue, they can be targeted with public health advice and also have ready access to condoms and lube which makes sex safer. Closing sex venues would have no impact on those who enjoy having sex with multiple partners.

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:30

PronounssheRa · 26/07/2022 21:23

Utter nonsense. I dont believe for one second you think there are hardly any commercial sex venues for straight people.

Compared to the number of gay sex venues, there are extremely few straight sex venues.

hatedbythedailymail22 · 26/07/2022 21:31

Pruella · 26/07/2022 21:28

.But also that being gay makes no difference to risk factors

They said the opposite of this.

No, tea laxon said that genitals made no difference to the risk factor. Which we all know is not true.

Pretty sure its not lesbians who are at risk of monkeypox

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:31

hatedbythedailymail22 · 26/07/2022 21:24

That's not semantics. You're saying that commercial sex venues are gay sex venues. But also that being gay makes no difference to risk factors.

Are you telling us that commercial sex venues are not a risk?

Where did I say being gay makes no difference to risk factors?

I very clearly agree with OJ that gay men are at higher risk of monkeypox.

mrshoho · 26/07/2022 21:35

But you also said a person's genitals has no significance to the risk contracting monkey pox. Do gay men not have a penis?

Pruella · 26/07/2022 21:37

In this case it’s correct to say genitalia doesn’t matter though isn’t it? It’s not a difference based in biology (such as having a penis or being XY) that makes gay men more at risk it’s behaviour.

PearlClench · 26/07/2022 21:38

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:23

OJ is using perfectly inclusive language by reflecting that men who have sex with men are most at risk. Trans women do not necessarily face the same risks as gay men.

Even in the article he recognises that people who are not MSM might also need prioritisation and targeted comms, such as sex workers.

How does a transwoman who is having sex with gay men have a different risk profile than a gay man?

hatedbythedailymail22 · 26/07/2022 21:38

TeaKlaxon · 26/07/2022 21:31

Where did I say being gay makes no difference to risk factors?

I very clearly agree with OJ that gay men are at higher risk of monkeypox.

You said The risk has zero to do with what genitals someone has

I'm pretty sure gay men all have penises. Therefore the risk very much has something to do with what genitals someone has.

(Some) People with penises are at much higher risk than (All) people with vaginas.

Ergo

Men at are higher risk than women.

Ergo

Your statement that genitals were immaterial was clearly very wrong.

Which bit are you confused about?

hatedbythedailymail22 · 26/07/2022 21:38

Pruella · 26/07/2022 21:37

In this case it’s correct to say genitalia doesn’t matter though isn’t it? It’s not a difference based in biology (such as having a penis or being XY) that makes gay men more at risk it’s behaviour.

No, its not at all correct. See above

PearlClench · 26/07/2022 21:38

Pruella · 26/07/2022 21:37

In this case it’s correct to say genitalia doesn’t matter though isn’t it? It’s not a difference based in biology (such as having a penis or being XY) that makes gay men more at risk it’s behaviour.

Being XY seems to drive the risky behaviour.

Pruella · 26/07/2022 21:41

Being XY seems to drive the risky behaviour.

Not in the majority of men - that’s why it’s disproportionately gay men rather than all men.

FOJN · 26/07/2022 21:41

Semantics. There are extremely few straight commercial sex venues. The vast majority are gay venues.

Calling for the closure of commercial sex venues is essentially the same as calling for closure of gay venues.

I think they are probably quite a few commercial sex venues for straight people even if they wouldn't be classified as sex venues. I can only imagine how many massage parlours there are in big cities and there are quite a few swingers clubs about. There will also be venues which host swingers nights whilst not actually be a dedicated commercial sex venue.

mrshoho · 26/07/2022 21:43

So are you saying transwomen don't engage in sex with gay men? Do they not mix in these networks you speak of?

hatedbythedailymail22 · 26/07/2022 21:47

Pruella · 26/07/2022 21:41

Being XY seems to drive the risky behaviour.

Not in the majority of men - that’s why it’s disproportionately gay men rather than all men.

But it is men? With penises? So the fact of them having penises is entirely salient to the risk factor.

2022again · 26/07/2022 21:49

Pruella · 26/07/2022 21:37

In this case it’s correct to say genitalia doesn’t matter though isn’t it? It’s not a difference based in biology (such as having a penis or being XY) that makes gay men more at risk it’s behaviour.

I would say the opposite in that genitalia DO matter as it's your chromosomes that create genitalia and its chromosomes that determine sex drive....it is true in all societies to say that "men" aka people with XY chromosomes are on average more promiscuous and have more lifetime partners than "women" aka people with XX chromosomes ....hence someone who is XY having non-monogamous sex with other people with XY chromosomes is more likely to catch money pox! But try putting that in a soundbite....

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