Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Kemi Badenoch through to next round

1000 replies

InTheCanteen · 13/07/2022 17:24

If you have a Conservative MP and want to protect the rights of women and safeguard children please email them TONIGHT and ask them to support Kemi.

Penny Mordaunt still the bookies favourite (and they aren't often wrong) but we need to let everyone know how dangerous it will be for this woman to become PM; I don't believe she has changed her mind for one moment.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
9
beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 13:08

I'm left wing. I have never voted Conservative and it's highly unlikely that I ever will. But I am genuinely interested in KB, despite her political convictions being so at odds with my own. I admire her forthrightness, her intelligence and her courage to speak her mind and be her own person. She also comes across - to me at least - as more human than all the others in the running for leader.

I don't understand the vitriol that she seems to evoke given that (as others have pointed out) her position is not unlike most of the other candidates.

I think you've answered your own question there, at least in part. People can see Kemi is a likeable, forthright, intelligent and courageous person, and they know that because of that, she's a potential vote-winner, i.e. threat. She's also a threat to the left because she's a black woman, and therefore represents the contradiction to their narrative that black women are always and only victims, never winners. It would upset the narrative if a black woman was PM, because then the left wouldn't be able to trade so easily on their conviction that the UK is systemically racist.

ScribblingPixie · 20/07/2022 13:14

I've watched several of her speeches and parliamentary appearance on Youtube, from her maiden speech onwards, and the comments are full of people saying 'I'm listening to a future PM'. These are comments made months and years ago. She's got it for sure.

ScrollingLeaves · 20/07/2022 13:15

Are you saying that Kemi has similar views to Lawrence Fox?

The hypothesis was “what if a white said the same?” It doesn’t really matter if it is Laurence Fox or anyone else, or their views in real life, but I thought he might be bolshy enough to say what he thought right or wrong.

No, I do not think LF has similar views to KB.

As K B has a particular individual intelligence and knack in cutting through to the essence of an issue in an argument, I think nobody else (white men, white women or other black women or men) would in fact have been capable of saying exactly what she said on that occasion.

MangyInseam · 20/07/2022 13:17

I think part of the issue is the how incredibly reductive the "motivated by hate" trope.

The idea that the only reason people might think immigration needs to be looked at is "hate,"for example. It's low level thinking and also thinking that shows a real lack of awareness of what has happened to communities and factors involved in development immigration policy.

I suspect part of the issue is that there is a lazy assumption at the beginning that "hate" is behind any policy that the individual doesn't like, so they never really can get as far as thinking about it. The Rwanda policy is a good example. I think it's not a good idea, I don't think Rwanda has the social/political capacity to fulfill that role, and it's such incredibly bad optics that it just seems like a non-starter. But I can understand why someone might propose sending all refugee claimants through a centralized checkpoint. I've been involved in refugee resettlement, I know what's involved in the process, I know many refugees are in fact applying from such places now because that has been the only real way to manage the numbers of people, and I also know that it looks very likely that this issue will only increase in the future. I also know that the countries willing to host these kinds of places don't generally seem to be European nations - I sure as heck can't picture France offering to play that role.

Does that mean that this kind of policy, even if Rwanda was out of the picture, is the best approach? No. But it's a far cry from imagining the only reason anyone thinks it would make sense is "hate". It's a thought terminating idea.

GCtothemoon · 20/07/2022 13:20

No, I do not think LF has similar views to KB.

Laurence Fox and his supporters think they have similar views to KB

Kemi Badenoch through to next round
Kemi Badenoch through to next round
beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 13:28

But so what @GCtothemoon ? That's their choice, surely, and nothing to do with Kemi. She doesn't support the Reclaim party - she's a tory! If she wanted to be a member of Reclaim I'm sure she would go ahead and do that.

I hate this guilt by association stuff. It's so incredible lazy. Low level thinking, as a pp put it.

beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 13:40

So @GCtothemoon I just went and had a look at the Reclaim website where they set out their mission. I think there are some questionable parts but also some things I agree with, such as the importance of free speech, getting rid of net zero policies, depoliticising national institutions, equality for all. With immigration, I think it's very complex, but I do agree with Reclaim where they say we need to stop human trafficking. I think there has to be a proper conversation about illegal immigration. Do you agree with any of those things? Or would you take the opposite stance on all their policies simply because they're right wing, you're left wing?

Ballago · 20/07/2022 13:40

beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 13:28

But so what @GCtothemoon ? That's their choice, surely, and nothing to do with Kemi. She doesn't support the Reclaim party - she's a tory! If she wanted to be a member of Reclaim I'm sure she would go ahead and do that.

I hate this guilt by association stuff. It's so incredible lazy. Low level thinking, as a pp put it.

It was in response to @ScrollingLeaves who had claimed the opposite.

Wind yer neck in.

MarshaBradyo · 20/07/2022 13:46

Immigration will become more an issue as migration from uninhabitable countries increases

Labour will need to address it in a credible way with increasing numbers and behaviour changes that come with any policy

Just listening to radio claim that Labour will shift to centre for next GE, so not so tied to the unions. I could be persuaded by a more central Labour, if women were listened to.

It does mean a fight for central ground and shift away from left generally.

I think recent events with huge spending will result in this natural shift, but also future events will see the same

Again Aus is a good place to see where Labor keep sane immigration policies

There will always be people talking about ‘policies of hate’ but the electorate will move towards solutions - and it’ll just be the few that talk about it rather than run on it

jgw1 · 20/07/2022 13:57

GCAcademic · 20/07/2022 12:17

I expect they agree and disagree on all manner on things, as is perfectly normal for human beings to do. In any case, I find it fairer to judge people on their own expressed views, rather than resorting to guilt by association.

Why do you think one should feel guilty if one agrees with Lawrence Fox?

jgw1 · 20/07/2022 13:59

beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 12:24

I'd like you to defend all the arguments you make. Don't think it's too much to expect.

Could you pick one, to help me know where to start?

MarshaBradyo · 20/07/2022 14:00

Same…

jgw1 · 20/07/2022 14:04

beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 13:28

But so what @GCtothemoon ? That's their choice, surely, and nothing to do with Kemi. She doesn't support the Reclaim party - she's a tory! If she wanted to be a member of Reclaim I'm sure she would go ahead and do that.

I hate this guilt by association stuff. It's so incredible lazy. Low level thinking, as a pp put it.

Shouldn't Kemi be proud of having all these good people endorsing her?

GCAcademic · 20/07/2022 14:04

jgw1 · 20/07/2022 13:57

Why do you think one should feel guilty if one agrees with Lawrence Fox?

Agrees with him about what, exactly?

It was your line of questioning which suggested that there was a Big Problem and huge “gotcha” with Badenoch agreeing in any way with Fox.

Im sure even you must share some views with Fox.

beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 14:05

Ballago · 20/07/2022 13:40

It was in response to @ScrollingLeaves who had claimed the opposite.

Wind yer neck in.

Don't be so rude. My comments are perfectly fine.

MarshaBradyo · 20/07/2022 14:06

Ballago · 20/07/2022 13:40

It was in response to @ScrollingLeaves who had claimed the opposite.

Wind yer neck in.

This isn’t AIBU

plus anyone can respond to posts

beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 14:08

jgw1 · 20/07/2022 14:04

Shouldn't Kemi be proud of having all these good people endorsing her?

What are you even trying to say? You shroud all your little quips in sarcasm and doublespeak. Presumably to avoid having to explain yourself or so you can dodge your way out of answering direct questions.

Just say, clearly, what it is that you think. Is it that you think Kemi is responsible for what others say about her? If so, why do you think that? Is it that you think there's guilt by association, so you can just associate Kemi with anyone you like and then point the finger at her? Is it that you are hinting that Kemi is indeed 'proud' of being endorsed by Reclaim? If so, what's your evidence for that, and what's your argument as to why this makes Kemi a bad person/politician?

beastlyslumber · 20/07/2022 14:09

jgw1 · 20/07/2022 13:59

Could you pick one, to help me know where to start?

Certainly. Let's just go for your last comment. Just say, clearly, what it is that you think. Is it that you think Kemi is responsible for what others say about her? If so, why do you think that? Is it that you think there's guilt by association, so you can just associate Kemi with anyone you like and then point the finger at her? Is it that you are hinting that Kemi is indeed 'proud' of being endorsed by Reclaim? If so, what's your evidence for that, and what's your argument as to why this makes Kemi a bad person/politician?

Boxowine · 20/07/2022 14:40

MangyInseam · 19/07/2022 23:02

Well if we did that we'd probably be aligned with Focus on the Family or something and that would make us Far Right.

@MangyInseam
Are you aligned with Focus on the Family? It is a right wing fundamentalist Christian organization that promotes its religious views ( I think that's great) but also seeks to influence American politics ( I think that's not great).

Their views include opposing abortion, access to contraceptives, gay marriage and adoption of children by gay couples.

Why do you promote this organization to women in the UK? Specifically, do you think that they would benefit from an organization dedicated to opposing gay marriage?

GCAcademic · 20/07/2022 14:45

Boxowine · 20/07/2022 14:40

@MangyInseam
Are you aligned with Focus on the Family? It is a right wing fundamentalist Christian organization that promotes its religious views ( I think that's great) but also seeks to influence American politics ( I think that's not great).

Their views include opposing abortion, access to contraceptives, gay marriage and adoption of children by gay couples.

Why do you promote this organization to women in the UK? Specifically, do you think that they would benefit from an organization dedicated to opposing gay marriage?

Brilliant! You’ve just proved her point!

MangyInseam · 20/07/2022 14:53

Boxowine · 20/07/2022 14:40

@MangyInseam
Are you aligned with Focus on the Family? It is a right wing fundamentalist Christian organization that promotes its religious views ( I think that's great) but also seeks to influence American politics ( I think that's not great).

Their views include opposing abortion, access to contraceptives, gay marriage and adoption of children by gay couples.

Why do you promote this organization to women in the UK? Specifically, do you think that they would benefit from an organization dedicated to opposing gay marriage?

Oh boy.

ScrollingLeaves · 20/07/2022 15:01

@GCtothemoon · Today 13:20

I had said ‘No, I do not think LF has similar views to KB.’

Laurence Fox and his supporters think they have similar views to KB
Kemi Badenoch through to next roundKemi Badenoch through to next round

I don’t know what views he was mentioning that you are referring to. If one of them is, thinking women and girls should have protected spaces, then like a very large proportion of people in the U.K. who agree (98% in a You Gov poll), he would have similar views on that issue.

But the point I am making is that in the specific context of that exchange with Caroline Noakes discussing a trans girl sharing a form with teenage girls, neither he or anyone else is likely to have so brought out the argument, and shown that it is not about trans hate but about sex based based privacy and safety, in the sharp, revealing way K B did.

C N intended K B to be revealed as a bigot, but that’s not what happened.

L F would have been called a bigot. Why not K B? Because she was a protected minority and so a useful mouth piece for a possibly bigoted view, because no one would dare criticise her for it?

No, not imo. It was because her intelligent line of questioning revealed an absurdity in Caroline Noakes’s stance. ( This was that everyone was about to see proof of the transphobia and bigotry of anyone who thought a trans girl shouldn’t be in a girls’ dorm.)

LK1972 · 20/07/2022 15:02

@Boxowine your last answer is hilarious, is it for real or sarcasm?

Boxowine · 20/07/2022 15:12

It's a simple question. Why bring up Focus on the Family?
They are either an organization whose purpose women in the UK would benefit from or they are entirely irrelevant.

So, are you in alignment with them or not?

Boxowine · 20/07/2022 15:14

It's extremely simple to repudiate them. If that's actually your opinion.

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.