I’d be really interested to know, @placewherewebelong , if you think all of the xenogenders and neopronouns are all just valid parts of gender identity, and therefore must never be mocked, whether it’s dollkin or otherkin or spacecatgender or therian or cupioromantic or whatever.
If a thirteen year old pops up demanding I change their name to Felix and use xie/xir pronouns because they claim they really are catgender, is it transphobic not to believe in every last bit of it all?
Are they being transphobic? Is not immediately validating this “identity” transphobic? If we ever crack a gentle smile on hearing the latest made up xenogender invented by teenagers on Tumblr is that also transphobic?
Here’s a list of some identity labels straight off social media:
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rabiespunk, biromantic, lovegender, quoisexual, achillean, sapphillean, ponygender, celestetherea, chigender, kittigender, bugender, flopgender, fligender, liminalgender, lovepunk, amatopunk, plushgender, bunnygender, bungender, moongender, octogender, muttgender chaotithing, citriaromic, knifegender, termcollectorflux, gyneflexible, liongender, feminyc, dispugender, junic, doxigender, duogender, osimirian, zygomycotagender, cosmicgender, omnisexual, arospec, acespec
Do you genuinely think these really all actually exist? And that any mocking of any of these is transphobic? We’re all meant to treat these as sacred cows in case we offend anyone who identifies as such?