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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

LGB Alliance to plan helpline with Lottery funding

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pombear · 10/06/2022 20:29

Fantastic news.

I would link to their Twitter announcement, but in usual state of play, Twitter has marked it ' may not be appropriate for people under 18'. A helpline planned for 13 to 25 year olds, planned by a panel of experts in child protection, education, helpline delivery, fundraising and psychology.

Yep - shut them down (much better to have helplines planned by IT workers who took their child to Thailand...)

As LGB Alliance state there is no dedicated national service of its kind for young LGB people in the UK.

I'm sure the Lottery Fund will be getting a lot of feedback right now, given the outpouring of hyperbole against LGB Alliance right now on Twitter.

So they may appreciate feedback from those who may see this as a positive move too:

""We really value your feedback. If you have a comment or complaint about the services that we provide, or if there's something important you think we should know, we'd love to hear it. Please email us at [email protected]"

LGB Alliance to plan helpline with Lottery funding
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Helleofabore · 17/06/2022 14:46

Helleofabore · 17/06/2022 14:33

I will wait Artichoke, but I suspect it was the well known extreme trans activist that used the female toilets knowing that the conference had adopted the policy of toilets being 'single sex' as their right under the EA2010 and a man who attended the conference saw them and reacted.

I will await also for evidence that that extreme trans activist was in anyway abused outside them being caught as a male using the female single sex toilets clearly marked as female single sex.

Convenient wasn't it that a transitioned male non-member of the LGB Alliance just so happened to make a drama out of using a female single sex toilet that was marked as such at the LGB Alliance conference.

Again... these 'gotcha' moments that keep getting posted are really not showing what the posters actually intend...

And to be clear here.

This 'gotcha' actually highlighted that a transitioned male was not able to respect the needs of females.

We keep being told by activists that transitioned males fully respect the needs of females and would respect a plainly signed single sex toilet to be solely for the use of females and females only.

This 'gotcha' posted by RhinestoneCow merely highlighted that females are quite right to be suspicious of assertions such as that. That while many transitioned males WOULD and, in fact, DO respect the need for single sex spaces to be for females only when sex matter, this activist clearly cannot respect it when clearly notified.

Starlee · 17/06/2022 14:46

NecessaryScene · 16/06/2022 13:23

Same goes for disabled people, they are also there under all the various letters, LGBT is not a disablist label.

Amazing.

So how come so many people can't grasp that trans people are there in the LGB Alliance under those 3 letters?

Weird.

I have stated many times that many trans people are also LGB. It's the LGBAlliance who want the T excluded, they don't want them there.

Helleofabore · 17/06/2022 14:57

I have stated many times that many trans people are also LGB. It's the LGBAlliance who want the T excluded, they don't want them there.

Please post the evidence where LGB Alliance 'excludes' trans people?

It actually doesn't matter how many time you state it. If you cannot provide the evidence, it remains untrue. Despite the repetition.

VestofAbsurdity · 17/06/2022 15:03

Helleofabore · 17/06/2022 14:57

I have stated many times that many trans people are also LGB. It's the LGBAlliance who want the T excluded, they don't want them there.

Please post the evidence where LGB Alliance 'excludes' trans people?

It actually doesn't matter how many time you state it. If you cannot provide the evidence, it remains untrue. Despite the repetition.

The indoctrination on display is astounding. No evidence, no proof, just constantly parrot the same line over and over again.

Starlee · 17/06/2022 15:06

NecessaryScene · 16/06/2022 13:44

How do you prove lgb exists? Ask lgb people themselves

Um, no, actually. We observe people's behaviour. If no man ever had sex with a man, and no woman ever had sex with a woman, we would be equally sceptical about "LGB" existing.

We also observe the behaviour of those who claim to have gender identities. It's not perceptively different from those who don't. Men who say they're women act like men, and women who say they're men act like women.

There's no perceptible commonality between a man with a "woman identity" and an actual woman, and there's no perceptible difference between that man and any other man. Hence the scepticism.

Sure, maybe that man has "dysphoria", but a "gender identity" shared with the opposite sex? Totally counter to all observable evidence.

So as well as you thinking that trans people are wrong, you also think LGB people can't be trusted to know themselves either, that you know better by observing them?

"We also observe the behaviour of those who claim to have gender identities. It's not perceptively different from those who don't. Men who say they're women act like men, and women who say they're men act like women."
What does "act like men" and "act like women" actually mean? I though you didn't go in for sexual stereotypes, that's one of the main complaints I've seen mentioned against trans people?

Artichokeleaves · 17/06/2022 15:15

you also think LGB people can't be trusted to know themselves either,

Honey there are LGB people talking to you directly on this conversation thread. I'm one of them. I know at least one other has similarly identified themselves.

TastefulRainbowUnicorn · 17/06/2022 15:17

What does "act like men" and "act like women" actually mean?

There are many average differences between male and female behaviour. Men are more violent, more aggressive, more likely to be narcissistic, including overestimating their own physical attractiveness, more likely to misread social cues, especially from women, more likely to commit sexual assault and more likely to have paraphilias. For example.

Of course some women also do some or all of these things. And many men do not. But you’d expect that a group of men who identify as women might display less stereotypically masculine behaviours than other men.That is not the case.

Starlee · 17/06/2022 15:18

NotKevinTurvey · 16/06/2022 13:50

You seem to be struggling here. We know that homosexuality exists, it’s observable. There is no evidence of an innate gender.

It’s a religious belief, like the existence of a soul.

Sadly trans activists seem unable to understand this, what with them nearly all being quite poorly educated, and not the sharpest tools in the box.

Oh ffs, now you're being completely stupid, and ridiculously judgmental. So do these "quite poorly educated" trans supporters include those who are also LGB, or just those you consider to be hetero? How bloody arrogant can you get?!

Helleofabore · 17/06/2022 15:26

Oh ffs, now you're being completely stupid, and ridiculously judgmental.

😂

Hearach15 · 17/06/2022 15:26

Helleofabore · 17/06/2022 11:14

Did you actually READ my post there earache?

I mean.... did you? Really?

I did indeed. You said:

"Perhaps you might be surprised to also realise that young people are also some of the least tolerant people in the UK."

The data there is certainly an outlier and I produced evidence that corrected you.

Hearach15 · 17/06/2022 15:27

Conflictedunicorn · 17/06/2022 11:18

So instead of being mature, attending the conference but registering their concerns, they they threw the LGB people coming to the conference under the bus because the T wasn’t getting what it wanted. So how can all the letters be equal. What are stonewall doing about all the threats of rape and murder to lesbians who refuse to accept TW in their dating pool. Are they saying the feelings of TW are more important than those of lesbians? In which case, how can all the letters be equal?

It's like NATO - an attack on one is an attack on all of us.

If you haven't heard of the word 'solidarity' I suggest you google it.

darcyesque · 17/06/2022 15:28

There's no such thing as innate gender identity . It's impossible.

Hearach15 · 17/06/2022 15:30

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 17/06/2022 11:54

people against gay marriage are homophobes.

loads of gay people were opposed to gay marriage, feeling that it was ‘heteronormative’

you don’t know much about your community do you?

It's like when in the 1910s there were women who opposed the right to vote:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-suffragism#:~:text=The%20first%20women%2Dled%20anti,Madeleine%20Vinton%20Dahlgren%20in%201869.

They were sexists in the same way gay people who are against gay rights are homophobes.

darcyesque · 17/06/2022 15:36

Why do you always try to bring other issues in. Could it be because you don't have a leg to stand on when your issue stands alone?

The fact is: a male with dysphoria is a male with dysphoria. Everybody knows this, even people who say they don't. If they thought they were women they wouldn't do what they tell them to do.

Lovelyricepudding · 17/06/2022 15:38

What does "act like men" and "act like women" actually mean?

'Act like a man' is basically how transwomen behave. Watch them and you will see how men act.

Helleofabore · 17/06/2022 15:39

The data there is certainly an outlier and I produced evidence that corrected you.

In what way do you think you 'corrected' me?

You seem to have not done an analysis on the raw data that that article draws from.

And please do read the Dr Frank Luntz study from mid 2021 on YouGov and the follow up released by YouGov in December 2021. It too showed that while many in that generation are on the face of it 'inclusive', the reality is that they are also the most intolerant and that people in that generation felt it was sometimes impossible to be truthful for fear of being ostracised or worse.

So.. that is two studies from last year and those stats from that 'muchincommon' study showing that while they may be 'inclusive' they are also the group that was the most 'disgusted' and 'angry'.

The extremes exist and the extremes mean that there is a definite need for LGB helplines that deal just with LGB issues.

Or do you deny that there is a polarisation shown there within that age group?

VestofAbsurdity · 17/06/2022 15:42

It's like NATO - an attack on one is an attack on all of us.

This is just too funny for words, how can the person posting this post it with a straight face after what they have been posting interminably on this thread.

Lovelyricepudding · 17/06/2022 15:43

It's like NATO - an attack on one is an attack on all of us.

There were good reasons why Ukraine was not admitted to NATO

Helleofabore · 17/06/2022 15:44

It's like NATO - an attack on one is an attack on all of us.

If you haven't heard of the word 'solidarity' I suggest you google it.

You don't show 'solidarity' by not attending conferences and events or having discussions with other groups or individuals that you disagree with.

This is how 'echo chambers' are created and how group think eventuates.

A mature approach is to continue to engage with respect and ensure that the organisation's voice is heard and that lines of communication are left open.

I really do see now that when some posters who visit FWR, not necessarily on this thread, start accusing MN of being echo chambers, they really are projecting.

Starlee · 17/06/2022 15:48

DeaconBoo · 16/06/2022 13:54

starlee, as citrus hasn't returned, can you answer? You believe that heterosexual (ie a person of one sex attracted solely to people of the opposite sex) people can be gay, don't you?

You want me to answer someone else's question for them? I didn't realise you had so much faith in my opinion!😂

TastefulRainbowUnicorn · 17/06/2022 15:49

The data there is certainly an outlier and I produced evidence that corrected you

🤦‍♀️ that is embarrassing. The two data sources are from the same organisation.

You didn’t “correct” anything. They don’t contradict each other. Nuance and intelligence and critical thinking and even empathy (real empathy, not performative empathy) are required to interpret data like this.

You may not have much of the above, but you’d still benefit from actually reading and thinking instead of reflexively reaching for a source you don’t understand to slap down another source you don’t understand purely because the latter contains information you don’t like.

sowiwag · 17/06/2022 15:51

DeaconBoo · 17/06/2022 14:06

To say there is a 'mismatch' between mind and body, we would first need to know what a 'match' looks like.

Can anyone, ANYONE, say - clearly and unambiguously - which types of mind match which sex?

Starlee has now ignored this question several times, despite being the one to claim there are 'matches' and 'mismatches'.

Yet they tell me to 'go and learn from trans people'. But those that post here are similarly unable to answer that question.

Do they not know, or do they not want to say for some reason?

The question (you know this, of course, I'm just trying to get it clear) is a subordinate question to that involved in the well-known mind/body problem ('mbp'): how do (non-material) minds relate/interact (causally and otherwise) with (material) bodies?

Given the assumed possibility of 'matching', trans metaphysics has to take it that minds and bodies, although different in certain ways, are nevertheless the same sort of thing. But this, now, constrains the solution-space of the mbp.

Generally, the trans metaphysician has to say one of three things about mind/body interaction: it's a miracle ('God does it'); mental things reduce to physical things; physical things reduce to mental things. Generally she doesn't want to say any of those; the question you pose, then, remains, not just unanswered, but unanswerable.

A more promising line with mbp (given we don't like any of those three answers), is to deny that minds and bodies are the same sort of thing. Gilbert Ryle, for instance, in castigating what he called the 'myth' of the 'ghost in the machine', described the mistake involved in thinking minds and bodies are the same sort of thing as a 'category error', a locution which has become relatively mainstream. (That's in his Concept of Mind, of course, though not exclusively.)

Others have made similar moves. I mentioned David Hume in an earlier post. Buddhism has an interesting, some would say similar, take on mbp. And so on.

OK, that all needs further explanation. This is not the place. But two things strike here:

  1. If minds and bodies are not within a single category, it is difficult - say nonsensical - to think of matching them one with another. So trans metaphysics collapses.
  2. The important thing here is not so much that trans metaphysics is wrong (although it is); the important thing is that it is debatable. Given the possibility of error, and the fact of disagreement, it would be crazily unreasonable to base public policy on such grounds. We should not, that is, allow trans metaphysics, or the policies it claims to underpin, into any part of our public weal.

So, in short, those who believe in matching minds to bodies should be left to their own devices and not allowed any group influence in public policy or public institutions such as schools and healthcare services. Such a bar is of course well possible without discrimination or any kind of 'phobic' outcome: it is a policy well established for other different metaphysical, philosophical and religious groupings of believers.

LG and B? Different, of course. We have every reason to accept LGB concerns into deliberation on public policy. Just not T, for the reasons I have outlined.

Conflictedunicorn · 17/06/2022 15:57

It's like NATO - an attack on one is an attack on all of us.

If you haven't heard of the word 'solidarity' I suggest you google it.

so where is your solidarity for the lesbians being harassed by TW? What are stonewall doing about that? Or do they not count? When a lesbian gets attacked by a TW, why are stonewall not defending her? Why is Nancy Kelly telling lesbians they are ‘sexual racists’ and genital preference is akin to anti semitism. Where is the solidarity for lesbians there? When gay men are told if they don’t date transmen they are bigots, where is the answer from stonewall supporting them? I’m sure you have many examples of stonewalls support for these people right? After all, an attack on one is an attack on all right?

Lightorchestral · 17/06/2022 15:59

🤦‍♀️ that is embarrassing.

This whole thread has been embarrassing for the TRAs, time and again they return and are constantly shown up by smart, educated women.

ArcheryAnnie · 17/06/2022 15:59

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This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

Stonewall didn't just follow Aimee Challenor, but had Challenor as a core part of their team.

Cracking bit of quality control, that

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