Persuading the left that gender ideology harms women is a goal for many feminists in my country primarily because we know the right isn't our ally...but the left might be if properly persuaded
Maybe that's the difference between us - I think that's pointless and, while I don’t pretend to understand US politics, I admit I find the loyalty to the democrats quite baffling considering how they’re screwing you over at the moment.
I guess a lot of UK GC feminists, and certainly me included, no longer consider either the left or the right to be our allies. I don't believe either can be trusted with women's rights and I've begun to think the only way forward is for women on the right and left to put aside our differences and, where there is common ground, work together.
It sounds like that would be impossible in the US however.
I can understand why you feel emotional (I think that was the word you used) at the moment. It must be hard. But women on here are not your enemy.
I will read the Ovarit links.
And of course you're not a TRA you've been on here for ages 😀Although, in fairness, I think the advanced search facility is buggered at the moment so not everyone may know that.