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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

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Emma Nicholson in the Times

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Igneococcus · 15/03/2022 22:06

On single sex wards:

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/f6f6c84a-a499-11ec-b05a-8d7b276f1397?shareToken=1c8f4c99404e08ae113db7787fb3686e

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DomesticatedZombie · 17/03/2022 15:05

'a clear minority'

Doesn't matter. Nobody else can say 'oh, it's only a few women who would be traumatised, fuck them'.

Women say no; the answer is no.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/03/2022 15:06

[quote partystress]@RobinMoiraWhite. Where is your evidence for ‘a clear minority’?

Not outdated or bogus surveys where it is not made clear that trans woman does not necessarily mean post-surgery, but current data from a statistically sound sample of women who were asked how they feel about sharing currently single-sex spaces with people with penises.[/quote]
Yes, I'd like to see this evidence too.

I've just looked through Hansard and found it extremely interesting. Many thanks for the link. Would that I could be as coherent as many of the noble Lords and Ladies at any time, never mind the early hours of the morning! I'd forgotten that Ruth Hunt is now in the House of Lords.

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DomesticatedZombie · 17/03/2022 15:06

@RobinMoiraWhite

I asked for evidence, not anecdote.

And I’m entirely happy to stand by my comments and work record.

I see, so you don't care about the woman who was raped and then told it couldn't have happened. Because to you women speaking is mere 'anecdote'.

Telling.

DomesticatedZombie · 17/03/2022 15:08

Because that is your response to being told a woman was raped - 'I asked for evidence, not anecdote'.

This is 'Be Kind' in action.

DomesticatedZombie · 17/03/2022 15:08

And what is most shocking to most women reading this thread, I would guess, is that you don't even see the problem with what you've said, Robin.

DomesticatedZombie · 17/03/2022 15:09

Here, I will let you in on a wee sisterly secret: Women don't like being raped.

We even tend to get quite angry when our 'lived experience' is dismissed, belittled or sneered at.

ResisterRex · 17/03/2022 15:17

@334bu

So Robin do you believe that women have no right to have single sex spaces when they are vulnerable?
Surely this question was missed by mistake and will be answered soon.
Terfydactyl · 17/03/2022 15:31

Some women - a clear minority

Allegedly theres a minority of transwomen, which minority matter more?

334bu · 17/03/2022 15:40

**Surely this question was missed by mistake and will be answered soon"

Grin
ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 17/03/2022 15:44

Robin

Have a look at how the answers change when it is made clear the trans gender person has not undergone reassignment surgery

yougov.co.uk/topics/politics/articles-reports/2020/07/16/where-does-british-public-stand-transgender-rights

Women do not want to share single sex spaces with penises.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/03/2022 15:45

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4507394-To-think-most-women-would-prefer-to-be-on-a-single-sex-ward-as-hospital-in-patients?watched=1&msgid=115927043#115927043

97% prefer single-sex wards so far, just over 100 votes in under an hour. Not scientific, but rather far from a 'clear minority'.

StandUpStraight · 17/03/2022 15:45

“Your anecdote is not evidence, bring me more raped women.”

If I were a certain barrister I might be contacting MN and asking them to delete some of my posts at this point.

Imnobody4 · 17/03/2022 15:54

Re evidence and anecdote. Where is the evidence that transwomen suffer on male wards? Where is the evidence that any transwoman has been raped or assaulted in a hospital?
Surveys and personal testimony are either evidence or anecdotes but that definition must apply to both women and transwomen. Surveys must be properly constructed and analysed to expose flaws.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/03/2022 15:58

Yes, and I'd like to see polls using clear English. Judging by Twitter, some who say they have been subjected to violence actually mean 'My colleague didn't use my pronouns/My Mum called me by my deadname/The cashier [seeing a 6'2 broad-shouldered customer] misgendered me' and so on. These incidents may be upsetting but they aren't what most of us mean by violence.

334bu · 17/03/2022 16:00

Also where is the evidence that males who identify as women are less dangerous to women than other males.

Artichokeleaves · 17/03/2022 16:07

We have evidenced through court women who have been raped in prisons through male prisoners being provided with access to them. We now have a raped woman in a hospital ward.

They still don't count, do they?

Pick a number. How many women have to be raped, harmed or worse before male people might possibly consider that they have some duty of care worth infringing male freedoms for?

And then explain why it is that there is this bafflingly patriarchial view that women are just vassals and men are the keepers of the facts, the determiners of resources and the arbiters of when women may be granted the official recognition that yes, they have a bit of a problem and permission is graciously given to look into it a bit?

The 1800s called. They want their sexism back.

DomesticatedZombie · 17/03/2022 16:20

@Imnobody4

Re evidence and anecdote. Where is the evidence that transwomen suffer on male wards? Where is the evidence that any transwoman has been raped or assaulted in a hospital? Surveys and personal testimony are either evidence or anecdotes but that definition must apply to both women and transwomen. Surveys must be properly constructed and analysed to expose flaws.
Yes, this is an excellent point. Women are being asked to surrender our rights to single sex wards on the basis of what?
Norma27 · 17/03/2022 17:31

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OldCrone · 17/03/2022 18:32

Did you watch the debate? Lord Etherton set the law out quite clearly.

Extracts from Lord Etherton's speech:

Gender reassignment is a protected characteristic. The Act defines that protected characteristic in very wide terms. It includes where a person is proposing to undergo, or is undergoing, a process, or part of a process, for the purpose of reassignment by changing physiological or other attributes of sex. This means that a person may have the protected characteristic without having undergone full surgical reassignment, let alone having a gender recognition certificate. It will be sufficient, for example, if they had adopted attributes of a different sex, such as name, dress or hair, in their intended process of transition.

Under the Equality Act, a person who provides a service to the public, which would include the National Health Service, must not discriminate against a trans person in the terms on which the service is provided; nor can they subject the trans person to any other detriment or harass them. The service provider must make reasonable adjustments where appropriate.

If matters stopped there, the NHS would be acting unlawfully in failing to allocate accommodation and other facilities to match the gender identity of transsexuals.

...any permitted derogation from the anti-discrimination and anti-harassment provisions governing the NHS in relation to trans people requires a case-by-case appraisal. Any derogation must be for a legitimate aim. It is not a legitimate aim that some people feel uncomfortable sharing accommodation and facilities with trans people of the opposite birth sex. That would make a nonsense of having the statutory protected characteristic in the first place.

He says that anyone is protected under the PC of gender reassignment as soon as they change their name or some superficial aspects of their appearance and they must then be allocated accommodation according to their 'gender identity' and to do otherwise would be unlawful discrimination.

He says that removing a male transgender person with a penis from a women's ward because some of the women feel uncomfortable (perhaps because they fear being raped, perhaps just discomfort at being placed in such a situation with a male while they are vulnerable) is not a 'legitimate aim'.

He continues that the there would be no reason to have the protected characteristic if a male could not self-identify into a female-only space.

This is not how I understand the Equality Act is supposed to work. Saying that the only reason for the protected characteristic of gender reassignment is to override the protected characteristic of sex is not what I thought was intended.

DomesticatedZombie · 17/03/2022 18:53

attributes of a different sex, such as name, dress or hair,

It's all about your hair, ladies. All about the hair.

Saying that the only reason for the protected characteristic of gender reassignment is to override the protected characteristic of sex is not what I thought was intended.

No, but it's arguably what the GRA is aiming to do.

NecessaryScene · 17/03/2022 19:07

He continues that the there would be no reason to have the protected characteristic if a male could not self-identify into a female-only space.

That's obvious nonsense. The primary point of the protected characteristic is to stop someone transitioning or planning to transition from being denied service or fired or the like.

Exactly the same as all the other protected characteristics.

That's quite separate from anything about treating them as the opposite sex.

Stuff about single-sex exemptions permitting sex discrimination with a legitimate aim, and how those exemptions interact with GRCs and the gender reassignment characteristic is a more complex separate issue.

We haven't even managed to establish that women are allowed female-only spaces from their protected characteristic, let alone that trans people are permitted in opposite-sex spaces. It's a higher-level issue from simple "discrimination".

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 17/03/2022 19:43

@DomesticatedZombie

Because that is your response to being told a woman was raped - 'I asked for evidence, not anecdote'.

This is 'Be Kind' in action.

I've been considering quite why I find this so unsettling.

I've decided it's because it gives an insight into the mindset of people in the legal system and the shared training that produces those who are closely involved with the handling of rape complainants and:
—the decision to prosecute the case or not
—the dismal outcomes of the negligible number that do go to court.

Beyond that, I have a unshakeable feeling that it's also an insight into what I'll characterise as, "We can't consent to this" and "sex gone wrong" cases and sentencing.

Misogyny and an absence of care for the dignity of women or a shared respect for the lived experience of women is at the heart of both of these: there are many other shortcomings that mean the legal system fails women in every area of life and denies accountability for those who exploit vulnerabilities, from physical through to financial.

littlbrowndog · 17/03/2022 20:00

RMW you should read the AIBU on this

This is what women feel

We are angry

Fucking angry

CharlieParley · 17/03/2022 20:01

He says that removing a male transgender person with a penis from a women's ward because some of the women feel uncomfortable (perhaps because they fear being raped, perhaps just discomfort at being placed in such a situation with a male while they are vulnerable) is not a 'legitimate aim'.

He is wrong. And I quote from Schedule 3, Part 7 of the Equality Act 2010:

Single-sex services

27(1)A person does not contravene section 29, so far as relating to sex discrimination, by providing a service only to persons of one sex if—

(a)any of the conditions in sub-paragraphs (2) to (7) is satisfied, and
(b)the limited provision is a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

(2)The condition is that only persons of that sex have need of the service.

(3)The condition is that—
(a)the service is also provided jointly for persons of both sexes, and
(b)the service would be insufficiently effective were it only to be provided jointly.

(4)The condition is that—
(a)a joint service for persons of both sexes would be less effective, and
(b)the extent to which the service is required by persons of each sex makes it not reasonably practicable to provide separate services.

(5)The condition is that the service is provided at a place which is, or is part of
(a)a hospital, or
(b)another establishment for persons requiring special care, supervision or attention.

(6)The condition is that—
(a)the service is provided for, or is likely to be used by, two or more persons at the same time, and
(b)the circumstances are such that a person of one sex might reasonably object to the presence of a person of the opposite sex.

(7)The condition is that—
(a)there is likely to be physical contact between a person (A) to whom the service is provided and another person (B), and
(b)B might reasonably object if A were not of the same sex as B.

Note that conditions 6 and 7 specifically refer to it being reasonable to object to the presence of another person purely because they are of the opposite sex. This includes women's feelings of discomfort at having their privacy and dignity violated by the presence of men.

Note also that no reasonableness test is required in the case of hospitals. The fact that it is a hospital is enough reason to separate the sexes. Furthermore, the Equality Act 2010 goes on to specifically refer to

Gender reassignment

28(1)A person does not contravene section 29, so far as relating to gender reassignment discrimination, only because of anything done in relation to a matter within sub-paragraph (2) if the conduct in question is a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

(2)The matters are—
(a)the provision of separate services for persons of each sex;
(b)the provision of separate services differently for persons of each sex;
(c)the provision of a service only to persons of one sex.

As the judgement in For Women Scotland vs Scottish Government reminds us, for the purposes of the Equality Act 2010, there are men with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment and women with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment, with men defined as males of any age and women defined as females of any age.

And that provisions made only for women by definition exclude biological males.

Although this judgement is not binding on courts in England and Wales, it is the most recent interpretation of the Equality Act in this regard, made by the highest civil court in Scotland, and it does therefore carry considerable weight when deciding on these matters.

So, Lord Fetherington is wrong and he makes the usual mistake of forgetting that the discrimination provisions are mainly about not excluding a man with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment from services and spaces provided for all other men and not excluding a woman with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment from services and spaces provided for all other women. As well as not treating those with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment less favourably than members of their own sex in all other areas of public life.

Stonewall et al have advised public and private sector organisations for years now that it's all about not excluding those with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment from services and spaces provided for the opposite sex, and that has skewed the understanding of this to our detriment. But they did not tell the whole story, did they?