So very much of what we hear when trans women’s rights & women’s rights are seen to conflict appears - to me - to be upside down/back to front (& not in a charming Edward Lear sort of way).
Here, we are being asked for proof of harm. Hard to come by, given it is deliberately concealed; & when provided, somehow inadequate. Safeguarding means proving (as far as one can) the safety of the measure before implementation - that never happened. As with sport, the burden of proof has been perversely flipped: trans women have invaded women’s spaces* & women are being expected to provide mountains of evidence to prove that they continue to have they have the rights that are enshrined in law as they attempt to evict these gatecrashers.
As well as all the times things are deliberately disguised &/or suppressed, there are going to be innumerable women who are simply never heard. The mere existence of some women of faith is evidence. I wonder if there is some formula for calculating how many women have been so badly traumatised by VAWG that such a situation would prove intolerable to them.
I posted about needing single-sex wards on another thread:
I wouldn’t feel safe sharing a bay with any male person, however they choose to identify, when in hospital. It is bad enough having other women hear - because they inevitably do, unless you’re in a side room - every last detail of your body’s [mal]functions. I have had the experience of another patient’s male relative staying in the Bay (he was not meant to be there, staff were not aware & patient was not - unlike me, as it happens - desperately unwell). I’m sure he was a perfectly nice man with no thought other than for his female relative (& perhaps his own comfort). Unfortunately, my lizard brain was not on board with this analysis. The stress did bring my blood pressure up towards normal, which was much-needed - but I literally couldn’t speak with terror. My nurse was in to me multiple times for obs & to switch over IV bags, I didn’t need to call them even, but I couldn’t speak. The idea is bad enough in the daytime, from a privacy, dignity & neurodivergency point of view. Dismissing my not wanting to be repeatedly retraumatised night after night as part of a “right-wing moral panic” is, to put it politely, grim. Not that it should have to be about any of the many women & girls who are survivors of male violence. Nor those women whose faith prohibits their sharing such a space with a male individual - again, however they identify. It is enough that women simply want to keep the single sex spaces that are there to protect them; & to take the utilitarian approach, which here, of course, means vigorously enforcing women’s rights to single sex spaces (“here” would of course apply to female sport, girls’ schools - & the charity commission making Girlguiding either revert to being single sex for young members or give up the “single gender” nonsense & be openly mixed sex).
Nobody’s asked for my views, my opinion, my input. Unless the Trust in question were to consider it relevant (doubtful, given the indirect relationship) it would take someone trawling these boards to find this evidence. Which some would be all to ready to dismiss, I know, because TWAW & I couldn’t possibly ever know. Tell that to my lizard brain.
- it’s all so neo-colonialist I’m surprised they’re not wearing pith helmets - TRAs make the most zealous Victorian missionaries look positively laid back about evangelising & proselytising though