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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Girl Guides: Nottingham - senders of objection emails referred to Police

374 replies

mammajustkilledagnat · 19/01/2022 11:25

Anyone else seen this on Twitter? I mean, what the bloody hell?

twitter.com/MDayCassandra/status/1483731590232657922

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/01/2022 20:30

@BlueberryCheezecake, you said:

These are pictures of Monica Sulley's young relatives attending a family wedding. Why are you trawling through her social media accounts and lifting out pictures of her underage family members to share across the internet?

Did you take this up with Monica Sulley? When Sulley first came to public attention a few weeks ago, that picture of the little girls was on Sulley's Twitter feed as the header picture, with the girls' faces unobscured. It's down to Sulley, therefore, that these children's pictures are on the internet in the first place. The poster here has obscured their faces so they are no longer identifiable. Why are you having a go at her and not at Sulley?

catzwhiskas · 19/01/2022 20:36

What exactly is your interest here BC ? Doesn’t seem to be safeguarding for sure

barleybadminton · 19/01/2022 20:41

@averylongtimeago

Yes, volunteers did contact them. We are all well aware of the media code of conduct- and semi naked, suggestive poses with guns and showing possibly young members faces on social media are all against it.
Semi-naked lol. You mean she showed her shoulders. And those people she was pictured with who gender critical people have shared all over social media were very likely her grandkids given it was a personal facebook page and she has talked of having several grand children.
Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/01/2022 20:43

No, you haven't got this straight. So far we have only one second hand anecdote stating that one letter had been passed onto the police. Assuming said second hand anecdote is true, it's entirely possible this particular letter contained something genuinely concerning or objectionable that warranted this action. There is absolutely zero evidence GG have been passing complaint letters onto the police as a standard practise or would do so if the letter's content was not extreme.

I take it the majority of my post is therefore accepted as factually accurate. We shall see in due course if the police take this any further. I would be very surprised if this doesn't turn up in national newspapers if there is any substance to what's been alleged on Twitter today.

Helleofabore · 19/01/2022 20:51

barley is here to reprimand us and tell us all again how everything is fine. Everyone is doing kink and having a social media profile showing small girl’s faces behind a photo with a person in the bath, associated with the other posting history is totally not a red flag.

We have heard it all before.

Shall we skip to the chase, just get to the prudes, pearl clutchers part. Oh… then tell us we have a shockingly dirty mind for imagining how this looks from a safeguarding perspective.

barleybadminton · 19/01/2022 20:54

I love how having a bath is now somehow dubious if you happen to be trans. All you could see were her shoulders.

334bu · 19/01/2022 20:59

love how having a bath is now somehow dubious if you happen to be trans. All you could see were her shoulders.

Nothing to do with being trans, all to do with being a senior Girl Guider.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/01/2022 21:03

And what MS has chosen to post on the internet.

Helleofabore · 19/01/2022 21:04

However, this is a good example of ‘sparpling.’ Thank you to Suzie Dent on twitter!!!

barleybadminton · 19/01/2022 21:04

A quick google shows amongst others Dawn French, Kate Hudson, Elizabeth Hurley, Mel B, Justin Bieber, Ricky Gervais and Lady Gaga have all posted selfies of themselves in the bath. There are thousands and thousands of pictures of people doing the same. Are you really claming they are all a safeguarding risk and shouldn't be permitted to volunteer with children?

barleybadminton · 19/01/2022 21:04

@334bu

*love how having a bath is now somehow dubious if you happen to be trans. All you could see were her shoulders.*

Nothing to do with being trans, all to do with being a senior Girl Guider.

Are senior girl guiders not supposed to have baths?
Helleofabore · 19/01/2022 21:05

Are their bath shots imposed over a line of small girl?

Are they senior girl guides leaders?

334bu · 19/01/2022 21:08

Do they also post selfies of themselves as a dominatrix with a whip, posts asking if the.viewer wants to see more of their boobs, photos of themselves with guns?

barleybadminton · 19/01/2022 21:09

@Helleofabore

Are their bath shots imposed over a line of small girl?

Are they senior girl guides leaders?

No but many of them have done charity work with children. And you can't see she's in the bath on that picture superimposed over what is very likely her family. Perhaps she just thought it was a good pic of her face. You've got to have some kind of mind to infer something sexual or predatory from someone posting a picture of their shoulders online.

You know underneath their clothes even girl guide leaders are naked.

FrankBurnside · 19/01/2022 21:09

Yeah MS's photo, posing in a short bondage type dress, brandishing a riding crop with the photo captioned: 'Now behave yourselves or Mistress will have to punish you', is sooo appropriate to put on a public account as a senior GG leader.

Oh wait...

334bu · 19/01/2022 21:12

Hygiene is always good barley. Flashing your boobs not so great.

Helleofabore · 19/01/2022 21:12

Ahhh… good we didn’t have to wait for the first ‘what a dirty mind you have’.

Grumpyosaurus · 19/01/2022 21:14

@barleybadminton is doing a good bit of 'Look! Squirrel!' here. 'Look! Only shoulders! You perverts!'

It's not the shoulders alone, Barley. It's the dominatrix stuff, the suggestive boob shot, the BB gun.

My late godmother was a GG commissioner. She must be spinning in her grave, never mind turning.

Clymene · 19/01/2022 21:15

Unless the guide leader has 8 children and nieces all of a very similar age, I doubt they're family @barleybadminton

Which does make me question whether parental permission was sought. The photo certainly came firm remarkably quickly if there was nothing to hide

Clymene · 19/01/2022 21:18

Firm = down

Artichokeleaves · 19/01/2022 21:18

There is really no point in trying to explain. None. But to anyone with an actual grip on safeguarding who can think like an adult there were very major red flags. If you don't agree, whatever, ymmv.

Sparple.

barleybadminton · 19/01/2022 21:20

@334bu

Do they also post selfies of themselves as a dominatrix with a whip, posts asking if the.viewer wants to see more of their boobs, photos of themselves with guns?
We've been through the gun thing. There are lots of pics of girl guides shooting online. It's not a real gun, shooting is a sport.

As for the leather dress, Rita Ora, Madonna, Rhianna, Nicky Minaj, Amanda Holden, Kim Kardashian, and many many other women have posed in similar outfits. Should they all be banned form working with kids as well?

barleybadminton · 19/01/2022 21:24

@Clymene

Unless the guide leader has 8 children and nieces all of a very similar age, I doubt they're family *@barleybadminton*

Which does make me question whether parental permission was sought. The photo certainly came firm remarkably quickly if there was nothing to hide

Of course it did. If someone was sharing pictures of your grandkids across social media without your consent wouldn't you take the pic down?
Gumbomambo · 19/01/2022 21:28

It is everybody’s responsibility to keep children from harm. Any sane decent human being can see that.

mammajustkilledagnat · 19/01/2022 21:28

@EishetChayil

I've seen one of the letters written by one of the women who have been visited by the police, as she's a friend of mine. Absolutely nothing threatening or violent in it. Why would there be? We aren't the violent thugs in this argument.
Above is on this thread, and these three taken from Twitter. No idea if this is all the same email or more than one

twitter.com/o_ye_laurels/status/1483763662267588610
twitter.com/MDayCassandra/status/1483731590232657922
twitter.com/annLorryone/status/1483760011771789318

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