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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Teeside woman in court for exposing her penis and masturbating in public

276 replies

SocialConnection · 26/11/2021 00:54

News report here - unlike on their other articles, there appear to be no comments listed ................................

www.gazettelive.co.uk/news/teesside-news/teesside-woman-accused-using-sex-22260053

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Doubletoilandtrouble · 26/11/2021 12:35

I agree Red. Gatekeeping trans status based on how well you pass is super transphobic. I think any transphobia needs to be reported.

And I don’t think that this changes when a transwoman commit a sex crime. There is still a lot of arguments for them being in female prisons. And many of them are.

FourTeaFallOut · 26/11/2021 12:38

You aren't passing as a woman very well when you commit male crimes with a penis.

RedCarpetRebellion · 26/11/2021 12:39

@Doubletoilandtrouble

And many more want to be in female prisons. The list of male criminals who id as female to try and argue their way into female estate, who would have to be allowed in if self id came in is terrifying. All very violent sex offenders and murderers and the like.

RedCarpetRebellion · 26/11/2021 12:40

And that number would of course jump massively again if sel id was in.

LowlandLucky · 26/11/2021 12:41

I don't give a stuff if this bloke calls himself a woman, i don't care what he wears and as long as it is within the law or how he lives his life but i won't lie or take part in this madness of calling him a woman.

Rosiesmydog · 26/11/2021 12:51

@Iamnotamermaid

Ok, I am confused, genuinely. So a woman cannot menstruate (apparently) but she can expose her penis (the sex toy / exposure is just an additional add on to my confusion/despair).

Women are still fighting mansplaining, sexism, misogyny, lack of equal pay and career opportunities, health care and not to mention the tedious passive aggressive comments from random little men, I could go on, and now women don't even menstruate but we do have a penis.

I am all for everyone being treated with respect and dignity no matter how they identify but this is not feeling fair and a bit one way tbh.

Maybe a mind map will help make sense of this all...

Got it in one sister❤️
RestingStitchFace · 26/11/2021 12:53

If it were a true transwomen (so felt they were in the wrong body until surgery etc), they would not be taking their penis out in public. The self identify crap is taking us into a weird and fucked-up world.

Absolutely nailed it...

TheMarzipanDildo · 26/11/2021 13:08

@HarrietsChariot

Crimes should be reported by sex, i think (now…didn’t before) that everything should be reported by sex.

I don't think that's necessary. Is the victim of a woman who exposes her penis to them any more or less startled or upset than if a man exposed his penis to them? Is a woman who is raped by a woman with a penis less of a victim - or a different kind of victim - than a woman raped by a man?

I think the #notourcrimes hashtag is utter nonsense. What does it actually mean? Women trying to distance themselves from other women who happen to use their penises to commit crimes, because they themselves don't commit them? Well a high proportion of men have never raped anyone either so #notourcrimes applies to most men too.

Not reporting/ recording by sex muddies the water. It makes it look like sexual offences are not male pattern crimes, when 98% of sexual crimes are committed by men. It stops us questioning the way young boys are socialised. It stops us thinking about sex as a class. It is a ‘gotcha’- a ‘well women do it too’, so it’s not a man problem, we don’t need to investigate any further, or use sociological analysis. It is thought terminating.

This person doesn’t have gender dysphoria. If they did, they wouldn’t have their penis out in public. They are a man.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 26/11/2021 13:20

[quote RedCarpetRebellion]@LittleDandelionClock

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.nme.com/news/music/brian-may-criticises-brit-awards-frightening-choice-to-scrap-gendered-awards-3104614%3ffbclid=IwAR2YWlkw2ioShQqJjVh_Vnf14XOFIiaCFUkoazFBkOzDIvRZ9Ix_BmoLKLY&amp

I’d say that was good enough reason to support NME’s instead. Plus the music is always much much better.[/quote]
Thanks for that RedCarpet - an article like that makes it very clear how using “gender” obfuscates everything. All that talk of “gendered” categories.

If the people doing all this recognised that the real differentiating factor (when it comes to opportunities, historical/current disadvantage, relative air play etc) is sex, they might not get themselves in such a hopeless muddle to the point they’re pretending Sam Smith really isn’t either male or female.

Have the categories for male and female based on biological sex only and there you go, Sam Smith has a home there after all, and everyone knows what it is.

Only of course there are a lot of people apparently with a special interest in obscuring the fact that women’s oppression is sex based, and obscuring the fact that oppression is still very much current here as well as elsewhere. People who don’t want the very unpalatable truth that women are still second class citizens, and male people still benefit from that, to be acknowledged.

Whether that’s because it’s directly inconvenient for them and their cause, or just a bit embarrassing because, you know, they’re “decent chaps” who don’t want to have to think about all that kind of nasty stuff.

Anyway, sorry, tangent.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 26/11/2021 13:26

Back on topic, I agree with the many pp that using the word “penis” in the headline was a deliberate way of getting round those IPSO guidelines that have such a stranglehold on the media. I believe there’s some rule about not being able to refer to someone’s transgender status unless it’s relevant to the case, which, along with them having to affirm someone’s “gender” and use the pronouns they want, makes it very difficult to report clearly and accurately.

A classic example of “Stonewall law” whereby self ID has been ushered in through the capture of all these influential arms of the Establishment despite not being actual law. (Not sure obvs if it was actually Stonewall who got this done in this particular case, or another lobby group, or combination of groups; it’s just the apposite phrase to use here.)

I suspect congratulations are probably due to Georgia Banks for her creative solution to the dilemma. I have seen other articles about “women” exposing themselves where no mention was made at all of the male member involved, which is much more likely to be misleading, and I think she’s done a good job of pointing out the complete absurdity of it while staying within the rules, as indeed she has to.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 26/11/2021 13:28

That’s if she wrote the headline herself - I seem to remember journalists on here saying that they don’t write their own headlines, just the pieces? In which case, congratulations to whoever put the word “penis” in the title! It will have helped many readers ascend to a higher place, I’m sure.

MultiStorey · 26/11/2021 13:38

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Shedmistress · 26/11/2021 13:57

@FourTeaFallOut

You aren't passing as a woman very well when you commit male crimes with a penis.
It is a lady penis and has a softer mouth feel than a male penis, you bigot.

Apparently.

RVN123 · 26/11/2021 15:03

Harriet, you know very well that only men have penises, don't you?

This is a dirty perverted BLOKE doing what dirty perverted BLOKES do, no more and no less.
What's scary is that SEX offenders like this can now shout "I'm a trans woman" and they have people like you clamouring to protect them or make excuses for them somehow, or minimise what they are doing.

HE has a penis which he used to commit a crime. There are NO female penises. He's a filthy pig with a sexual kink and a known mental health problem that we're not allowed to mention here for some reason.
Not a woman.
And will never be one.

Who the hell is swallowing the Kool Aid and buying into this utter shite? Honestly I get more tired of this every day.

WarOnWoman · 26/11/2021 15:23

@TalkingtoLangClegintheDark

That’s if she wrote the headline herself - I seem to remember journalists on here saying that they don’t write their own headlines, just the pieces? In which case, congratulations to whoever put the word “penis” in the title! It will have helped many readers ascend to a higher place, I’m sure.

I agree it was a brilliant headline by gazette live. More news agencies and publications should be doing the same. It should peak people left, right and centre.

On a another note, I read somewhere that the editor is a woman? Maybe I made that up. Anyway, I can't help but think that it was a deliberate move to put penis in the headlines.

AlfonsoTheUnrepentant · 26/11/2021 16:33

Thompson was also charged with using a sex toy, not just masturbating in public.

AlfonsoTheUnrepentant · 26/11/2021 16:34

I agree it was a brilliant headline by gazette live.

Great photograph, too. The rainbow bracelet was a nice accessory to Thompson's court outfit.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 26/11/2021 17:08

The rainbow bracelet was a nice accessory to Thompson's court outfit.

Good point. And good spot, I hadn’t noticed it before you pointed it out.

It’s a good article to keep handy for those hapless rainbow lanyard wearers and pronoun sharers who just think they’re being “kind” and “inclusive”, and don’t have a fucking clue what can be encompassed by the rainbow umbrella these days.

LittleDandelionClock · 26/11/2021 18:32

@RVN123

Harriet, you know very well that only men have penises, don't you?

This is a dirty perverted BLOKE doing what dirty perverted BLOKES do, no more and no less.
What's scary is that SEX offenders like this can now shout "I'm a trans woman" and they have people like you clamouring to protect them or make excuses for them somehow, or minimise what they are doing.

HE has a penis which he used to commit a crime. There are NO female penises. He's a filthy pig with a sexual kink and a known mental health problem that we're not allowed to mention here for some reason.
Not a woman.
And will never be one.

Who the hell is swallowing the Kool Aid and buying into this utter shite? Honestly I get more tired of this every day.

THIS! ^ In spades.
CheeseMmmm · 26/11/2021 20:31

The catalogue of offences and multiple breaching of sex register conditions is a massive concern.

They are a clear danger to women and girls of the vagina variety.

For public protection there needs to be prison. This is the one reason for prison that often seems to be overlooked. Others being rehabilitation (often included in reason someone being released) and punishment.

Over and over men who are very obviously dangerous to women and girls seem to be wandering about the place. And then guess what they do it again.

And of course loads and loads of these types of crimes aren't ever reported.

It's a massive concern that the risk element seems to be so trivial when it comes to men like this being free to reoffend.

MNHarpie · 26/11/2021 20:37

Emailed [email protected] To say there is an error in the new report.
Quite probably a waste of time but we need to do this everytime or they wont get the message

WarOnWoman · 26/11/2021 20:49

@MNHarpie

Emailed [email protected] To say there is an error in the new report. Quite probably a waste of time but we need to do this everytime or they wont get the message
It's a good idea to contact the newspaper publishers (I hope that they pass on all the complaints to ipso). It would be a good idea to cc ipso too.
JakeyRolling · 27/11/2021 03:34

@TalkingtoLangClegintheDark

That’s if she wrote the headline herself - I seem to remember journalists on here saying that they don’t write their own headlines, just the pieces? In which case, congratulations to whoever put the word “penis” in the title! It will have helped many readers ascend to a higher place, I’m sure.
That applies more in print than online. It can be the journalist or a more collaborative effort online as SEO comes into play.
DryHeave · 27/11/2021 05:31

It’s getting to the point now that when you read “woman” it must be a man. Otherwise it would have said vagina owner, person with a vulva, bleeding people...

On that train of thought, couldn’t this be reported as “person with a penis”?

FindTheTruth · 27/11/2021 06:32

@MNHarpie

Emailed [email protected] To say there is an error in the new report. Quite probably a waste of time but we need to do this everytime or they wont get the message
Well done 💐. Other people responsible are:

CEO of Reach Plc
[email protected]

Lord Edward Faulks QC Chair of IPSO and of the IPSO Complaints Committee
[email protected]