@DrBlackbird
Hellebore interesting that you note this. I was talking to friend / colleague, someone I respect for her feminism and intelligence, on the TWAW issue and DV refuges. Her position was that we needed to assume ‘good faith’.
When I mentioned examples that called for caution, she said something about one high profile media story distorting the wider picture. My response was well how many incidents would be enough? Isn’t just one case enough to call for some caution on dismantling single sex spaces? But it seems the answer to that must be ‘no’.
This wasn’t an extreme trans activist. This was an intelligent and lovely person coming from a position of good faith and sisterhood. Morever, my sense was also that her mind was set on this issue and that nothing said would change it. The whole Terf accusation has stuck enough to the point that even just questioning what’s happening renders the questioner as the bigot and therefore anything being said by them to be dismissed.
I find that these “ intelligent and lovely people “ are very willing to give away other peoples boundaries but not their own or those of their family.
They may be happy to let XY people into womens prisons and refuges just as long as they are are not living there.
If they are counsellors or therapists they are the first to ensure that they keep:every professional boundary intact, ask for chaperones etc.
But ask them if we should allow drop police or background checks for the people who work in daycare or teach their children “ because we have to assume everyone is in good faith “ and you will soon have a different story.
Ask them if they give clients their home address or phone number.
Ask them if they would have a street homeless woman ( or a man who identified as female ) come and live in their house because they say they won’t take any drink or drugs or steal anything ? Why not if it’s all about sisterhood ?
IME these are always very middle class women who know that it will never affect them or their kids. It’s a luxury opinion to show how woke they are - they NEVER put their money where their mouth is.