Thank you @Motorina for taking the time with such a detailed response (especially the in camera/in private info - I really like learning new things!) I am very grateful to you for your reply.
I do take the point of "trial by media" and absolutely agree it's right that judges/juries/panels etc disregard any Daily Mail "I live next door and once he looked at me funny" articles that appear throughout the course of a trial/tribunal/hearing etc.
I do hope though, that the Vice article is factored as evidence as a later date - this was AH own words, not a third party. I think, apart from his total disdain for witnesses and the whole hearing process, the main thing that frustrated (or infuriated!) me about the article was the total fucking hypocrisy.
All the "yes I have learnt my lessons, yes I have insight, no I won't do it again" to the panel
and then you see that article! It literally makes a mockery of the process.
Thinking about it a bit more, I think it infuriates me so much (and this was touched on on previous threads I think, I was on them but slight name change) because I absolutely hate hearing men glibly say "I've changed, I won't do it again. I'm really sorry, I've learnt my lesson" . They haven't changed, they haven't learnt a lesson and they will do it again. It's just rank hypocrisy and saying what they think people want to hear. It's meaningless.
I think it's one of the the most important things I have taught my DDs. Not to believe meaningless words and platitudes, but to look at behaviour, especially once someone has demonstrated who they are and you didn't like it. Look for their actions, not their words. My DDs are older now and take no shit
and I'm really proud of them for it.
I'm aware I may be projecting my
experiences here, but a lot of women learn this the hard way (trusting words, not actions) and it's so important we recognise and disregard meaningless platitudes.
And then to see a health professional, a doctor, using this tactic - it's actually quite revolting.
Wise women see it for what it is, and I'm sure the panel will too if it's factored in.