@Bouledeneige
It's hardly surprising. The Conservative party are engaged in a 'culture war' against woke politics and in favour of populism. Much like Trump. It makes for uncomfortable allyship - there are many other aspects of the anti-woke agenda that I would be very opposed to.
Me too. Ironically, my experience of bias and inequality as a female person is
why I am sympathetic to other groups talking about their own inequality and oppression. Because I
know what it's like to have your disempowerment so thoroughly baked into society that people just see it as normal.
I probably agree with about 90% of what the genderist movement wants to see, and probably 100% of what the #bekind lot think it stands for.
The problem is that the 10% I don't agree with is so very very dreadful for female people it's a total dealbreaker.
It's a House-On-Fire scenario. If the house burns down, everything else is irrelevant. So it doesn't matter how much a party might check my other boxes, if they don't agree the fire has to be dealt with then I can't vote for them.
But while I may agree with "anti-woke" that the current situation wrt gender ideology is wrong and find myself temporarily aligned to stop it happening, I also know that once the excesses of gender ideology are curbed, that alignment will immediately fracture because what they and I think is right and should be happening instead is very different.
I don't want fighting genderism to mean going socially backwards. I want this crazy denial of female voices, existence and experience to turn out to be a crazy blip in a path that continues to move towards tolerance, acceptance, female empowerment and the deconstruction of toxic gender constructions.