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Shameful, incoherent, poorly referenced, completely biased piece of 'journalism' from the Guardian

342 replies

JustcameoutGC · 28/07/2021 21:24

So, we are all right wing anti-trans nuts.
The WiSpa incident didn't happen
Or if it did then that would be no problem
(make up your mind people)
The violence was all directed towards the TRAs.

If you needed an excuse to cancel your subscription, this would be it.

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TheWeeDonkey · 29/07/2021 08:15

Its legal in California for male people of any identity to use female facilities. Thats what people have been lobbying for, therefore it is not a crime for a male person to expose themselves to females in female facilities.

I don't understand why people say this didn't / wouldn't happen when this is the natural conclusion of what they've been fighting for.

Oh and accusing a woman who speaks out about male sexual aggression of being crazy has been done to death. Nothing new there.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/07/2021 08:21

She didn't. She went to the desk and complained about the 'man' exposing himself as if it had happened. The staff didn't 'play along with anything.The police have investigated - and found NOTHING. The spa say no trans members used the spa that day.

This is pure propaganda that you have swallowed. It comes from that Pink News-alike local paper that made these claims from the police and the spa, from "anonymous sources". That is the source of all those claims, not the spa and the police on the record.

Helleofabore · 29/07/2021 08:24

Just posting this link here for any other conspiracy pushers. This covers many of attempts to dismiss this incident as made up.

If I remember correctly, there is some brilliant examples of misogyny on that thread too. Where male posters accuse the women who recorded the video of being responsible for the male violence of the protesters.

Oh, and the same accusation was leveled at the feminists posting on this forum. What a surprise!!!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4292052-Article-about-WiSpa-incident-title-edited-by-MNHQ

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/07/2021 08:25

https://cathy.arcdigital.media/p/the-battle-of-wi-spaa^^ - another journalist summarised pretty well the situation with the negative of all the sides. There are at least 3 firsthand accounts since 2018 of a male person exposing their penis the women's section - https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9773417/Mother-says-trans-woman-penis-beard-got-hot-tub-daughter-6-LA-spa.htmll^^ the DM reported on another one here, and the woman in question posted her account on youtube after the first protest.

So we have two videos and one tripadvisor review saying that someone exposed a penis in the nude women's section.

  • California law says that this is allowed
  • The WiSpa staff say that this is allowed, both in the video and in their statement
  • The guy with the moustache in the video comes up to tell her this is allowed

So why would there be a hoax about something that's legal and the spa permits? Yeah cubanaangel looks nutso, but does that mean she has no right to be in a female only space if she's naked?

Indeed. Agree Cathy Young's piece is very thorough.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/07/2021 08:28

If I remember correctly, there is some brilliant examples of misogyny on that thread too. Where male posters accuse the women who recorded the video of being responsible for the male violence of the protesters.

Oh, and the same accusation was leveled at the feminists posting on this forum. What a surprise!!!

That was quite breathtaking, as we were told that we personally were responsible for the Proud Boys, as GC women in the U.K., and I haven't seen those posters since that night. Maybe they've had a little think about what they were doing.

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 29/07/2021 08:31

them 'anti-pedophile protesters' in an attempt to discredit them might not be as successful as you think it is

OoopsGrin

ChewtonRoad · 29/07/2021 08:32

The subs (not that Guardian Media Group seem to have them) would have to have performed microsurgery on that article to raise it from its abysmal state in order to approach shameful and incoherent.

The hatred for women is so profound and deeply seated I worry that we'll never be able to get out of this awful situation. That any women are willing to side with the swivel-eyed loons is baffling.

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 29/07/2021 08:38

*”We know it is legal for a male who has self identified as a women to use the female section of the spa in this way. So exactly what crime did you expect the police to have investigated?”

- To see if a man, not a TW, really did expose himself in the aggressive manner described to women and children in the way this woman complained.

But as self-ID is legal in California, how could the police know if this penis-displaying person was a TW or not?

Floisme · 29/07/2021 08:42

If I remember correctly, there is some brilliant examples of misogyny on that thread too. Where male posters accuse the women who recorded the video of being responsible for the male violence of the protesters.
They did indeed, although the most egregious examples were deleted, which I thought was a shame - as far as I'm concerned, the more people who see this level of thought process the better.

Helleofabore · 29/07/2021 08:47

She went to the desk and complained about the 'man' exposing himself as if it had happened. The staff didn't 'play along with anything.

That’s right. They haven’t played along but have calmly reminded the woman that males are allowed in the naked female section of the spa as per the law and their policy.

The police have investigated - and found NOTHING.

Been over this claim. And again, do you have the official statement from the police that there was any investigation and what were they investigating. Unusual for a high profile incident such as this not to have an official statement made if an investigation was done.

The spa say no trans members used the spa that day.

It is important to get the words right. Wasn’t the wording ‘there were no regular transwomen clients booked in for a treatment that day’ or something similar. So treatments are not use of the general spaces like hot tubs so, that comment from the spa doesn’t say anything that refutes what the woman reported.

The woman who 'reported' the incident is rabidly homophobic, an evangelical who has scored a massive 'win' over the coverage for this in the right wing, and world media.

If we were to apply similar framing to the prominent trans spokespeople, how many would be left with any credibility? Yes, this woman has some points of view that are not ones I support (and many other MNers I would suspect). Why do you believe that a woman’s integrity on reporting an incident should be evaluated on her religious beliefs on homosexuality and trans issues?

Also if she is such a devout Christian, why do you believe that she would lie about it.

Either way, isn’t this just a form of female victim shaming and victim blaming? Rather a misogynistic move.

I just don't believe the incident happened. At all.

Yeah. Ok. It is a free world.

And people lose credibility when they use something like this to prove ther points

Actually, I think you have displayed considerable lack of critical thinking here yourself. It doesn’t do anything for your credibility at all.

So, we are to fully believe people are who they say they are despite the fact we can see the reality clearly. And we are to denounce a woman’s report of an incident because of ambiguous accusations from highly invested individuals despite her telling us ‘who she is’….

If you cannot see the blatant hypocrisy in that, your credibility is nil.

Helleofabore · 29/07/2021 08:53

@Ereshkigalangcleg

If I remember correctly, there is some brilliant examples of misogyny on that thread too. Where male posters accuse the women who recorded the video of being responsible for the male violence of the protesters.

Oh, and the same accusation was leveled at the feminists posting on this forum. What a surprise!!!

That was quite breathtaking, as we were told that we personally were responsible for the Proud Boys, as GC women in the U.K., and I haven't seen those posters since that night. Maybe they've had a little think about what they were doing.

Maybe….Hmm
Helleofabore · 29/07/2021 08:58

@Floisme

If I remember correctly, there is some brilliant examples of misogyny on that thread too. Where male posters accuse the women who recorded the video of being responsible for the male violence of the protesters. They did indeed, although the most egregious examples were deleted, which I thought was a shame - as far as I'm concerned, the more people who see this level of thought process the better.
And there was also a MN regular telling us how it was a more egregious act that the woman was filming in the reception area where people had no expectation of privacy. They were then adamant that the woman should have filmed the naked male with the semi erect penis and the naked 9 year old and published that.

Let’s not forget that hot mess too!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/07/2021 08:59

TRAs rely on the narrative existing that males (either MTF trans or chancers benefiting from "inclusive" policy and law) flashing their cocks in women's spaces, although perfectly justifiable in their eyes because TWAW, never or hardly ever happens as they know it doesn't play well with the public at this point.

They hope they will be able to normalise it gradually, but they don't want a media storm.

Helleofabore · 29/07/2021 09:07

Yes eresh.

Last night we had a poster who posted ‘How often do you think that's happened as compared to, say, a bona fide, born-as-a-woman woman - in a dress, to boot - beating up some other woman in a women's toilet? Not flashing at a woman, mind you, but actually beating one up?’

The only interpretation here that this poster knows that ‘flashing at a woman’ is commonplace and cannot defend it at all. Yet, told us that women were beating up transwomen in the toilets regularly. And it was rare to have males identifying as women beating women up in the toilets, but flashing… well draw your own conclusions.

knittingaddict · 29/07/2021 09:19

I've had to stop listening to a podcast I really enjoy.

They are in the US and left wing, pro BLM, very politically active, go on protests against police violence etc. I've learnt a lot about US politics from them.

This week they were talking about the Wi Spa incident and were pro the spa and very anti the woman involved (cast doubt on the event). Talked about trans rights and thought it was down to "white women's fears" and trans phobia. Acknowledged womens concerns, so were aware of them, but completely dismissed them.

I thought about sending them a message, and I may still do that, to tell them why they've lost a listener. Doubt they will care much because I don't pay for the content.

Deliriumoftheendless · 29/07/2021 09:20

@Helleofabore

Yes eresh.

Last night we had a poster who posted ‘How often do you think that's happened as compared to, say, a bona fide, born-as-a-woman woman - in a dress, to boot - beating up some other woman in a women's toilet? Not flashing at a woman, mind you, but actually beating one up?’

The only interpretation here that this poster knows that ‘flashing at a woman’ is commonplace and cannot defend it at all. Yet, told us that women were beating up transwomen in the toilets regularly. And it was rare to have males identifying as women beating women up in the toilets, but flashing… well draw your own conclusions.

And as there’s a thread on here at the moment about how men exposing themselves escalate their offending right up to the murder of women and girls, so again we see how female lives are considered irrelevant. Nice.
RoyalCorgi · 29/07/2021 09:24

Precious Child made a video - since deleted - admitting to being the person in the spa. Now either they are telling the truth (in which case it happened) or they are lying (but surely trans people don't lie? I thought they were all saints).

So which is it?

MySecretHistory · 29/07/2021 09:25

There is a review from the spa a few years ago of a man being in the women’s section. So if isn’t a new thing it seems.

Jackgrealishscurtains · 29/07/2021 09:35

So let's get this straight:

Male goes into naked female spa with todger out, but man identifies as a man, so women are allowed to feel anxious, uncomfortable, allowed to chuck the man out.

Male goes into naked female spa with todger out, but man identifies as a woman, so women are not allowed to feel anxious or uncomfortable, in fact if they don't accept this male they are 'far right bigots'.

So all of the feelings that the women are allowed to feel in this situation, and how those women are subsequently framed to the public, depend entirely on the males feelings. The male has complete control in that naked female spa of everyone else's feelings and reactions.

Is that how it is? The misogyny is absolutely breathtaking tbh.

Helleofabore · 29/07/2021 09:36

Jackgrealishscurtains

nailed it

ArabellaScott · 29/07/2021 09:38

@knittingaddict

I've had to stop listening to a podcast I really enjoy.

They are in the US and left wing, pro BLM, very politically active, go on protests against police violence etc. I've learnt a lot about US politics from them.

This week they were talking about the Wi Spa incident and were pro the spa and very anti the woman involved (cast doubt on the event). Talked about trans rights and thought it was down to "white women's fears" and trans phobia. Acknowledged womens concerns, so were aware of them, but completely dismissed them.

I thought about sending them a message, and I may still do that, to tell them why they've lost a listener. Doubt they will care much because I don't pay for the content.

white women's fears - bet the woman who made the video is pleased to hear herself dismissed like that.
Jackgrealishscurtains · 29/07/2021 09:39

@sailmeaway

except, there is NO evidence that the 'incident' actually did happen, Guardian aren't the only ones reporting that. And the woman in Q who complained about the naked man waving his penis around is a crazy, evangelical christian type who appears to have made this all up as a stunt. The police investigated.
So is dick the female naked spa OK or not then @sailmeaway?
yourhairiswinterfire · 29/07/2021 09:47

@sailmeaway

except, there is NO evidence that the 'incident' actually did happen, Guardian aren't the only ones reporting that. And the woman in Q who complained about the naked man waving his penis around is a crazy, evangelical christian type who appears to have made this all up as a stunt. The police investigated.
''Don't listen to her, she's crazy, don't look here, look over there instead''. Hmm

The Spa haven't denied it. This blew up and they didn't deny it. They allegedly said that there were none of their regular TW clients in that day. So? They haven't denied that a male was in there.

There was a review for the Spa from a while ago of similar happening. This ''crazy, evangelical christian type'' plant that review there, too?

What happened is perfectly legal now. It's what activists actually want. Anyone who says they're a woman is a woman and can use toilets/changing rooms/Spas that match their 'gender', leaving the door wide open for predators to take advantage. This is the result of saying we have to accept everyone is whoever they say they are. Little girls and women being exposed to naked males, making them feel unsafe. And males having access to naked girls.

Hate to say we told you so, but...

WarriorN · 29/07/2021 09:57

Yep Jack.

It's just the staniland question.

But we are all bigots 🤷🏻‍♀️

MoonlightApple · 29/07/2021 09:58

Well apparently EVERYONE thinks transgender women are women so what do we know

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/sport/2021/jul/29/ioc-praises-weightlifter-laurel-hubbard-ahead-of-transgender-athletes-olympic-debut