She is not free from criticism, these are incredibly nasty things to say and it's not acceptable.
Not acceptable to whom? Who decides on this acceptability? No-one is free from criticism, oh except those who tell women to choke on my lady dick or die in a grease fire and a myriad other incredibly nasty things TRAs and their allies relentlessly post about and to those women who refuse to chant the TWAW mantra, all of that seems acceptable.
Jay didn't threaten her
Jay threatened her livelihood. As a Judge said In this country we have never had a Cheka, a Gestapo or a Stasi. We have never lived in an Orwellian society, which is what Jay is aping. Frances Barber is as entitled as everyone else is to an opinion and to air that opinion, she has no right to force others to agree with or accept that opinion, unlike Jay who is adamant that Frances must accept his or he will report her to her employer to try and get her sacked. It absolutely is totalitarian to dictate that only people who hold certain opinions and express them in an accepted way are able to express said opinions or be employed, if you don't know that you need to brush up on your history.
He attacked her and her livelihood, she responded, if you or him don't like the manner in which she responded, tough.