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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbian women thrown out of German Dyke March

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OvaHere · 08/07/2021 15:33

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Germany, Cologne, July 3.

Six women were thrown out from #DykeMarchCologne for carrying signs that criticized #SelfID, #CompelledSpeech and one particularly shaped sign that said #LesbiansDontHavePenises.

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Bollindger · 10/07/2021 11:42

I read a while ago an article about lesbians becoming pregnant from Transwoman and being upset as everyone pointed out in a lesbian relationship that is not possible.
Also transmen, being upset natural biology was distorting their make believe world, by their growing baby bump.

C0RINNA · 10/07/2021 11:51

Tsk tsk, women having opinions about who they date is hateful and exclusionary. Remember the 2nd rule of misogyny

Women saying no to men is a hate crime

TheDinosaurMum · 10/07/2021 12:01

Yeah but in my experience they get rather defensive about being turned down. I was in a bar once and one approached me and when I declined the offer of a drink or a chat, they immediately said "oh it's because I'm a transexual, you transphobe" and tried to square up to me.

I said, no because I don't find you attractive you have hands like shovels and a dick but if you want to square up to me about this I'm game.

Instant male aggressive stance and reaction.

suggestionsplease1 · 10/07/2021 12:06

Confused Some posters seem to have a really strange idea of what goes on at lesbian social groups. Do you think we're all obliged to sleep with each other because we happen to be in the same space together?!

I think you're maybe getting your ideas of our nights out from the porn industry if you're under the impression that attendance at our events entitles anyone to sex.

suggestionsplease1 · 10/07/2021 12:14

We do get people trying it on, of course - last week an extremely drunk woman wasn't thrilled that I turned her down. The two trans lesbians present have had no history like that. If anyone's a dick that's what the security staff are there for.

PurpleHoodie · 10/07/2021 12:15

Chinny.

ProudExclu · 10/07/2021 12:16

@MishyJDI LGBT are all the letters.

ProudExclu · 10/07/2021 12:16

Some would go further and say LGB are all the letters.

ScreamingMeMe · 10/07/2021 12:18

@suggestionsplease1

Confused Some posters seem to have a really strange idea of what goes on at lesbian social groups. Do you think we're all obliged to sleep with each other because we happen to be in the same space together?!

I think you're maybe getting your ideas of our nights out from the porn industry if you're under the impression that attendance at our events entitles anyone to sex.

Plenty of evidence has been posted kn thos thread, if you care to read it.

I'm happy that you haven't ever been pressured to have sex/date someone with a penis - that's great.

suggestionsplease1 · 10/07/2021 12:34

See, I'm usually a trusting person and take things at face value, but I am just feeling increasingly incredulous about the reports made on these boards, and it's making me think - are stories being planted?

Everyone has the right to accurately and honestly recount their own experiences, but if some posters are putting down false stories then they should be aware they are responsible for contributing to the demonization and harassment of an already vulnerable group.

PurpleHoodie · 10/07/2021 12:36

Lesbians? Females?

Yes. They are increasingly vulnerable.

ScreamingMeMe · 10/07/2021 12:43

Screenshots and videos of things people have actually said and done not good enough for you, huh?

FloralBunting · 10/07/2021 13:28

Yeah, lesbians are women, and I believe the current progressive mindset is that as such, we're inherently untrustworthy.

I'll point out that each of my predictions about thread visitors has proved accurate.

Also, i don't give a shit if you believe lesbians, I don't give a shit if you dismiss our experiences and I don't give a shit if you've had a charmed life and accept 'male lesbians'.

I'm not actually addressing the smug blinkered LGBTQ+ apologists on threads like this. I'm speaking up and sticking up for other lesbians who shouldn't have to deal with homophobic coercion.

PurpleHoodie · 10/07/2021 13:36

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

ScreamingMeMe · 10/07/2021 13:40

"Well it hasn't happened to me so I highly doubt it actually happens."

And

"Women do it too"

And not acknowledging that men are generally much stronger than women,have a penis that can be used to rape and impregnate and are therefore much more of a threat than women, and that they are not the sex that lesbians are attracted to.

That's some top feministing and LGBT activism. Truly impressive.

TheDinosaurMum · 10/07/2021 14:06

I won't go to pride events outside my local town now because of one or two negative experiences, it's like my town still knows who likes what but the big ones like Manchester or London where I've had poor experiences I just feel intimidated. Basically I'm a lesbian trapped in a city in Wales because it's my safe place. 😂

Shedbuilder · 10/07/2021 20:20

@FloralBunting

Yeah, lesbians are women, and I believe the current progressive mindset is that as such, we're inherently untrustworthy.

I'll point out that each of my predictions about thread visitors has proved accurate.

Also, i don't give a shit if you believe lesbians, I don't give a shit if you dismiss our experiences and I don't give a shit if you've had a charmed life and accept 'male lesbians'.

I'm not actually addressing the smug blinkered LGBTQ+ apologists on threads like this. I'm speaking up and sticking up for other lesbians who shouldn't have to deal with homophobic coercion.

And I'm with you on that, FloralBunting.

This 'I'm all right Jack, I don't mind the transbians, so you can just shut up' attitude is vile. Can't think of any other marginalised group people would take pride in speaking down to like that.

Delphinium20 · 10/07/2021 20:28

I also see Rule #8. "Men are whatever men say they are and women are whatever men say they are."

So when lesbians say they are same-sex attracted and hence only lesbians belong at Dyke March, they should be prepared for men to correct them.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/07/2021 20:34

A lot are having a bloody good go at it though! Does a lesbian have to be raped before you concede that there might be a problem here?

To add to your link I started this thread three years ago:

"Cotton Ceiling" evidence thread http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3294339-cotton-ceiling-evidence-thread

PurpleHoodie · 10/07/2021 23:23

Has it been three years already?!

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