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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury's Thirteenth edition - unlucky for some.

255 replies

highame · 10/06/2021 19:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving. It seems appropriate to resurrect today

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul and attacks are increasing.

This is a continuation of Bunbury’s 9th Public Service Announcement but other Bunbury’s are available and I believe Bunbury’s Orchestra is still alive www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4238543-Does-Bunbury-have-an-orchestra

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well-worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.
If you feel your hackles rising, give yourself a break. After the Maya case we may find an escalation.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, the following strategy is suggested

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”
Bunbury’s is under attack so be on your guard - there be dragons looking for witches.
If you’re lurking, Bunbury was a fictitious person in the Importance of Being Earnest - whenever our hero wanted to get out of an unwanted social engagement he would claim to have to be visiting his sick relative Bunbury. Hence the rediscovery of hitherto unknown second wave feminist Germaine Bunbury, to indicate to posters that a thread may in fact constitute an unwelcome social occasion they might want to avoid (courtesy of FermatsTheorem)
Finally, TAAT (thread about a thread) will get the thread removed. Let’s see how long this one lasts.

OP posts:
LittleWhingingWoman · 03/04/2022 03:41

I'm here before bed to think about cake and butterbeer.
I imbibed on too much politics tonight. I'm up with Covid. The snotty type. I did however buy lemon curd which I shall have for breakfast as I feel like the citrus will be good in it. Also some lemon squash.

But I need a recipe for lemon curd as it was much too expensive. Also is there one without eggs?

TheCurrywurstPrion · 03/04/2022 07:45

I seem to have missed the excitement, but I do love homemade lemon curd. Sadly, the only recipe I have involves egg yolk though. Sorry LittleWhinging.

LittleWhingingWoman · 03/04/2022 08:02

@TheCurrywurstPrion

I seem to have missed the excitement, but I do love homemade lemon curd. Sadly, the only recipe I have involves egg yolk though. Sorry LittleWhinging.
It's the egg yolk that makes it yellow isn't it? I have a thyroid condition so should avoid too many eggs but lemon curd is a complete sentence! Can't discuss the thread I was on (different part of the site) but it was interesting to see how quickly words were being used for women who say no to voting were being thrown around. Lemon Curd however is the food of lemony love.
TheCurrywurstPrion · 03/04/2022 08:08

I think the egg yolk makes it yellow and also thickens it.

BoreOfWhabylon · 03/04/2022 13:27

@TofuDelights @LittleWhingingWoman
Re: googling. The latest visitor appears to have appropriated the name of a very distinguished leading cell biologist who has done pioneering work that has made a real difference to the lives of people with skin disease. Article about her life and the difficulties she had as one of the very few women in her field here
www.asbmb.org/asbmb-today/people/100119/under-the-skin-and-out-in-the-world
Short video here
m.youtube.com/watch?v=_kOECn6bS6g
Also Wikipedia entry

You might want to ask MNHQ to withdraw your latest posts.

BoreOfWhabylon · 03/04/2022 13:28

(Sorry for getting all serious there, but I felt it was important)

BoreOfWhabylon · 03/04/2022 13:32

Also, pretty sure the real EF is far to busy sciencing to choose Mumsnet to enter a debate that she doesn't seem to have made any public pronouncement on previously.

TofuDelights · 03/04/2022 13:53

I see what you mean Bore, I just thought it was very strange that someone would do that, especially when the real EF seems to not have anything to do with this issue. I will ask HQ to delete my post. The poster calling themselves EF is more of a problem though I think.

BoreOfWhabylon · 03/04/2022 13:56

Thanks Tofu Flowers. I've reported that poster before and will do so again if they return.

TofuDelights · 03/04/2022 14:01

Done it now, and said that I didn't want to suggest people search for the real EF and associate her with that other poster. I can't see why that poster would use a real scientist as a user name unless they were trying to make some sort of weird point. Anyway, it's done now. Thanks Bore.

LittleWhingingWoman · 03/04/2022 14:11

@BoreOfWhabylon

(Sorry for getting all serious there, but I felt it was important)
Thanks for this! They've deleted it x
BoreOfWhabylon · 03/04/2022 14:36
Thanks
Bewaldeth · 28/04/2022 19:58

I think we might need a visit to Bunbury-ville.

FromOurHatsToOurFeet · 28/04/2022 20:21

While we're there can someone tell me how this works?

www.nigella.com/recipes/lemon-meringue-cake

You put the meringue on top of the uncooked cake batter and cook them both together. I don't understand it. Obviously if I were in a public toilet right now I could ask the nearest woman but...

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 28/04/2022 21:05

FromOurHatsToOurFeet · 28/04/2022 20:21

While we're there can someone tell me how this works?

www.nigella.com/recipes/lemon-meringue-cake

You put the meringue on top of the uncooked cake batter and cook them both together. I don't understand it. Obviously if I were in a public toilet right now I could ask the nearest woman but...

It does work

ive done it many times very successfully (mine might be a different recipe but same premise)

Tiphaine · 28/04/2022 22:41

Invoking Bunbury here too. They're taking up all the room, energy, oxygen. No space left for developing a conversation.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 28/04/2022 22:58

Removing myself from playing chess with pigeons to admire that lemon meringue cake. It looks amazing. Has anyone actually made it?

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 28/04/2022 23:09

MrsOvertonsWindow · 28/04/2022 22:58

Removing myself from playing chess with pigeons to admire that lemon meringue cake. It looks amazing. Has anyone actually made it?

Yes…a number of times 😀

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 28/04/2022 23:10

Actually ive a recipe for a blackcurrant one as well

think its with mascarpone

Believerinbiology · 28/04/2022 23:12

Coming to sit on hands as well...really don't want to hit report but god with the amount of crap one poster is hurling to get a reaction its hard. And they reported somebody else for an "aggressive" post. Seems all words have lost their meaning.

FemaleAndLearning · 28/04/2022 23:13

I'm intolerant to egg and didn't realise lemon curd had egg in it. I'm really after some good vegan cake recipes. I had the most delicious one in Norfolk with biscoff biscuits. Luckily only tried the cake shop on the last day!

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 28/04/2022 23:14

And they reported somebody else for an "aggressive" post.

that was funny, I doubt it will be deleted

Absurdle · 28/04/2022 23:18

Where did the biscoff craze come from? I don’t disapprove of it, I recently have had amazing Biscoff Rocky Road, but how is it suddenly everywhere? It’s like their marketing department did a deal with Satan.

SpindleInTheWind · 28/04/2022 23:19

I've taken myself to read a nice bit of Virginia Woolf

FemaleAndLearning · 28/04/2022 23:28

I got quite addicted to biscoff biscuits recently. Stopped buying them now as they shout from the cupboard to me.