Then Posie comes along and makes these cavalier remarks about men with guns going into female spaces and here you are cheering her on. Does it not piss you off that she's making GC feminism look a bit deranged?
Have you read anything any of us have said in response to your persistent attempts to get us to denounce Posie?
She's not a feminist, GC or otherwise. By her own definition.
And even if she were, feminism is a broad movement with very many different strands. Many of those are in open disagreement with others. There is no single arbiter of feminism, no regulator and no spokeswoman to speak for all women. We could both be feminists and not agree on hundreds of issues. That doesn't make either of us better than the other.
The world is not black and white. People are not evil for having objectionable opinions. Not even if they have several.
I have met many women who believe, like Posie does, that women who are abused have allowed that to happen and that they themselves couldn't ever have ended up in that situation. You cannot convince these women that they are wrong by calling them bigots or misogynists or victim-blaming arseholes.
I also don't see the point in condemning the whole person for ill-informed opinions. Or to distance myself from them. I'm rather opinionated myself and would have to stop talking to everyone I know. Including my family.
And that would be daft given that gently enquiring how those women reached those conclusions and respectfully engaging with them on their (in my view) debatable opinion has proven far more successful in changing minds than denouncing them.
I hold ill-informed, objectionable opinions on some issues, often without even knowing it. I have changed my mind on some of those after I was made aware of this. This will be a true statement about myself until the day I die. Even though I continually educate myself on stuff I don't know about.
The world would be a worse place if we never worked towards a common goal with those we disagree with on other goals. And we would never get anything done that way either.
So, feel free to condemn Posie. Don't donate to her fundraiser. Your choice.
And we make our own choices. Do understand that those of us who do donate, do it not because we agree with everything Posie says and does but because we agree with her on this fundraising goal.
And that many of us will make a decision based on the merits of an endeavour and not solely on the person suggesting it. Yes, that includes trans rights campaigners. If one of them fundraised for a cause that was dear to me, I would still contribute.