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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Posie putting her money where her mouth is. Lets do this.

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Fallingirl · 27/05/2021 21:39

Posie is planning to re-build the women’s sector, starting with crowd funding for a women-only refuge.

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buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 13:18

This whole thread is slagging off other women's services, by women who from what they say on this thread, do not understand the need or sector at all.
Most women do not go out of their area to access a refuge by choice. Most women want to stay in the same area and send their children to the same school. It is the severe shortage of beds in refuges that means they often have to go out of area. Only those with the most dangerous partners choose to go out of area.

buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 13:21

@TinselAngel anyone else in any sector asking for £150k to set up a new project with so little detail would get asked a lot harder questions than Posie is getting. Asking questions and raising concerns is not a personal vendetta. And I think this response makes it more likely that the hard questions are not asked about this project.
Saying you will work all the details out later is not good enough. I would work out more details than Posie appears to have if I was throwing a children's party.

HecatesCatsInFancyHats · 30/05/2021 13:28

@Erikrie

Personally, I'm 100% confident that Rise are much better placed to help women that Posie - she doesn't know anything about providing services for women who've suffered abuse and trauma. Rise have 26 years experience in the field

In which case you do a fundraiser / donate and campaign for them if that's your preference. Rather than riding on the back of Posies campaign to try and direct people donations away from it. There's room for all of them.

There really is something pretty stinky about trying to bring down another woman's campaign to create safe sex segregated spaces tbh.

Rise are a wonderful service, but they lost their funding. This is a live problem in the sector right now. It seems a little strange to say - leave it to the organisations that are having funding pulled because of this ideology.
Floisme · 30/05/2021 13:28

I think the questions and concerns about detail have some validity. Defensiveness and character assassinations do not.

buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 13:35

@HecatesCatsInFancyHats why would you not give money to refuges having money pulled?

Helleofabore · 30/05/2021 13:37

There are a few feminists even now who won't talk to me as they think I'm a Posie supporter!

And this is where I have felt that I will always fall into the 'never a good enough feminist'.

buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 13:40

Won't talk to you? I do not know anyone who acts like that unless they are fed up of you in other ways?

HecatesCatsInFancyHats · 30/05/2021 13:43

[quote buggerbuggery]@HecatesCatsInFancyHats why would you not give money to refuges having money pulled?[/quote]
I would, I do and I have. I'm saying that the direction of travel is hugely concerning - refuges having funding pulled because they're not gender neutral enough. To get to this stage battles have been lost. It needs daylight and it needs radical action to highlight what is going on because something isn't working. At no point did I say no one should give money to Rise. I objected to using them to undermine PP's efforts.

Erikrie · 30/05/2021 13:45

why would you not give money to refuges having money pulled?

You can do that can't you. If you want to donate. Then donate your money. Don't try to dictate to others where they should donate theirs.

buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 13:48

@HecatesCatsInFancyHats thanks for clarifying. It is not the women-only issue though that is the biggest threat, it is the commissioning of services.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 30/05/2021 13:52

Reading this thread has annoyed me so much I'm giving Posie another tenner.

P.S. people are really upset at the prospect she'll succeed. Confused Given that half the world seems to think Posie is planning to run this shelter (WHY?), why the evergrowing triffid would any transwoman want to go near it? Confused

Posie putting her money where her mouth is. Lets do this.
Posie putting her money where her mouth is. Lets do this.
buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 13:56

Everyone would love her to succeed. That is not my concern.

Erikrie · 30/05/2021 13:59

Reading this thread has annoyed me so much I'm giving Posie another tenner

Yes I'm going to donate more too. And share the link far and wide.

HecatesCatsInFancyHats · 30/05/2021 13:59

[quote buggerbuggery]@HecatesCatsInFancyHats thanks for clarifying. It is not the women-only issue though that is the biggest threat, it is the commissioning of services.[/quote]
I think it's both.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 30/05/2021 14:04

@buggerbuggery

Everyone would love her to succeed. That is not my concern.
Check the screenshots. No they wouldn't!
Fallingirl · 30/05/2021 14:06

@MiladyBerserko

Btw Sapphos. Your conversion mask is slipping
Lol.

The idea of Posie being behind the aggressive storming of Capitol Hill especially made my day 🤣

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unwashedanddazed · 30/05/2021 14:13

I can't believe there are posters here effectively saying Posie should just be nice.

Hasn't it sunk in yet that being nice is what has gotten women only services destroyed?

More power to her.

buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 14:16

No posters are effectively saying, do not ask any questions at all, just give monet=y and trust her.

Artichokeleaves · 30/05/2021 14:19

@PurgatoryOfPotholes

Reading this thread has annoyed me so much I'm giving Posie another tenner.

P.S. people are really upset at the prospect she'll succeed. Confused Given that half the world seems to think Posie is planning to run this shelter (WHY?), why the evergrowing triffid would any transwoman want to go near it? Confused

Words just fail.

The whole point is that the female people this would serve cannot access all the other fucking provisions because they all serve people of both sexes.

They cannot allow female people even one, single solitary provision if they fund it themselves. Not one.

SpindleWhorl · 30/05/2021 14:24

[quote buggerbuggery]@HecatesCatsInFancyHats thanks for clarifying. It is not the women-only issue though that is the biggest threat, it is the commissioning of services.[/quote]
Well they're linked, aren't they? Via Stonewalleology bleeding into the processes.

BattyOrange · 30/05/2021 14:26

No posters are effectively saying, do not ask any questions at all, just give monet=y and trust her.

No, posters are saying ask Posie if you have questions because she's not able to answer them on this forum herself as she's banned. Posters are also saying that we can all give our money to whoever we choose.

buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 14:32

But Posie is not answering questions. She said she had not worked out the details yet. Just give me the money.

SpindleWhorl · 30/05/2021 14:39

She also have an email address to send questions to her.

SpindleWhorl · 30/05/2021 14:40

gave

buggerbuggery · 30/05/2021 14:42

Questions should be answered publicly