@soberodent
So what, exactly, is 'normal femininity' in your opinion?
Leaving aside clothing/hair/makeup as these are matters of fashion. Take a look at pictures of aristocratic men in the 17th/18th century to see males wearing velvet jackets in bright colours, lacey shirts, high heeled shoes covered with pink silk, long curly wigs. Today a lot of clothing is unisex - indeed in my local Mountain Warehouse shop there's a picture of a family of 4 where mum, dad, son and daughter are all dressed in identical clothing - but clearly there are fashions for how men and women should dress/present that change through time.
So what, apart from this, is femininity? What are the behavioural characteristics, personality, interests, ways of seeing the world that characterise it, and which are different from masculinity?
So, apart from