I have heard “Why are you here? Because you were there” before as well and I think it’s excellent.
Yeah, I agree, that when we try to differentiate the UK and US the purpose should not be to give the UK a pat on the back.
I’ve heard the idea expressed before that what happened in the British Isles - in Ireland, the Highland Clearances etc. - acted somewhat as a model for the sort of tyranny that Britain then exported to other parts of the world. I’m sure that’s arguable and a massive oversimplification but it’s an interesting idea. And we do seem to have some - obviously non accidental - amnesia about it all. Actually I suspect not infrequently an American might be able to tell you more about some of these events - especially where their own ancestors’ migration may have been linked to them - than a British person. I will give Americans that.
Agree also that Scotland has done a very intriguing job at rebranding and somehow relinquishing all responsibility when it comes to slavery and Empire, when clearly there has been lots of active participation in that.
As a British person abroad, I think all Scots and others know that we will get a much, much better response saying we are Scottish, not British.
My DF, who is not British, used to enjoy pretending to be whilst abroad, in order to give the British a bad name, which he found hilarious. Once this involved strategically humming Rule Britannia.