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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Daily acts of feminism - a thread for ideas

441 replies

teawamutu · 14/03/2021 10:14

Pinched the idea shamelessly from another thread after an hour of speechless rage reading the papers and Twatter. I need to DO something.

I pledge to do something positive every day to stand up for women. Deeds not words.

Today was taken care of for me - a subscription to The Radical Notion for Mother's Day. I'm also going to fill out the VAWG consultation.

Thought might be good to share anything else we come across here, so anyone in need of ideas could check?

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PurpleHoodie · 19/03/2021 13:58

"334bu

Just thinking about how often male violence is minimised in newspaper headlines ( e g "loving father snaps and....)"

According to
ipso.co.uk

"Any member of the public or any organisation can make a complaint under Clause 1 (Accuracy) of the Code, if they are looking to correct a significant inaccuracy. "

Maybe we should have a template letter for this and flood them with complaints."

Leafstamp · 19/03/2021 14:02

@PurpleHoodie

"334bu

Just thinking about how often male violence is minimised in newspaper headlines ( e g "loving father snaps and....)"

According to
ipso.co.uk

"Any member of the public or any organisation can make a complaint under Clause 1 (Accuracy) of the Code, if they are looking to correct a significant inaccuracy. "

Maybe we should have a template letter for this and flood them with complaints."

Tag teaming you Purple Grin

Here's a link for the IPSO complaint: www.ipso.co.uk/complain/complaints-form/

PurpleHoodie · 19/03/2021 14:06

Bicep pose Grin

www.ipso.co.uk you say....

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 19/03/2021 14:38

Who feels like a spot of gardening on this fine spring day?

I had an email today from Sonia Appleby, a GIDS whistleblower who is trying to protect transgender patients -- and those who may temporarily be considered transgender.

She's raising funds for her employment tribunal case against her employers. Not just because they're bullying her but because they're still not taking child safeguarding seriously.

So I've started a thread about her. Do drop in and help bring her efforts to fruition.

Cloud1921 · 19/03/2021 17:14

So because of this post today I have:

Filled in the Gov survey about violence towards women and girls.

Bought loads of resources from:
victimfocus-resources.com/

As the adopted mum of a teen girl who is the survivor of CSA I wish I'd heard about this before.

Started loaning money to 2 women through lend with care.

Thanks for all the suggestions

PurpleHoodie · 20/03/2021 08:47

Bumpette

334bu · 20/03/2021 09:05

Having just watched a YouTube clip where Patrick Harvie, co leader Scottish Green Party accused, without naming of course " For Women Scotland," as a group funded by and with the same goals as the US extreme alt right, have resolved as my daily act of feminism to no longer give my second vote for Scottish Parliament to a party which denies science and is totally shameless in hurling baseless accusations against women fighting to maintain their legal rights. Sod off The Greens.

teawamutu · 20/03/2021 09:21

@Cloud1921

So because of this post today I have:

Filled in the Gov survey about violence towards women and girls.

Bought loads of resources from:
victimfocus-resources.com/

As the adopted mum of a teen girl who is the survivor of CSA I wish I'd heard about this before.

Started loaning money to 2 women through lend with care.

Thanks for all the suggestions

Wishing your daughter healing, Cloud
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MaudTheInvincible · 20/03/2021 10:07

@334bu

Having just watched a YouTube clip where Patrick Harvie, co leader Scottish Green Party accused, without naming of course " For Women Scotland," as a group funded by and with the same goals as the US extreme alt right, have resolved as my daily act of feminism to no longer give my second vote for Scottish Parliament to a party which denies science and is totally shameless in hurling baseless accusations against women fighting to maintain their legal rights. Sod off The Greens.

Was that the one where he spoke against women being protected by the hate crime bill? That was hate-filled spittle-flecked invective if every I saw it. Maybe he's always like that, purple with gynophobic rage.

MaudTheInvincible · 20/03/2021 10:12

I was here to give a suggestion but got distracted by memories of PH Sad

Anyway, having got the weekly Filia newsletter yesterday, it is full to the brim with things to be done, to listen to, and to read. If you haven't already signed up, here's a link explore.filia.org.uk/newsletter-signup

motherrunner · 20/03/2021 10:30

Thanks for the link @MaudTheInvincible. Just signed up.

MaudTheInvincible · 20/03/2021 10:34

Brilliant motherrunner Brew

Immaback · 20/03/2021 10:37

If you put “the invisible job spec checklist “ into google there’s a full list of household tasks to be split between adults . Very useful. Love this thread !

334bu · 20/03/2021 10:42

I think that it probably was. Won't post link because it is blatant smearing of For Women Scotland , identifying them in every which way bar actually naming them.
Horrible little man.

334bu · 20/03/2021 10:42

Sorry that reply was to Maud

mum2jakie · 21/03/2021 10:37

Completed the census. Put myself first as householder and skipped the question on 'gender identity' for all of us

334bu · 21/03/2021 11:08

Have just emailed Organ Donation Scotland regarding their use of gender in their form. Thanks to the ladies on this board I asked , along with the question " did they not need to know my sex", why they were ignoring the Yogyakarta Principles by asking me to out myself. I also queried their need to ask me this and if there were no need would this not be against Data Protection Rules.
So thank you all.

teawamutu · 21/03/2021 13:15

Today I've signed the petition to end the statute of limitations for domestic abuse and emailed my local refuge to see if they'd like any nearly new women's and children's clothes, or some toiletries.

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TheRabbitOfCaerbannog · 21/03/2021 13:22

I've sent off my paper census plus sex in the census letter and done a bit of digging for sisters in Scotland this weekend. Also donated to Filia and signed up to their newsletter- thanks to pp for the recommendation.

Leafstamp · 21/03/2021 20:43

[quote MaudTheInvincible]I was here to give a suggestion but got distracted by memories of PH Sad

Anyway, having got the weekly Filia newsletter yesterday, it is full to the brim with things to be done, to listen to, and to read. If you haven't already signed up, here's a link explore.filia.org.uk/newsletter-signup[/quote]
Thanks for this. I’ve signed up today

teawamutu · 23/03/2021 08:05

Today's action will be a note of thanks to Baroness Noakes: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4199307-Baroness-Noakes-parliamentary-questions-the-ones-we-ve-been-saying-need-answering-after-the-ONS-FPFW-case

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oldwomanwhoruns · 23/03/2021 08:35

@teawamutu , sorry sorry too late for your letter, but I'm doing my own and will add these 2 points too:

  1. Hate crimes legislation - preferably repeal as it creates untouchable 'sacred castes', or, in the short term, add female-ness as Protected Characteristic (not misogyny as that can be twisted)
  2. Gvmt advisers employed to put forward the female perspective should all be female. & referencing the 50-50 committee, and the gvmt equalities advisor )who recently resigned) who was TW, so had an inbuilt bias against females.
Cowbells · 23/03/2021 10:06

How is a paper census is more helpful than online?

teawamutu · 24/03/2021 16:54

Today's act: gardening for FWS. Again.

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OverTheHill50 · 24/03/2021 16:59

@Immaback

If you put “the invisible job spec checklist “ into google there’s a full list of household tasks to be split between adults . Very useful. Love this thread !
Didn't seem to work for me - can you provide any further info/ links?