MumsTheWordFact
We get to be labelled and told what to do because we always have been.
Using more overt or subtle methods in different places at different times.
To way too many men, women are a set of 2D stereotypes. And if we kick at them, we are pushed back to a greater or a lesser extent.
No of course we can't expect to have our choices of name etc respected. All the years of women being called the wrong name, automatically put in certain roles, relegated to second applicant on important things they applied for because there is s man on the scene.
That's all making a fuss, don't be silly, it's tradition, not important, etc etc
This happens and boom! Dead naming. Wrong pronouns are hate speech etc etc.
The stuff with women's titles names etc has been going on since the 70s with slow progress and still women told often by other women to STFU.
and now we have a new externally imposed name.
It's all kind of. New but not new.
So we keep going.