I agree somewhat Gaoth.
I think you are right that attitudes have moved on a bit, but I think there is a reactionary fear of being old fashioned....God forbid you should now mention the work that the religious orders did at a time when our new-born state was not able to afford it, nor did the state have the structures to provide (education, health etc etc).
In an attempt to be "modern" and "tolerant" and "nice", there a lot of babies being thrown out with the bathwater.
There's an unthinking rejection of old norms, because they're old rather than really examining what the function of those norms was.
So, why do we have women-only short lists?
Why do we have single sex prisons?
Why do we have single sex schools?
Why doesn't your teenage daughter share a tent with the boys on the Scouts trip?
etc etc
"TERFS" (awful word that has come to mean something dreadfully misogynistic ) are really the people asking those questions.
I am both pro-womens rights and pro-trans rights.
The fact that I can hold both those thoughts at the same time appears to be enough to blow some people's tiny minds.
As a woman, I reserve the right to prioritise my concern for women's rights over those of other groups.