@Onadifferentuniverse
All I can see recently is how every angle of these arguments is contradictory.
If someone has a vagina they should be entitled to buy a product of health for it.
Same with a penis.
How do they know they've got a vagina? How do they know they've got a cervix? How do they know they've got a uterus?
Do they have to wait until someone tells them, because it's suddenly become relevant?
Seriously, what IS the criteria for knowing whether or not you have one of these things?? Tell me. Because I know you know, but you've suddenly just lost the word to describe it.
This isn't about choosing your words carefully so as to not offend a vanishingly small number of women who, frankly, never actually seem to object to it at all.
This is about the deliberate decoupling of the word woman from their biology.
Notice there is no such campaign for men. I can guarantee there is no marketing team anywhere, attending meetings for an erectile dysfunction product and telling the people they need to say the product is for men, and anyone who identifies as one. Or for women with a penis.
Women with a penis aren't interested in policing the language of men. It's not men's biology that is the issue.
Women's is. It's to make sure that women don't have a collective term to talk about their numerous shared experiences, which place them all in the same category. A category which excludes women with penises.
This is about the deliberate and systematic erasure of women as a political, biological and linguistic group.
How are you going to do deal with sexism and misogyny if you can't name the group at which it is aimed?
Are you going to say that sexual harassment only happens to people with breasts or bottoms? What about verbal sexual harassment? How will you identify the group at whom that is aimed? What did they have in common? I'm reminded of the transman who was raped in the back a taxi, sobbingly telling a police officer, but I kept telling him I was a man. Sexism couldn't care less about how you identify.
How are you going to describe the group who suffer from the mummy penalty? When you are working out statistics, will you have to take a random group of people and ask them whether or not they have a uterus? And how will they know?
Sexism and misogyny means that women as a collective are treated as lesser than. They need a word to describe that, across the board, showing how it affects them in umpteen ways.
What are you will end up with is a whole series of platforms on which women are discriminated, without having one single word to connect them all together.
This has got absolutely nothing to do with being kind to a handful of dysphoric women.