Apologies, Littlemeadow123, weary is more like it. You know what? A few years ago I was cheerfully identifying as cis het AFAB. I followed PZ Myers, primarily for his atheism, and in the process learned a lot about trans* and how, back in those days, people pronounced it trans-splat. I was hugely sympathetic, and pretty contemptuous of stone age women who wouldn’t accept TW as women, actual women. I spent a lot of time trying to convince them that they should. It was nobody else’s business what was in someone’s pants.
Except it was. It was always male people telling female people what to do. To accept, make way, make room, shut up. Once you see that, you can’t unsee it. Men telling women. Yes, there are sympathetic female people, like I was, but the drivers are male. And so many women doing what they’re told.
So cis? These days, yes, I do give it a bit of the side eye.