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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Interesting debate on Horse and Hound re trans at the moment

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FleecyMoo · 13/07/2020 18:57

Predictably there are a lot of women defending the need to call women 'cis' but some women are trying to explain that woman is a complete word!

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Trivium4all · 15/07/2020 12:13

@Lexilooo, on a horse, or in a 4x4?

Lexilooo · 15/07/2020 12:50

Neither, an ancient hatchback 🙈

FleecyMoo · 15/07/2020 15:05

Lots of Princess Anne stories. I like it. I think she had her mind on other things rather than targeting me because she didn't like the cut of my jib!

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WomaninBoots · 15/07/2020 19:12

Is anyone going to sit through the video that has been linked? I got about a minute in...

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 15/07/2020 19:56

Is there a word for someone who cannot comprehend that they might be wrong and who keeps going like a human bulldozer, laying waste to any and all facts that are put before them?
Proper LOL. This thread is one of the reasons I enjoy MN.

Is it legit to join Horse and Hound if one only rides once a fortnight, hasn't owned a horse since childhood* and has never been hunting? (I've been beagling though, does that count?)

*spend too much time and money on the dogs...

Lexilooo · 15/07/2020 20:08

@womaninboots I got about 5 mins in and lost the will to live and/or got sick of being patronised. I was hoping someone here might have watched it 😁

FannyCann · 15/07/2020 20:11

Is it legit to join Horse and Hound if one only rides once a fortnight, hasn't owned a horse since childhood

I'm sure that must qualify you. It sounds to me as if it may have become an unlikely destination for some of the reddit refugees!

Lexilooo · 15/07/2020 20:11

@GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman yes of course there are several regulars that don't ride at all. An interest in horses or dogs helps but neither are compulsory.

I'm not a Mum but I am on Mumsnet 😳

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 15/07/2020 20:26

Love horses, love dogs (more).
Thanks for the intro.

WomaninBoots · 15/07/2020 20:42

[quote Lexilooo]@womaninboots I got about 5 mins in and lost the will to live and/or got sick of being patronised. I was hoping someone here might have watched it 😁[/quote]
Looks like someone took one for the team and responded after managing to watch it anyway. Grin

boatyardblues · 15/07/2020 21:02

I’m loving this extreme TAAT action. The thread isn’t even on this forum. 🤣

WomaninBoots · 16/07/2020 12:58

Looks like it might become a behemoth thread like the Brexit and Coronavirus threads too the way it's going.

Trivium4all · 16/07/2020 15:42

I've retired to my stripy tent to have a wee rest before putting my armour back on, picking up my lance, and getting back on my horse.

WomaninBoots · 16/07/2020 16:48

Good for you Trivium. I'm going to and ride my actual horse in a bit, who is most definitely male despite lackinh bollocks, and give it a bit of a rest too!

It's funny how the thread started about cancel culture but just keeps coming back to the trans issue! People keep trying to pull it back to free speech etc but it keeps circling back.

Also. Intersex. Blimey that one really sticks doesn't it? This is the first time I've seen or been involved in a discussion of these issue outside of FWR where the numbers of people willing to post as GC or not 100% TWAW has been high enough for the conversation to escape being steamrollered. The last time trans came up on HHO I think there were only 2 GC posters willing to speak openly and a few who muttered a little in support. It's quite heartening to see the shift.

FleecyMoo · 16/07/2020 17:56

I can't be the only one wondering who you all are on HHO Grin. That highlights the problem though i.e. those of us on the GC side who are expressing perfectly reasonable thoughts still feel terrified in case we are 'exposed' :( In some ways I am actually envious of the Kool Aid drinkers because it would be lovely to remain in blissful ignorance ...

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Lexilooo · 16/07/2020 18:34

Yes definitely wondering who people are, some phraseology is familiar but I'm not going to try and match people up. There are some HHOers that I never thought would be mumsnetters!

I would really like to bring up the issue of children, especially girls being pushed into transition, the effects of medication and detransitioners. I think it would resonate, but I don't really know enough about that side of things.

FleecyMoo · 16/07/2020 18:48

I really hope some more FWR members join the debate because I have to bow out for a while since the 'kindness' is ramping up again and I feel as though my head might explode with frustration. There is absolutely no problem with genitally intact men sharing changing rooms with prepubescent girls etc. Really? REALLY?

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currahee · 16/07/2020 19:23

I'm going to have to bow out for a bit too as I have plans this evening but I am also heartened by how balanced the discussion has been, I've been around both for years and never thought I'd see the convergence of FWR and HHO!

WomaninBoots · 16/07/2020 19:32

"Be kiiiiiiiiiiiiiind" head desk

WomaninBoots · 16/07/2020 21:26

Action man.

I'm calling bingo.

FleecyMoo · 16/07/2020 21:46

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WomaninBoots · 16/07/2020 22:03

Grin I don't think I can bear to do it to them.

So much bait and switch regarding "going through transition" vs " anyone who says they are is a woman"

FannyCann · 18/07/2020 14:12

Twitter thread re: Sue Pascoe.

twitter.com/ripx4nutmeg/status/1284466722871877632?s=21

SeventeenTwoChestnutMare · 20/07/2020 19:09

FWR regular here, under my MN Tack Room name - I’m an occasional non-member lurker on HHO (though less lately as current circumstances have reined in my equestrian activity). Now is probably not the time to sign up!

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