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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Munroe Bergdorf

999 replies

ripples101 · 06/07/2020 21:34

I am trans.

I was a follower of Munroe Bergdorf’s Instagram.

Munroe wrote a post about JK Rowling, calling her a dangerous woman to the trans community. Munroe stayed something along the lines of

“JKR is a dangerous cisgendered, white woman who is causing harm”

I replied to this post, asking why Munroe felt it necessary to mention JK Rowing’s racial identity.

I wasn’t Abusive. I just felt that it wasn’t necessary, in regards to what Munroe was being critical of, to mention JK Rowling’s ethnicity.

Within minutes my post was deleted and I was blocked.

I am trans, and Munroe has silenced me.

So it seems nothing can be questioned. Any intent to ask a question, or to strike up debate, will be met with being silenced.

This is fast turning into propaganda. This is fast turning into thought crime. This is fast turning into silencing. This is fast turning into something it should never have been.

When a trans person isn’t even able to question another trans person, what chance do “people who belong to sex that menstruate”* have?

  • Christ, I don’t even feel like I can use the word women here without being controversial.

I am so sorry for people to whom I thought I identified alongside (trans people) who are doing this to you. I feel sick and ashamed of what I am, because of people who are representing me.

I feel like I literally have no space left. And I can’t help but feel that a lot of biological woman are feeling the same way. And you have so much more to lose than I ever will, so I simply can’t imagine how this is making you all feel.

OP posts:
ScrimpshawTheSecond · 06/07/2020 22:24

We're not talking about black/white here, Lemonade. In what way does a woman have a 'biological' privilege over a transwoman?

OvaHere · 06/07/2020 22:24

lemonade

Transwomen, black or otherwise are male. If the weren't they wouldn't be trans.

LemonadeAndDaisyChains · 06/07/2020 22:26

We're not talking about black/white here, Lemonade

Erm... have you read the OP?
Here.
This bit.

JKR is a dangerous cisgendered, white woman who is causing harm”
I replied to this part, asking why Munroe felt it necessary to mention JK Rowing’s racial identity

I gave an answer as to why it could have been taken offence at.
If you don't want to see that then fine.

MMN123 · 06/07/2020 22:29

Biological females do not have biological privilege over trans women, who are male. Trans women have male privilege.

OvaHere · 06/07/2020 22:30

It's not unreasonable for Munroe to think JKR is not well placed to talk about race issues (although it should be noted she hasn't actually done this).

However as Munroe feels it's perfectly okay for them to dictate about women's issues including women's bodies I'm not inclined to take Munroe seriously about anything.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/07/2020 22:33

Perfectly put, Ovahere.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/07/2020 22:37

Transwomen, black or otherwise are male. If the weren't they wouldn't be trans.

Lemonade would agree with you on that, judging by her comments on another thread today.

I guess that's why males were mentioned, Lemonade? Because we're talking about MTF trans people?

BadgertheBodger · 06/07/2020 22:40

Northerners are not responsible for Owen Jones Grin

InionEile · 06/07/2020 22:41

It's become commonplace now for TRAs to invoke racism as part of their cause - the vulnerability of 'Black transwomen' is now tacked onto every TRA statement by default so White transpeople can 'check their privilege'. As the OP says, the level of purity signaling required for acceptance among this activist community is beyond parody. Do they really care about the most vulnerable in the trans community? Seems unlikely given how self-absorbed most TRAs seem to be.

Helen Lewis has a good piece in the Atlantic on the furious response to JKR's statement. She makes some good observations on how doctrinal purity is an adolescent way to think about the world - people are either good or bad, you're either with us or against us, 'it really is that simple'. And of course, once we grow up a bit and get some sense, we begin to see that life is more complex. There is always room for nuance and debate when it comes to complex moral issues. Simple sloganeering just shuts down debate. Anyway, I thought it was a good read.
How JK Rowling Became Voldemort

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/07/2020 22:45

If they really cared they would be looking at strategies to get MTF trans people out of prostitution, which carries a murder rate around 40x the average in the US.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/07/2020 22:46

But shock horror, that would make you a "SWERF"

HH160bpm · 06/07/2020 22:47

Munroe thinks women’s protests shouldn’t mention female biology in any form. Munroe has chosen to bring race into an issue which is about biological sex.

Munroe reminds me of the kids at primary school who would play group games only when they got to keep remaking the rules so they never lost.

SirSamuelVimesBlackboardMonito · 06/07/2020 22:47

Munroe reminds me of the kids at primary school who would play group games only when they got to keep remaking the rules so they never lost.

That is an exceptionally good analogy.

NotBadConsidering · 06/07/2020 22:51

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Highperbolay · 06/07/2020 22:57

Oh just answer the fucking question for once Lemonade

In what way does a woman have a 'biological' privilege over a transwoman?

averysuitablegirl · 06/07/2020 23:01

ripples101 thanks for starting this thread. It describes three aspects of the current threats to women's rights that I've been thinking about a lot recently.

  1. There is a section of society, possibly more than one actually, that isn't content with communications being run by men and for men. They want to shut down any slight disagreement from their orthodoxy that everything has to centre males, and have the power to do so. See Twitter, Reddit, Facebook at least (don't spend much time on SM but likely more) for how any challenge to this hegemony are shut down, 'shadowed' and generally disallowed.
  1. One of their key tactics is to control language, hence the meaninglessness chants of TWAW etc. If women can't name our oppression, we can't organise around it. If we have to wait to be told what a 'woman' is, we cannot take control of our own lives.
  1. How often gender ideologists try to co-opt race into their arguments. It never makes sense, its use is pretty insulting to the racial struggles that so many people live with, and it serves only to detract from the fact that they don't have an actual argument.
BananaChocolateLump · 06/07/2020 23:04

Because we have vaginas and trans women have penises. Or have had them turned inside out but it's still jot a vagina

Transwomen are not women. Stop trying to claim our spaces.

averysuitablegirl · 06/07/2020 23:07

We all know that women don't have privilege over people who aren't women.

JKR's ethnicity is completely irrelevant. MB makes no reference to how she is 'causing harm' to non-white people. Neither has anyone else because we all know that she isn't.

JKR is only 'dangerous' if you are threatened by someone having a different view to you. This tends to happen when you don't have an argument to support your own view, in my observation.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 06/07/2020 23:09

Look up the term "purity spiral", OP, it explains a lot about some of what's happening on Twitter. At this point I'm assuming the cancellations will continue until there are about 5 people left, all of whom are trying to figure out a way to cancel the other 4.

Highperbolay · 06/07/2020 23:17

Here is a woman desperately trying to be an 'ally' to Munroe and Munroe's reply. You can almost hear Munroe hissing the words 'cis, straight, white women' with venom.

Munroe Bergdorf
Highperbolay · 06/07/2020 23:18

Didn't even bother to say, 'thank you for being an ally' or anything!

HH160bpm · 06/07/2020 23:21

No amount of tribute will ever be enough.

Munroe Bergdorf
RufustheRowlingReindeer · 06/07/2020 23:21

@Highperbolay

Didn't even bother to say, 'thank you for being an ally' or anything!
Nope

Cos rosie doesn’t count

Highperbolay · 06/07/2020 23:23

Munroe really does come across as quite an unpleasant individual.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 06/07/2020 23:24

The danger of taking that position is that when people realize that nothing will ever be enough some/many of them will stop trying.