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Why r/GenderCritical was banned by Reddit

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MadBadDaddy · 29/06/2020 23:38

Hi! TRA here! Thought I'd take a quick breather from all the crowing, high-fiving, etc. to throw a lifeline to any actual open-minded critical thinkers wondering why Reddit banned r/gendercritical. Basically, you have 2 options when it comes to what to believe:

  1. It's a true conspiracy: silicon valley, hollywood & the media are in the thrall of the well-funded TransAgenda, the need for woke points, child-groomers, women-haters, MRAs, etc. etc.
  1. r/GenderCritical was hateful - if you want evidence then go to r/GenderCynical which existed to harvest said hatefulness. Read their strictly enforced rules about hate speech, misogyny, anti-feminism, pile-ons, doxxing, etc. (NB: abbreviating "trans exclusionary radical feminist" is not considered hate speech on this subreddit) and then sort their posts by "top" and "all time" and judge for yourself.

The trans men, trans women and non-binary people of Reddit do not hate women and do not tolerate abuse. Have a better day. x

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HeistSociety · 06/07/2020 00:16

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LemonadeAndDaisyChains · 06/07/2020 00:20

Piss off?!
It's usually
"We want a discussion"
"We're all ears"
We do like to not be in an echo chamber, what gives you that impression that we are an echo chamber?
Piss off?!
Wow.
Good job I'm stubborn and feel like sticking my tongue out and saying "shan't" for having a different opinion isn't it.
Discussion is welcome here!
Aye. Rightio showed up what it's really like for dissenting voices, good job.

HeistSociety · 06/07/2020 00:25

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TehBewilderness · 06/07/2020 00:26

HeistSociety

I note that your dissenting opinion is not so welcome as others, eh?

HeistSociety · 06/07/2020 00:30

@TehBewilderness

HeistSociety

I note that your dissenting opinion is not so welcome as others, eh?

Surprise, surprise.
Fearandsurprise · 06/07/2020 00:31

I’ve just revisited the trans widows threads and the threads on agp. They provide a useful lens to read some people’s posts on this board and others.

LemonadeAndDaisyChains · 06/07/2020 00:36

Nah, I think anti- feminists don't belong in feminist chat

I'm not anti feminist.
I believe in women being able to think for themselves, I believe we are able and capable of making our own choices, having our own thoughts, and not having to blame every little thing we do on the patriarchy or have any wrongdoing explained away because woman.
I believe in freedom of choice, the ability to be able to think for ourselves, know what we like, without others telling us what to do or think, whether that others is men or other women.
Before someone parrots "choice isn't made in a vacuum" - maybe not, but I know women are capable of independent thought and it doesn't mean they've been brainwashed.
I just can't align myself with gate keeping feminists, saying what is and isn't so called womanly or what we should be doing or thinking.
Doesn't mean I'm any less than you just because my stance isn't radical.

HeistSociety · 06/07/2020 00:42

@LemonadeAndDaisyChains

Nah, I think anti- feminists don't belong in feminist chat

I'm not anti feminist.
I believe in women being able to think for themselves, I believe we are able and capable of making our own choices, having our own thoughts, and not having to blame every little thing we do on the patriarchy or have any wrongdoing explained away because woman.
I believe in freedom of choice, the ability to be able to think for ourselves, know what we like, without others telling us what to do or think, whether that others is men or other women.
Before someone parrots "choice isn't made in a vacuum" - maybe not, but I know women are capable of independent thought and it doesn't mean they've been brainwashed.
I just can't align myself with gate keeping feminists, saying what is and isn't so called womanly or what we should be doing or thinking.
Doesn't mean I'm any less than you just because my stance isn't radical.

You certainly don't demonstrate a willingness to centre female experience or thought, so I'm not sure what form your feminism takes.

In any case, I was referring to the OP, and not to you.

Fearandsurprise · 06/07/2020 00:50

Doesn't mean I'm any less than you just because my stance isn't radical

No one is saying you are “any less”.

I just can't align myself with gate keeping feminists, saying what is and isn't so called womanly or what we should be doing or thinking.

But you are happy to align yourself with male-bodied people saying exactly that.

LemonadeAndDaisyChains · 06/07/2020 00:50

The OP was invited more than once to cease lying about GC, and instead contribute to discussion on a feminist issue that interests them.

I don't get that though - the OP started this thread as there was discussion on here over Reddit GC being banned - seeing as OP was the moderator on Reddit (someone correct me if I'm wrong, moderator probably the wrong word?!) they came here to explain why.
I've never been over to Reddit GC, so haven't seen for myself but I know the stuff I see here that allows differing opinions, and some of those are a bit Hmm
If GC Reddit only had one voice and chased away others that believed TWAW, (again, correct me if I'm wrong) but I can see why it's gone if so.
Some views tip into hateful and if there was no opposing views and just affirming/backslapping each other for hate, yeah, how is that good?
Again, if that's not what it was like then fair enough but if it was I can see why.

LemonadeAndDaisyChains · 06/07/2020 00:54

But you are happy to align yourself with male-bodied people saying exactly that

Nothing to do with aligning myself with male bodied or female bodied people.
I take people at face value.
If I agree with what they're saying, I'm agreeing with them for their words not what they have in their pants.

MrGHardy · 06/07/2020 00:55

"Neither I nor anyone else can 'prove' that I'm trans, or not, but I know that I am."

No one here is denying you are trans.

We are denying that being trans makes you the opposite sex.

Fearandsurprise · 06/07/2020 00:58

seeing as OP was the moderator on Reddit

Lemonade - where did they say that?

Fearandsurprise · 06/07/2020 01:00

@LemonadeAndDaisyChains

But you are happy to align yourself with male-bodied people saying exactly that

Nothing to do with aligning myself with male bodied or female bodied people.
I take people at face value.
If I agree with what they're saying, I'm agreeing with them for their words not what they have in their pants.

But you agree that someone can define what is womanly? Other than biology. Otherwise, how can you support TWAW?
DeRigueurMortis · 06/07/2020 01:02

I just can't align myself with gate keeping feminists, saying what is and isn't so called womanly or what we should be doing or thinking.

Where to start unpacking this...

Ok - "so called womanly" the whole nexus of radical feminism is that this idea of what women should think or adhere to a specific aesthetic is null.

Womanhood is about biology and you can't identify out of it.

"Gate keeping feminists" - well yes. Feminism is absolutely about gatekeeping women's rights.

It's the foundation it's built on.

Any "form" of "feminism" that's happy to play the Trojan Horse and let men in through the gate is simply anti- feminist.

HeistSociety · 06/07/2020 01:04

@LemonadeAndDaisyChains

The OP was invited more than once to cease lying about GC, and instead contribute to discussion on a feminist issue that interests them.

I don't get that though - the OP started this thread as there was discussion on here over Reddit GC being banned - seeing as OP was the moderator on Reddit (someone correct me if I'm wrong, moderator probably the wrong word?!) they came here to explain why.
I've never been over to Reddit GC, so haven't seen for myself but I know the stuff I see here that allows differing opinions, and some of those are a bit Hmm
If GC Reddit only had one voice and chased away others that believed TWAW, (again, correct me if I'm wrong) but I can see why it's gone if so.
Some views tip into hateful and if there was no opposing views and just affirming/backslapping each other for hate, yeah, how is that good?
Again, if that's not what it was like then fair enough but if it was I can see why.

So you think all women's spaces must accept the pseudo religious claim that gender identity makes males into women, and dissenters should be shut down.

I read GC for years. It was not hateful. It was FEMALE.

Interesting to me that you don't accept the testimony of women who actually read the site.

LemonadeAndDaisyChains · 06/07/2020 01:06

Lemonade - where did they say that?

I said happy to be corrected, and I am - thought I'd read it one of the posts somewhere.

MadBadDaddy · 06/07/2020 01:09

So I guess I lied when I said I was letting this thread drift.

This was just posted on Reddit (BTW I wasn't a mod there or anywhere else)

I'll leave this here with no comment, kind of like an appendix, I just thought you should see what I was talking about when I talked about hate on Reddit. Warning: It's very, very horrible.

  • [Message from MNHQ: We've removed the screenshot. We don't know which subReddit group it was taken from - perhaps the OP would like to clarify? - but we don't want to give grim transphobic views like that any airtime on Mumsnet.]
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LemonadeAndDaisyChains · 06/07/2020 01:09

But you agree that someone can define what is womanly? Other than biology. Otherwise, how can you support TWAW?

I know for me there's more to me being a woman than just my biology.
So who am I to say that trans women don't feel the same?

LemonadeAndDaisyChains · 06/07/2020 01:13

This was just posted on Reddit (BTW I wasn't a mod there or anywhere else)

OK, fair dos and thanks for clarifying (dunno where I got that from then lol)
You're providing "receipts." Like asked.
Although I'm no doubt "women aren't meant to be nice" is coming up next.
Funny how that only works one way though - if you aren't talking nice enough with a dissenting opinion then you're a man. Hmm

MrGHardy · 06/07/2020 01:18

100 quid says that was written by a TRA to make it look like all GC hate trans people or some internet troll, but not an actual GC woman.

Also, how fast did mods take it down, the screenshot was only taken 5 minutes after posting. You cannot accuse it of hate if you don't give em a chance to moderate.

Fearandsurprise · 06/07/2020 01:19

@MadBadDaddy

So I guess I lied when I said I was letting this thread drift.

This was just posted on Reddit (BTW I wasn't a mod there or anywhere else)

I'll leave this here with no comment, kind of like an appendix, I just thought you should see what I was talking about when I talked about hate on Reddit. Warning: It's very, very horrible.

I can’t read that on my device. But, as we often see on this board, TRA’s put anti-trans stuff in for screenshots. How do you know that wasn’t put there by a TRA to cause trouble? Answer: you can’t.
WeeBisom · 06/07/2020 01:21

OP , where was this posted ? It can’t have been gender critical, right? Was this a private message?

HeistSociety · 06/07/2020 01:21

That was not posted on GC Reddit by a GC Redditor, and it would have been removed by mods had it been.

There were zero posts like that on GC Reddit.

Fearandsurprise · 06/07/2020 01:21

dunno where I got that from then lol

Oh, I don’t know.... trying to shore up the OP’s credibility, perhaps?

I went back and re-read all of the OP’s posts on this thread to check. You could easily have done the same. Appreciate the OP confirming your error.

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