Hope this isn't going too off-topic, but I think in addition to the typical incels, there is a problem with sexism in millenials and zoomers. This is an old article, but it's relevant, about 'Hipster Sexism': www.thecut.com/2012/10/age-of-hipster-sexism.html
Like Hipster Racism, Hipster Sexism is a distancing gesture, a belief that simply by applying quotations, uncool, questionable, and even offensive material about women can be alchemically transformed.
The men I encountered, who I mentioned upthread, were nothing short of abusive, but at the same time treated it almost as an ironic 'joke' - a typical abuser's strategy. I think a generation of women that's grown up saturated with new media are afraid to challenge the prevalent narratives lest they seem out of touch. Young (heterosexual) women, no matter how much they believe in the rights of women, also have libidos and want sex with men and so are pushed to tolerate abusive behaviour and treat it as though it's just a joke as the price they have to pay for a sex life. I think incel rhetoric and porn has seeped into the mainstream through 'ironic' treatment of sexism, it's all linked together, as is the blurring of what is male and female by trans activists. I think young women are suppressing their own instincts to challenge shitty behaviour and sexism from men, because it's become the norm that men demand violent and degrading sex acts from them and that's just the way guys are, sex is meaningless anyway etc. I think it's a defence mechanism, in the same way sexual abuse victims often go into sex work, because they feel like they can then have some sort of control over their emotional response to what's happened to them by reframing sex as a meaningless act, a way of shrugging it off and pretending sexual abuse is really nothing. I feel depressed for this younger generation of women, the ones I speak to seem very jaded at such a young age when it comes to their sex/love lives.