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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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FannyCann · 28/06/2020 22:28

Also I will gift you one by way of Royalties or something. Grin

I'm on holiday and meant to be weaning myself off the Internet and reading actual books, so it might be a week or so, but it will happen.

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 28/06/2020 23:48

TWAW apparently. And I've been told off for using the glitterball incorrectly.

Goodnight.

PurpleCrowbarWhereIsLangCleg · 28/06/2020 23:59

Sign me up for tea towels!

Last time I donated £50 to Labour they sent me a bloody tea towel. It's long been turned into rags. Would love a Rules of Misogyny one, seriously!

TehBewilderness · 29/06/2020 00:08

It would be fun to have one rule or perhaps a few on each tea towel so we could pick and choose our favorites.
Formatting on those custom printing sites is a knightmare.

TehBewilderness · 29/06/2020 00:12

Tea towels might be a good SBS or other women's fundraiser if you go with a cafe press type site.

Agrona · 29/06/2020 01:25

@wrongsideofhistorymyarse

TWAW apparently. And I've been told off for using the glitterball incorrectly.

Goodnight.

Funny how irony flies over some people’s heads.

I thought your use of the glitterball was not a problem. Some people will argue with a wall if no one else responds.

I now identify as a wall.

GCAcademic · 29/06/2020 04:07

Any idea why, if you advanced search a new poster (and possible doxxer), it shows zero posts, not even the one they’ve just made (and which is still visible on the board)?

TehBewilderness · 29/06/2020 04:11

Can they be banned that fast?

prolefeed · 29/06/2020 04:24

Wut? That’s weird.

prolefeed · 29/06/2020 04:29

Ask night shift. I got same result. They won’t have been banned that fast as ityivernight in uk. Night shift only have hiding thread powers, not banning. And the thread is still up.

prolefeed · 29/06/2020 04:29

Fucks sake. I hate my phone.

Fallingirl · 29/06/2020 04:35

That poster is presumably the same one posting under a different name on the same thread now. Who also has no posting history, not even the ones just posted. Very strange.

prolefeed · 29/06/2020 04:35

I asked night mod to take a look.

prolefeed · 29/06/2020 04:36

Might just be AS goosed.

ItsLateHumpty · 29/06/2020 05:11

I think it takes time for new NN to be indexed and therefore searchable?

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prolefeed · 29/06/2020 05:14

Maybe. Even the sock only posted on one other thread once though.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 29/06/2020 05:20

Wouldn't have thought this was possible but they seem to be getting even less subtle over time. Cages seriously rattled, eh?

prolefeed · 29/06/2020 05:37

Thick as mince. I don’t know whether to be embarrassed for them or pissed that they have such low expectations regarding female intelligence.

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 29/06/2020 07:20

It's a piss poor attempt at doxxing. They've even put a grin emoji to show they're legit.

ErrolTheDragon · 29/06/2020 09:54

I don't know which thread and therefore NNs this is referring to, but is there any chance there's a lowercase L /uppercase I - c&p rather than typing in names is generally a good idea.

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 29/06/2020 14:26

Doxxing thread has gone, and some eejit parroting TWAW for lulz has been shown out of the building.

picklemewalnuts · 29/06/2020 14:40

It's all been a bit full on.

Can someone explain the Bear please?

boatyardblues · 29/06/2020 21:34

Incoming. The AIBU one has the stink of goat’s cheese about it.

Agrona · 29/06/2020 23:15

Is it school holidays?

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 29/06/2020 23:16

a Bear for beware. I might be the only person using it, tho, but it's quite cheery, I like it. Smile

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