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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 29/06/2020 23:17
  • school hols started here today in Scotland.
Agrona · 29/06/2020 23:23

@ScrimpshawTheSecond

- school hols started here today in Scotland.
Thank you.
RufustheRowlingReindeer · 29/06/2020 23:46

Oh no wonder than

ErrolTheDragon · 30/06/2020 00:40

I rather like the beware bear. Some threads maybe better deserve Archers - a load of old bull. Dragon for inflammatory?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/06/2020 00:48

Ooh I like them Errol

BlackeyedSusan · 30/06/2020 01:21

Archers - good job they changed the name back... Grin

Tennis might be useful... (balls)

or on yer Bike

or just like playing with smilies..

thanks for the updates, I always check here when I see the thread.

picklemewalnuts · 30/06/2020 09:34

Thank you Scrimpshaw! I shall be careful going into the woods!

Pertella · 30/06/2020 10:33

🐮

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 30/06/2020 13:44

'So why does my son dislike JKR' Hmm

GinAndTonicNeeded · 30/06/2020 14:13

@wrongsideofhistorymyarse

'So why does my son dislike JKR' Hmm
Plop and screen shot...such faux shock and confusion? If you truly don't have a clue, about a very mainstream individual the first place you look for answers would obviously be FWR.
VickyEadieofThigh · 30/06/2020 14:15

Yes, it looked ploppy - but I think the responses have been good.

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 30/06/2020 17:56

The responses are so much better than disingenuous ploppers.

ItsLateHumpty · 01/07/2020 15:32

No outwith reason Vipers.

Just saying hello and hold the line Brew

As you were 💪

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 01/07/2020 17:08

I don't know where you lot get these fancy emojis from, but they are quite impressive. Here be dragones, indeed.

[tea] cheers, Humpty.

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 01/07/2020 17:09

Oh ffs, see, I can't even do the basic Brew.

Inept at emotage. Where's my Bear.

Agrona · 01/07/2020 22:46

Starts thread as definitive troll, now seeking sympathy for “hurt feels” at people pointing out reality.

Why are people engaging? Troll wants oxygen. Do not feed.

DancelikeEmmaGoldman · 02/07/2020 02:37

Why are people engaging? Troll wants oxygen. Do not feed.

Women are so nice. There’s a fair bit of “poor you”, and I appreciate the posters who’ve given time to exposing the fault lines.

nauticant · 02/07/2020 08:23

I'm not that tempted by the advise-a-teenager thread or the look-how-white-women-are-behaving thread.

BaronessBrighterThanYou · 02/07/2020 08:24

Yes. I agree. Hard to ignore tho'...

Slap my wrist.

nauticant · 02/07/2020 08:28

Ha, don't worry about it, most of us have our own personal catnips.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 02/07/2020 08:35

I'm not tempted by the soothe the hurt feels created by my own poor decision making in coming to gloat about having shut down yet another space for women thread. Narcissists are boring. Still pondering whether it's all one person with many socks - I realize it's unlikely, but if not why do they all sound so similar to the point of being interchangeable?

DancelikeEmmaGoldman · 02/07/2020 09:40

I think I’m just weary of being lectured about my failings as a woman and it’s making me salty. Doesn’t matter how hard women try, they’re never enough for someone.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 02/07/2020 09:44

I can honestly say that I don't give a single shit about what men think about how well I'm doing whatever their idea of womanhood is. Their opinion on that particular issue simply doesn't matter.

BaronessBrighterThanYou · 02/07/2020 14:04

That new funnel shaped thing in the top right corner that has just appeared? - what order are the usernames in?

It seems alphabetical and then it isn't.

On the other subject, I will try harder not to be sucked in. Plus it's now getting a bit tiresome because (naming no names) some of them really are a cracked record. It's repetition, repetition, repetition and absolutely no self awareness.

I'd do a smiley now, if I did smileys. (I bet they're not even called that anymore.)

Ereshkigalangcleg · 02/07/2020 14:17

I take it this new feature isn't on the app?