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Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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CaraDune · 27/06/2020 21:27

Anyone else finding the thread about mothers a bit... odd?

VickyEadieofThigh · 27/06/2020 21:35

I'll post my roast cauliflower recipe on here tomorrow. Watching telly now.

Al1Langdownthecleghole · 27/06/2020 22:31

Can't be bothered tonight. Had planned a picnic earlier which was rained off, so had to have cheese and biscuits whilst watching films with DC.

Cheese and biscuits + Wineis unbeatable.

terryleather · 27/06/2020 23:28

@WanderinWomb

I love the word "yikes "
So do I! What's wrong with "yikes"? We've already lost "folk" to the woke, must they take everything????
TinselAngel · 27/06/2020 23:51

Oh I've missed whether people think cauliflower cheese on a carvery is ok.

FleetsumNJetsum · 28/06/2020 00:55

Gadzooks what a day it has been.

TehBewilderness · 28/06/2020 01:14

I don't dare read any more trollish. I'm on two strikes.

prolefeed · 28/06/2020 01:16

You got hit hard last night. I breathed out when I saw you post earlier. Grin

ItsLateHumpty · 28/06/2020 02:17

Are you sure you’re on strikes Teh? From the first Glinner thread? I’d hope that any deletions from that thread wouldn’t count.

I know I had deletions from that thread - one was on grey rocking Hmm but I’ve had no mails from MNHQ to say I was on notice.

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prolefeed · 28/06/2020 03:21

My only deletion was replying to the nice chap that claimed to be fucking my wife behind my back. All I said was my ‘wife’ was a 6’2” rugby player with a penis, and it wasn’t a lady penis. 🤷‍♀️ It may have been for misgendering. Not entirely sure, but I’ll take it. I was still fairly confused at that point in the thread as getting banned from twitter is fairly par for the course and I was confused at the level of excitement about such a regular occurrence. It made slightly more sense when I read the username. I only popped on for a skim read before I went to bed.

FantaOra · 28/06/2020 03:59

Cauliflower cheese is fine with a carvery provided there is a roast potato line of defense separating the gravy, or mash will do the same job.

boatyardblues · 28/06/2020 08:51

@FantaOra

Cauliflower cheese is fine with a carvery provided there is a roast potato line of defense separating the gravy, or mash will do the same job.
I wouldn’t even insist on the potato defense. Gravy and cheese sauce work fine together and don’t fully integrate. It’s more like the brackish area where muddy river water meets the sea in an estuary.
FannyCann · 28/06/2020 08:55

Are there any T towels with the Rules of Misogyny on?
I need some new T towels and it's going to be a long summer with the DD who has just graduated with a 1st in Lies and Damned Lies returning to the nest. The least I can do is have her wiping her plates with disinfectant.

TinselAngel · 28/06/2020 09:28

It's the gravy/ cheese sauce combo that I can't tolerate the thought of.

nauticant · 28/06/2020 10:44

Segregation has often been an evil in the world. However, it is essential when there's gravy and cheese sauce flowing around the same plate.

Separate plates would be better. Best overall though would be to have them in two wholly separate meals.

FleetsumNJetsum · 28/06/2020 11:02

Great idea FannyCann

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/06/2020 11:04

Roast cauliflower with tahini sauce.

Slice your cauliflower into steaks (doesn't matter if it breaks into florets - indeed, you can make this with a bag of frozen cauli).

Put some olive oil in an oven tray, heat it and then turn the cauli in it well. Sprinkle your cauli with za'atar and paprika or cumin and paprika, then some salt. Turn it again in the oil.

Roast it at 180C for about half an hour or until it's got some lovely brown bits on it.

Serve it warm with tahini sauce (mix tahini with lemon juice until it's fluffy add crushed garlic and water to make the sauce as thin as you want it.

We sometimes add in some sliced butternut squash to the roasting tin if we want the dish to be more central to the meal.

Pigeonfaces · 28/06/2020 11:12

The tahini sauce - hot or cold, with the roast cauliflower?

Furx · 28/06/2020 17:46

Also I enjoy watching seasoned MNers play with the trolls. Reminds me of my late cat playing with half-dead mice. They’re no match for our battle-seasoned vipers

Yup

TinselAngel · 28/06/2020 17:49

I made a whole roast cauliflower with a tahini sauce a while ago. It was very nice.

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/06/2020 18:11

Tahini sauce is cold, but drizzle it on whilst cauliflower is still warm.

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 28/06/2020 19:07

It's been a weekend, hasn't it.

TehBewilderness · 28/06/2020 20:09

@FannyCann

Are there any T towels with the Rules of Misogyny on? I need some new T towels and it's going to be a long summer with the DD who has just graduated with a 1st in Lies and Damned Lies returning to the nest. The least I can do is have her wiping her plates with disinfectant.
If you are serious you can go to one of those on line tea towel printers and have them made up. Google tells me there are several in the UK. Anyone is welcome to use the Rules of Misogyny as seems good to them and now I want tea towels too.
TehBewilderness · 28/06/2020 20:12

Tahini sauce is delish. If you eat dairy a lime crema is made the same way with sour cream.

FannyCann · 28/06/2020 22:23

I've been looking at a site @TehBewilderness and struggling with the formatting of my copy and pasting of the words. I think it'll be about £14

When I have won the battle with the site (or rung them up and got them to do it for me) I will post a link.

Thank you. Smile

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