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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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ErrolTheDragon · 27/06/2020 08:13

Does this forum need a 90 day rule? The sex topic has it, why not here? Some of those trolls had been registered for a while but it would stop organised pile ons.

That, and/or proactive moderation of brand new usernames (not always belonging to brand new users, of course).

Winesalot · 27/06/2020 08:20

🚩 🚩 🚩 helmets ⛑ on. Lots of care needed this morning as there are screen grabs being taken aplenty.

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 27/06/2020 08:25

Thread in activism deleted for now. Good.

CaraDune · 27/06/2020 08:36

@ItsLateHumpty

We have incoming 🚩 🦇 💩 signal has gone up.

I’m making a Brew

A bat turd signal. That is bloomin' inspired emoji usage!
FannyCann · 27/06/2020 10:16

It's a bat!! I wondered what the significance of a dragon was. But then I can't tell the difference between a glitter ball/grenade or celeriac. Confused

Definitely emoji use to remember. Especially as the phone helpfully offered the emoji when I typed 🦇.

VickyEadieofThigh · 27/06/2020 10:42

Blimey, what a load of insects scurried out when that rock was lifted, eh?

It never ceases to amaze me how some of them monitor everything that might possibly be of (cough) interest to them.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 27/06/2020 10:45

Meanwhile I still can't make the flag emoji work...

BaronessBrighterThanYou · 27/06/2020 10:47

Would save on socks too.

Ploppers wank into socks?

Not surprised.

BaronessBrighterThanYou · 27/06/2020 10:50

I can't even find the sex pages but please could someone explain what the 90 day rule is briefly? It sounds like a good idea..

ErrolTheDragon · 27/06/2020 11:04

Baroness - possibly, but they also make them into puppets.

CaraDune · 27/06/2020 11:15

@BaronessBrighterThanYou

I can't even find the sex pages but please could someone explain what the 90 day rule is briefly? It sounds like a good idea..
There is a whole section devoted to sex, with a mix of informative threads, requests for information, people wanting reassurance that their tastes, while unusual are not "wrong", plus a sprinkling of pervy threads. So a bit like AIBU/chat, just all the threads are about sex.

And because it would obviously attract all sorts of hairy handed chaps with wank socks, you're not allowed to post there until you've been regged on the board for 3 months. Won't stop a determined pervert but does weed out the 95% who are impulse perverts rather than pre planned.

ScrimpshawTheSecond · 27/06/2020 11:33

impulse perverts

Grin

Somehow I feel a Bear is unnecessary this morning. Generally typing with an air raid signal going off in the background.

CaraDune · 27/06/2020 12:06

Though fellow Bunburyists might be interested in what I think is a really important thread about the pay gap which appears to be flying under the radar due to the current kerfuffle.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3950904-Times-article-on-pay-gap

Well worth a read.

We often say on here "If you can't see sex, you can't see sexism."

Turns out the following is also true: "Even though you refuse to see sexism, it turns out you can still see sex just fine, certainly well enough to still be sexist."

Doyoumind · 27/06/2020 12:42

I agree with the 90 day rule suggestion and have suggested it myself in the past. Even if it was just 30 days it would stop the kind of pile ons that happened last night. People on twitter are sharing now deleted posts as proof of something which isn't true.

Cascade220 · 27/06/2020 13:59

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

FleetsumNJetsum · 27/06/2020 15:49

Can't make my new red flag post, and the perfect place for it's use, too Angry

SunsetBeetch · 27/06/2020 18:29

"Yikes" indeed

boatyardblues · 27/06/2020 18:39

@SpartacusAutisticus

FFS. If Linehan had any sense he wouldn't post his drama on here bringing an avenging army of trolls with him.
He brings the newly peaked too, though.

Also I enjoy watching seasoned MNers play with the trolls. Reminds me of my late cat playing with half-dead mice. They’re no match for our battle-seasoned vipers.

WanderinWomb · 27/06/2020 18:43

I love the word "yikes "

ErrolTheDragon · 27/06/2020 20:50

Hmph. I should know better than to spend any time replying to a thread when there's a fair chance it'll have been deleted by the time I hit post.

CaraDune · 27/06/2020 21:12

I'm going to repost my beautiful wormhole anyway because it's lovely... (It was a present for someone who said - correctly - that the thread was disappearing down a wormhole just to give a bit of variety from disappearing down the rabbit hole).

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5
prolefeed · 27/06/2020 21:12

They are doing a pretty good job of taking visitors down if it becomes obvious they aren’t here to engage, just lecture or plop and run back to twitter.
I’m quite impressed, even if my right of reply has become somewhat compromised. Grin
Stamina is shit in young males these days though.

boatyardblues · 27/06/2020 21:22

We just lost some top cauliflower tips with the recent culling. Damn.

334bu · 27/06/2020 21:26

1st rule of Cauliflower cheese Roast not Boil.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 27/06/2020 21:27

Yikes. Thoughts. Commands. Speak.

Biscuit to the lot of them.

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