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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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prolefeed · 27/06/2020 05:58

God another twenty minutes? Shock

ItsLateHumpty · 27/06/2020 06:02

I bagsie not being on clean up duties!

I dunno though - maybe if we offer them onion fried celeriac smothered in anchovies they’ll leave sooner? 🤢

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LadybirdsAreNotBirds · 27/06/2020 06:09

If celeriac gives you wind make sure you avoid Jerusalem artichoke.

Was like living with a family of hovercrafts for days 😊

Winesalot · 27/06/2020 06:15

6.15!!

Dances · 27/06/2020 06:16

3 minutes out! Not bad!

LadybirdsAreNotBirds · 27/06/2020 06:18

Should have put a bet on the time.

If they just ban 4 people it should be able to stay up, shame the whole thing will be nuked.

prolefeed · 27/06/2020 06:18

Oh you are GOOD at this! I checked the time lol.
Yes. Jerusalem artichoke is also banned. There is a reason I cancelled the farm box.

Winesalot · 27/06/2020 06:18

Dances you were only 3 minutes off. that was a very fine estimate and it was probably because someone decided it was still too hot for coffee and got straight into work.

MsMcWibble · 27/06/2020 06:20

Well, they got what they wanted - Glinner not to get support.
I do hope someone managed to archive that. It was gold.

Winesalot · 27/06/2020 06:22

Jerusalem Artichokes have a detrimental effect on my stomach. I love them but they don’t love me.

I liked the incel song Humpty. Although I only caught the last verse. I don’t think they read the lyrics though.

ItsLateHumpty · 27/06/2020 06:22

Dances you are the thread whisperer! Shock

Well done all - I’m going for a walk now all the excitement has died down.

I hope Glinner realises his thread was shit posted to oblivion rather than MN just deleted.

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ItsLateHumpty · 27/06/2020 06:25

I liked the incel song Humpty. Although I only caught the last verse. I don’t think they read the lyrics though.

Thanks Winesalot I can’t take credit - THE INCEL SONG OF J. ALFRED PRUFROCK by JULIANA GRAY

I have kept a copy of the lyrics because they are good!

www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/the-incel-song-of-j-alfred-prufrock

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exLtEveDallas · 27/06/2020 06:26

He’s on the other female centric space, so he should know hopefully.

Onelittlepiglet · 27/06/2020 06:26

Hello, I hid the thread until MNHQ could take a look and remove all the abusive posts. I’m part of the night watch and felt it was getting out of hand. It hasn’t been deleted - I can’t hide individual posts unfortunately otherwise I would have done that. I hope they can sort it out and reinstate it.

Dances · 27/06/2020 06:29

I do think the punctuation policing did the job rather well.

Ah well, off for a nap..

Dances · 27/06/2020 06:31

Aww 'piglet, you could have held off for 3 minutes!

prolefeed · 27/06/2020 06:35

Eve is it busier? I joined at the beginning and haven’t been back as I found it tricky to navigate...

exLtEveDallas · 27/06/2020 06:39

It is busier. I still struggle with it sometimes, but I think that’s because I don’t go there as often. I used to struggle with Twitter quite a bit! I persevere simply because they won’t be bowed, and it’s not full of blue haired moderators!

Timetospare · 27/06/2020 06:40

Hello, I live round here but am very shy. Gosh that party got a bit rowdy didn’t it? There’ll be some cranky little children in the morning.

NotBadConsidering · 27/06/2020 06:53

@Onelittlepiglet there’s another one for you Hmm

LadybirdsAreNotBirds · 27/06/2020 07:05

There is.

The need for drama is strong in that one.

I'm now thinking about Jerusalem artichoke and whether I can take the wind pain because they are so damn delicious .

NotBadConsidering · 27/06/2020 07:13

Does this forum need a 90 day rule? The sex topic has it, why not here? Some of those trolls had been registered for a while Hmm but it would stop organised pile ons.

ItsLateHumpty · 27/06/2020 07:24

I was thinking something similar NotBadConsidering - maybe not 90 days, but at least a register and wait 24 hours.

By the time a plopper would have to wait to post, most goady threads would be deleted.

And maybe if you register but don’t ever post, your NN becomes inactive and if you want to reactive, there’s still a 24 hour wait time.

Would save on socks too.

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wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 27/06/2020 07:49

Damn, I bit in feminist activism. It's being live tweeted, apparently.

Winesalot · 27/06/2020 07:57

Feels like the weekend for live tweeting MN trolling action. I think the moderators are going to be very busy this morning dealing with the incoming from twitter.

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