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Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 20/08/2020 15:07

Hey just so you know, I’ve just had a post deleted on a thread under ‘childbirth’ and a trans topic and have been warned that’s it’s my first strike, two more in six weeks and I’m out. I thought that applied to FWR only, but obviously not.

AlbusSirius · 20/08/2020 16:05

I think it applies to (1) FWR, (2) threads to do with trans in any other topics and (3) FWR posters on any topics Hmm

It's reporting that results in strikes, and the persistent reporters don't stick to FWR.

DianasLasso · 20/08/2020 16:08

Screenshotting thread now gone. Good deletion message acknowledging that OP was probably not in good faith.

Datun · 20/08/2020 17:20

@DianasLasso

Screenshotting thread now gone. Good deletion message acknowledging that OP was probably not in good faith.
Yes. The style was familiar.
ThePankhurstConnection · 20/08/2020 17:22

@DialSquare

"Also I discovered a place that sells popped cheese in bags (seriously) google Cheesies (good sprinkled on salad). That is my contribution since I missed the cheese talk."

Thanks for this ThePankhurstConnection.
I've just googled and will be buying some! I thought cheese popcorn was the business but these look even better!

I am glad my cheese contribution was useful Grin

-sorry for the frivolous interjection all.

DialSquare · 20/08/2020 17:31

Very useful ThePankhurstConnection. I've ordered the variety pack!

wellbehavedwomen · 20/08/2020 17:31

@DianasLasso

I don't say this lightly, but my spidey senses say this is a man who could be very dangerous to very many people in a real-life way.

Yes. Very much so.

Winesalot · 20/08/2020 17:34

The style was familiar.

Which part was not:

-shaming women who are standing up for women
-not contributing anything of substance except outrage
-not listening or answering any question, immediately taking offensive
-filling the bingo card?

RozWatching · 20/08/2020 19:09

NC'd, this one's for you Rufus

So the deranged sissy lover was a PBP? Well I never.

DianasLasso · 20/08/2020 19:28

Cracking up laughing after being part way down a thread on active about "why do trolls troll? I'd spent so much time writing such a lovely supportive reply when the thread got zapped" when I got to the following from one of the MN HQ team:

Yeah, those trolls, who start threads about trolls.

Guess who started the troll thread referenced in the OP....

We're removing this now.

They're having a fun day Grin

FloresTorres · 20/08/2020 19:40

The anti-psychiatry statements were notable. Told me a lot as a MH survivor.
This person ime, has had a lot of dealings with the forensic side of psychiatry. IYSWIM.
Briefly, I've seen online MH forums used as rich recruiting grounds by such as he. Apart from MIND, and a smaller UK based one, run by Together for Change, (both well modded), they are haunted by the likes of the PBP last night, looking for unwell, disaffected, and often inadequate feeling, lonely men.

Caveat. Not everyone using a MH forum is incel/mra material obvs.

DianasLasso · 20/08/2020 19:51

This person ime, has had a lot of dealings with the forensic side of psychiatry. IYSWIM.

That squares with my impression. Very interesting to have it confirmed by someone who knows more about it that I do, Flores.

RozWatching · 20/08/2020 20:00

YY I know the type, Flores. Although my impression was that this person could have been trolling. I have one particular PBP in mind.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 20/08/2020 21:35

@RozWatching

NC'd, this one's for you Rufus

So the deranged sissy lover was a PBP? Well I never.

That’s awesome

Watching

Always watching

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 20/08/2020 21:36

Cant quite figure out if its the post

Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 20/08/2020 21:37

Or the picture causing the issue so I’ll do both

RozWatching · 20/08/2020 22:11

Careful Rufus, remember what happened last time.
Am I right in thinking that we have to add Grayson Perry and other men who openly identify as transvestites to the list?

ThePankhurstConnection · 21/08/2020 11:03

Has the Grayson Perry thread gone too? FGS I wanted to read that.

Mollscroll · 21/08/2020 11:09

Me too. And he does say that he has the condition we cannot mention. He can say it about himself. We cannot use any words.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 21/08/2020 11:12

Grayson does use old-fashioned terminology for himself

journals.openedition.org/erea/7841

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/08/2020 13:55

Sad I missed a cheese discussion!

Deliriumoftheendless · 21/08/2020 14:23

So did the Sexy Spider-Man thread go?

Winesalot · 21/08/2020 14:31

So did the Sexy Spider-Man thread go?

It certainly did. And there is another thread about why MN did cancel the thread quickly enough.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/site_stuff/a4000936-how-can-i-ask-mn-to-delete-my-post?msgid=99342957#99342957

DianasLasso · 21/08/2020 14:35

I have been enjoying the site stuff thread enormously - very funny. Talk about Chutzpah (but very much in keeping with the rest of our goady visitor's modus operandi).

DialSquare · 21/08/2020 14:44

My Cheesies turned up today. Wow! I'm considering chopping my hands off to stop me opening the 8 remaining bags!