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Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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FloralBunting · 25/07/2020 22:20

I typed in a Sid James voice. That's why it came out like that.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:26

Although errol

I could have been deleted and not known it

Now im second guessing myself 😳

DialSquare · 25/07/2020 22:40

@FloralBunting

I typed in a Sid James voice. That's why it came out like that.
You channeled Sid James! I once had a dream that I was Muttley. I spent the whole dream running around (in a beige mac for some reason!) laughing with my shoulders moving up and down. I've often wondered how that would be analysed!
TinselAngel · 25/07/2020 23:00

@RufustheRowlingReindeer

This could be code for muppet

🐸

No one but us reads the Bunbury threads do they....

I'm sorry but i have to take grave exception to this. The lovely muppets should never be used as an insult. This is the hill I will die on.
RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 23:03

looks at Rufus sternly with finger poised over "report button"

Do it...do it do it do it

Double dare ya crossed keys no returns

YOU’LL NEVER TAKE ME ALIVE

DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 23:04

Can I defuse the situation by suggesting "pillock" as a good all-round mild insult for people who are wilfully hard-of-understanding?

TinselAngel · 25/07/2020 23:06

@RufustheRowlingReindeer

looks at Rufus sternly with finger poised over "report button"

Do it...do it do it do it

Double dare ya crossed keys no returns

YOU’LL NEVER TAKE ME ALIVE

Don't make me come over there!
RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 23:10

🐟

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 23:10

Oooohh pillock

Not pilchard

As you were

DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 23:11

Ah... makes more sense now.

Would just like to say that the international feminazi spy satellite network has been funded by the profits from the international lesbian bride trafficking syndicate set up by J. Bindel. Top work, Julie.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 23:13

Don't make me come over there

🥺 🏳️

BluebonicPlague · 25/07/2020 23:14

@DianasLasso

Can I defuse the situation by suggesting "pillock" as a good all-round mild insult for people who are wilfully hard-of-understanding?

muppet pillock

puddock

I will just leave this here.

Daffodil
ErrolTheDragon · 25/07/2020 23:25

Well apparently a puddock is a toad or a frog. So we can safely use 🐸 after all!

And there's even a poem about a puffed-up puddock

www.rampantscotland.com/poetry/blpoems_puddock.htm

boatyardblues · 25/07/2020 23:34

@RufustheRowlingReindeer

Oooh no ive never posted a potato

I might start though...i like potatoes 🥔

In Iceland, they have a special night a month or so before Christmas where children put a shoe out to see how things a looking for Santa. If you’ve been naughty, a potato is left in your shoe as a warning to behave - it’s the “do better” vegetable. I’m sure we could find a use for it on FWR.
boatyardblues · 25/07/2020 23:37

A gift in the shoe
One of the best Christmas traditions, particularly for Icelandic kiddies, is the shoe-in-the window tradition. This gets underway 13 days before Christmas, when the Icelandic Yule Lads, who live in the mountains, start coming to town, one per night. Before they go to sleep, kids take one of their best shoes and leave near an open window. Come morning – presto! – the shoe will contain a small gift from the Yule Lad that arrived on that night. However, this only works if the child has been good – if he or she has been bad, the shoe will contain only one lonely potato.

icelandnaturally.com/article/icelandic-christmas-traditions

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/07/2020 23:42

That's great! "Educate yourself" 🥔

BluebonicPlague · 26/07/2020 00:09

How do you do a potato emoji?

[Wails, stamps feet, wants potato posted, pasted and cutted up.
And also not cutted up.]

ErrolTheDragon · 26/07/2020 00:13

I just type in the word potato and the icon appears along with other word suggestions above the 'keyboard' on my iPad. Or chips.... 🥔 and 🍟 that's your cutted up and not cutted up potatoes

Datun · 26/07/2020 01:27

@wellbehavedwomen

Ah, okay, thank you. So for all I know, I leave a trail of deletions in my wake. Grin

Does seem odd, bothering to get old stuff deleted Why spend time reading old threads, when they're only going to piss you off?

It's because 3 strikes and you get banned. It's to get you banned.
Datun · 26/07/2020 01:32

Oh and 🥔 and 🍐

madwoman1ntheattic · 26/07/2020 18:20

Apparently I’m on two. 🤷‍♀️ And because I’m raging, I’m going to switch off and ban myself for the rest of the day. Probably won’t help. I’m due another namechange anyway. It won’t help with the strikes but it will make it marginally harder for the monitors to deliberately target. Shame. I was enjoying this walk down memory lane Grin

Ereshkigalangcleg · 26/07/2020 18:27

Someone is name dropping this thread, just to show us that they know about it.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 26/07/2020 18:29

I never know who anyone is

Probably just as well

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 26/07/2020 18:31

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Someone is name dropping this thread, just to show us that they know about it.
Doesn’t take a genius does it?

Someone on mumsnet?

Or in that place people tell me about...oh whats it called 🤔

Real life

Ereshkigalangcleg · 26/07/2020 18:34

Doesn’t take a genius does it?

No, it doesn't.

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