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Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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RufustheRowlingReindeer · 26/07/2020 18:43

No, it doesn't

Probably just as well for some people 😀

Ereshkigalangcleg · 26/07/2020 18:54

Quite!

CarnivorousYoni · 26/07/2020 21:33

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RufustheRowlingReindeer · 26/07/2020 21:45

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RufustheRowlingReindeer · 26/07/2020 21:45

I might just pop on to the dog house and tell them i can see what they are saying

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 26/07/2020 21:46

Actually no

They scare the shit out of me

OhHolyJesus · 27/07/2020 09:59

It's because 3 strikes and you get banned. It's to get you banned.
Bloody hell that's clever, going over old threads I mean, to rack up the strikes. Sneaky.

That pic Rufus makes me think of Jabba the Hut, looks like his Headteacher, gives me the wibble wobblies, it's odd, makes me gag!

Love the potato idea, using that...

ErrolTheDragon · 27/07/2020 10:06

I've already used 'puddock' once. The poem about the proud puddock makes me think it's a good one to apply to MRA types rather than general eejits though.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 27/07/2020 11:14

@OhHolyJesus

It's because 3 strikes and you get banned. It's to get you banned. Bloody hell that's clever, going over old threads I mean, to rack up the strikes. Sneaky.

That pic Rufus makes me think of Jabba the Hut, looks like his Headteacher, gives me the wibble wobblies, it's odd, makes me gag!

Love the potato idea, using that...

I think Roz is based on Jabba

Maybe a distant aunt or something 😀

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CarnivorousYoni · 27/07/2020 15:48

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TinselAngel · 27/07/2020 15:53
  • I think Roz is based on Jabba

Maybe a distant aunt or something* 😀

My chain smoking neighbour talks just like Roz.

DianasLasso · 27/07/2020 16:01

Anyone else got a Carly Simon earworm at this point?

ThePurported · 27/07/2020 16:07

Most women in my family sounded like Roz. I miss those fag-scorched voices!

compulsivesnacker · 27/07/2020 16:09

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dragoncheeselady · 27/07/2020 16:16

I love Roz we use her catchphrase a lot in this house.
Its always good to act like someone is watching
I have her emoji on my phone as well
Side note - If you play disney emoji blitz you get disney characters as emoji's you can use once - I do not recommend downloading this it is extremely addictive.

TinselAngel · 27/07/2020 16:52

Most women in my family sounded like Roz. I miss those fag-scorched voices!

You're more than welcome to adopt my neighbour.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 27/07/2020 16:59

sinks below the waterline like a crocodile

Oh i was wondering who is was, thats handy...saves me asking

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 27/07/2020 17:01

@TinselAngel

* I think Roz is based on Jabba

Maybe a distant aunt or something* 😀

My chain smoking neighbour talks just like Roz.

Oooh ask her to say

Watching...always watching

(I don’t get out much)

Actually if there is a chance she doesn’t appreciate the comparison with a slug like monster don’t bother...don’t want you getting hurt

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 27/07/2020 22:46

Oh my god ive just realised why i was deleted

I posted a cartoon character and her catch phrase

Seriously that was deletion worthy?

I’m assuming personal attack...did someone actually think i was comparing them to Roz

That’s honestly ridiculous 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

I actually like Roz

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 27/07/2020 22:48

Im relieved though

I thought id said something dreadful

😀

ErrolTheDragon · 27/07/2020 23:31

That's seriously weird.Confused unless it was a copyrighted image?

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 27/07/2020 23:36

Nah

Ive posted it before

You know in a joking Light hearted way...Whenever the subject of watching comes up

Cos its funny...

Hasn’t been deleted before

I do think its very funny, So I’m not really upset or annoyed Just giggling when i think about it 😀😀😀

FloralBunting · 28/07/2020 00:07

Shh. Keep a straight face. Folk don't like laughing wimmin.

Portnlemon · 28/07/2020 00:13

I might use Roz on my work profile picture.
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