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Bunbury's guide to community disruptors part 5

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ItsLateHumpty · 20/06/2020 15:04

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember our monitors would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3691023-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-4

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches Gin

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BluebonicPlague · 25/07/2020 21:36

@wellbehavedwomen

How is giving someone a biscuit deletable?! That would mean loads of AIBUs were Swiss cheese, surely. Did you give it especially scathingly - suggest they deserved only a Garibaldi, or something?
Nope. I just left a biscuit, no comment at all. But it was on here, not on AIBU. We have to be naice on here apparently.
DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 21:38

Was it one of those really evil ones with raisins in and a kind of shiny outer coat? (Just googled - what I was thinking of apparently is a Garibaldi biscuit. If it was a Garibaldi, definitely deletion worthy. They are rank. All in favour of cancel-Garibaldi-culture.)

BluebonicPlague · 25/07/2020 21:40

We have to sweep the doorstep and primp the cushions here because we have visitors. Over on AIBU it's usually just the wimmins females fishwiving at each other so no one else is going to be upset.

DialSquare · 25/07/2020 21:41

Was it a biscuit that identified as a cake? A Jaffa cake?

BluebonicPlague · 25/07/2020 21:43

@DianasLasso

Was it one of those really evil ones with raisins in and a kind of shiny outer coat? (Just googled - what I was thinking of apparently is a Garibaldi biscuit. If it was a Garibaldi, definitely deletion worthy. They are rank. All in favour of cancel-Garibaldi-culture.)
Heh. MN should have squashed fly biscuits as one of the emojis. Grin
DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 21:43

And white the front step. Don't forget that.

My Great Aunt - lovely woman - had a carpet runner to protect the carpet, then one of those transparent plastic runners on top of that to protect the extra carpet, then (if she had workmen in) newspaper on top of the plastic runner. God love her!

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 21:46

I like garabaldi

Plus the biscuit means no comment

People literally put a biscuit to say no comment

What is the point of MNHQ giving you something that means no comment if they don’t intend for it to be used as no comment

Cant be tone...no tone to a biscuit. Or does it matter what board its on, would a biscuit on aibu be ok but not on the dog house...unless its a dog biscuit obviously

I’ll tell you what I’ll do...if i want to say no comment I’ll pop a glass of wine on instead

Cant be a fucking tone with a glass of wine surely

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 21:48

Some posters are fucking lucky i dont like the little shit emoji

Id literally be shitting all over some of these threads

Should be grateful its only a biscuit...

(And if i sound tetchy its because dh has just put ralph breaks the internet on...because he likes the princess scenes)

BluebonicPlague · 25/07/2020 21:50

Brilliant idea, Rufus!

Except... what do we do if we want to say 'wine'?
I know: Gin

(What does Daffodil mean? And why isn't there also a thistle?)

FloralBunting · 25/07/2020 21:53

Rufus there is enough shitting on threads in FWR without you starting.

Oo, that was weird, I just had fat fingers and FWR became Fwaar. It'd be rather a different board if it was named that.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 21:54

🐂 💩

Bull shit....that has tone doesn’t it 😪

Thought id leave the gin bluebonic 😀

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 21:55

@FloralBunting

Rufus there is enough shitting on threads in FWR without you starting.

Oo, that was weird, I just had fat fingers and FWR became Fwaar. It'd be rather a different board if it was named that.

Far point floral

And a rather badly timed crosspost 😀

DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 21:55

FWR became Fwaar. It'd be rather a different board if it was named that.

There could be advantages to that. MNHQ would probably put it under the same rules as the sex board, so you'd have to have been registered for 3 months before you could post. Would stop some of the drive-by shitting on threads that we're all so familiar with.

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 21:58

Ive tried drive by shitting

Couldn’t get my arse through the window 🤔

BluebonicPlague · 25/07/2020 22:00

Fwaar Grin Star

There are times when I wish we had a Star button or even Grin button to save having extra posts just to say: thanks to all you excellent WOMEN who have given me a good laugh tonight.

ThePurported · 25/07/2020 22:02

You used MN's own biscuit emoji and got deleted?
I'd call that entrapment. Don't tempt us with rude emojis MNHQ. Remove this filth from the menu Biscuit

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:02

This could be code for muppet

🐸

No one but us reads the Bunbury threads do they....

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:03
Wine
DialSquare · 25/07/2020 22:03

Did anyone else read Fwaar in a Sid James voice?

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:04

Yup

DianasLasso · 25/07/2020 22:06

@DialSquare

Did anyone else read Fwaar in a Sid James voice?
It can only be read in a Sid James voice. Followed by that laugh.
DialSquare · 25/07/2020 22:11

*Dianaslasso
*
Agreed! Being a new poster I didn't want to lower the tone too much too early!

ErrolTheDragon · 25/07/2020 22:14

My DD asks me for cutted up pear sometimes. Obviously only when she's home from uni, I don't have to post them to her.

Whatever else, Rufus, FGS don't be tempted to respond to anyone with a 🥔 . (It was you who got deleted for posting 'potato', wasn't it. A potato emoji which looks not entirely unlike a turd really would be asking for trouble)

RufustheRowlingReindeer · 25/07/2020 22:15

Oooh no ive never posted a potato

I might start though...i like potatoes 🥔

ErrolTheDragon · 25/07/2020 22:19

I must have misremembered who it was - the word potato, not a 🥔.

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