What the fuck have I just read? Ask your husband Bloody hell.
When my mum's hairdresser was a little boy he used to go to the nursery that my aunt worked at. He used to love wearing princess dresses and playing in the wendy house, basically very comfortable expressing his 'feminine' side. Hes grown into a happy, comfortable, expressive gay man, because that is what people can do when they are allowed to be themselves rather than conform to gender stereotypes.
This whole gender determinism (whatever you want to call it) would be funny and ridiculous if it weren't so dangerous to children who don't naturally conform to increasing rigid gender stereotypes.
How can people portray its as 'woke' and progressive when it is such a regressive and harmful ideology that puts undue extra pressure on children who already struggle to find their place in society. Can you tell how enraging this is to me?