We need to understand WHY she thinks like that rather than just dismissing it and her.
It's because she's acquainted with transwomen, presumably of the HSTS variety, and sees them as victims.
She appears to be quite prepared to accept that men might take advantage of the loophole, but does not believe they are trans.
She doesn't yet realise that according to the definition, they are.
She should, even given what she truly believes, still accept that sex segregation is necessary, because of all the
'loophole men'. But she doesn't. She still thinks that women should put 'deserving'
men first even if they don't want to.
She will, hopefully, realise about the overwhelming number of men for whom
this is a fetish - and how the ideology says she must accept that.
But I suspect she will still trutrans her way through everything, because, despite fighting up skirting, she has still been raised in a patriarchy and will put men first.
It's a journey. I still don't think she'll get to the last stop, but she might get further along than she is.