The "middle-aged moment" is clearly ageist and probably sexist too. Middle-aged women terrify some because we've got nothing to lose. We don't care if they don't approve of us in fact we quite like it. It demonstrates we have minds of our own and don't court nor care about getting male approval. That's why they are scared of us; scared of JK; scared of mumsnet!
Yes. And we (most of us) have been through the whole "young woman trying to attract men" thing and we know all the tricks, all the flattery, all the fakeness employed by men who only ever wanted to get us into bed. We can see it a mile away; we just itch to tell those girls to run! run for your life!
It's a freedom I wasn't expecting at this stage in my life, but it is so liberating -- and so frustrating to know you can't adequately warn the generations coming after us.
But men know we know, and that's why they hate us. Happy to be called prude.