unwashedanddazed from what I've read, JCJ is very clear that she isn't trying to appease anyone by publicly distancing herself from PP and JL's politics. Or more non-politics, I think.
PP is very clear that she doesn't care what politics someone has as long as they can come together on the woman=adult human female and that the dangers of trans ideology being imposed on children and young people. JCJ says that she can't support any allegiance with orgs like the Heritage Foundation, however much they share views on the other issues.
If you haven't been imbued in politics for years, I think it's hard to understand how central it is to some peoples' lives. Ditto, if you have, it's hard to understand how it isn't central to others lives.
Have a look at the exchange between the two at the bottom on the comments section on JCJ's latest blog - it outlines the impasse of the past couple of years and current hostility between them.
But yes batshit crazy to thrash out in the public domain, but important for people who feel that they have been bullied to name who they perceive to be their bully, so people having a break for a bit is probably the best thing, for their own well being and also for the broader feminist cause.