If Sarah and Emily like Angela and enjoy Angela's company then all is fine. What I'm interested in is if Angela is a dick to Sarah and Emily and insists on Sarah and Emily doing as Angela says, is saying no to Angela now a hate crime on the grounds that however Angela behaves, Angela is trans and has a magic trump card staff must obey? Could this system be open to exploitation at all? Would this in any way take responsibility from Angela to learn to manage Angela's behaviour in a way that means other kids want to play with them?
And if John, Ben, Katie and Elizabeth are four kids watching Angela's progress who amongst them have some social skill issues, behaviour challenges, and/or social communication challenges, so aren't the popular kids and don't find friendships and social relationships easy, and are lonely, isolated and frustrated, are they being shown a magic way out?
And are those kids going to find inclusion, friendship and everything they hope for, or are they going to find that kids forced to perform friendship at them are going to be angry, resentful and that 'being nice' out of fear really isn't the same as friendship?
The support of inclusion for kids with additional needs for years has walked the line of helping kids learn to have friendships and have relationships with peers and encourage understanding and inclusion without enforcing that Sophie MUST sit with James at lunchtime every day because James wants it, and because otherwise James has a massive meltdown. Even though Sophie doesn't like James, and wants to sit with her chosen friends. Sophie's actually being commandeered as a tool to minimise inconvenience to staff and she's being taught all sorts of inappropriate things in the process: but she's providing a useful short cut to actually addressing and meeting James' needs.
Which is the real issue. Comorbidities are known to abound in kids raising gender identity questions. Many unmet needs.