I’ll be back later to bore everyone yet again to tears about watchful waiting vs positive affirmation, but here’s what I posted on another thread:
I’m the mother of a 14 year old girl who currently identifies as a boy. My opinion is that there are a multitude of reasons why there has been an explosion in the numbers- no one really knows why. What we do know is that historically, most children referred to the Tavistock clinic were boys, but now most are girls- total numbers from around 100 a decade ago to 2500 last year. We also know that historically, using the watchful waiting approach (ie no social transitioning or affirming the child as the opposite sex), the vast majority of these children would desist by or during puberty.
We now have a new cohort of adolescent girls (in the main) identifying as boys and many don’t share the same presentation as previously- many did not show signs of GD as children, a significant % are autistic, most present with other comorbidities, many have been influenced by social media (social contagion). Many struggle with social issues and feel they feel they better fit in if they are seen as a boy. Because of this, we don’t know which adolescents will naturally desist under watchful waiting and which will persist.
The new automatic positive affirmation and social transition approach which is pushed onto schools and parents by lobby groups is untested and experimental. There is no long term research showing that this is a better approach than watchful waiting, and it is not recommended by the Tavistock. Many highly experienced professionals warn against it as there are risks involved in affirming children as the opposite sex- a powerful psychological impact when the trusted adults around a child/adolescent validate their belief.
Social transition/positive affirmation is effectively a gateway to medical transition which begins with puberty blockers (upcoming court case against their use) and then almost always then leads to cross sex hormones.
I know there are parents who support the social transition of their child and I would not presume to assume that it is wrong for their child, but generally speaking, I think social transition comes with many unacceptable risks.