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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Toilets....again

67 replies

Godxilla · 24/12/2019 08:51

Just stumbled upon this tweet (a teacher -supposedly- calling a female student a TERF just because she's uncomfortable with 'gender neutral' loos. It's now reached the point that this dogma is used to bully school kids , FFS.
I can't seem to get the link to work.

twitter.com/ChiefBrody19/status/1209207941435461633?s=19

Toilets....again
Toilets....again
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KatvonHostileExtremist · 24/12/2019 09:04

twitter.com/ChiefBrody19/status/1209207941435461633?s=19

Got to add before and after.

Clicky

As for that school, someone needs to have a word.

Interestingly I've had two women complain to me about the shift to uni sex toilets. One was an older female teacher, she came out of the loo to find the head washing his hands. He had made the females uni sex over the holidays and not bothered to tell anyone.

Obviously, breaking regulations on how uni sex loos are meant to be set up, but, hey, it's only women right?

Another woman was telling me about how intimidating her old universities uni sex toilets were (in the student union), especially on a night.

Why can't we have third spaces, for those who want them. Why do women always get the shitty (or pissy) end of the stick?

If you complain, you've even got schools calling you a terf now. Creepy. I'm so so glad my kids don't go there.

donquixotedelamancha · 24/12/2019 09:04

I had a look at that school's twitter. It's horrifyingly political. I'm shocked it's a UK comp.

If that tweet in the OP really is directed at a current student then I think a complaint to govenors is the way forward.

Once it became clear which teacher sent it, I'd also complain to the teacher standards authority, this is against professional standards.

Godxilla · 24/12/2019 09:20

Thanks for the link tip.

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SarahTancredi · 24/12/2019 09:21

Transphobia is covered under bullying policies surely.
Dont upset the boys. Girls we will sexually harass you and you will put up with it to be kindHmm

Siameasy · 24/12/2019 09:22

God I’m fuming at this. The likelihood is that some pointless numpty is in charge of the Twitter account and somehow (how?) heard of the story and tweeted it to be woke
If it’s a teacher who tweeted it, that’s a disgrace
Hope someone influential picks up on this

zen1 · 24/12/2019 09:24

Scrolling down their Twitter, there’s a photo of pupils modelling the Stonewall ‘Some People Are...” t shirts.

NotTerfNorCis · 24/12/2019 09:26

Interesting, that looks like an inner city school with a high proportion of students from ethnic backgrounds. Wonder how many of the girls (and boys) would be happy with unisex toilets.

teawamutu · 24/12/2019 09:26

Given they're almost certainly breaking the law on bathroom provision and are definitely using hate speech, what would be the right route of complaint? The LEA?

FredaFrogspawn · 24/12/2019 09:30

mobile.twitter.com/nputzo/status/1209211158839865344?s=21

Same school

FredaFrogspawn · 24/12/2019 09:31

You didn’t have ‘an affair’ with a fifteen year old. You abused them.

OhHolyJesus · 24/12/2019 09:39

Jesus Christ Freda that's the HT? Can't we report to OFSTED? I mean this is just unbelievably out of order - schools have rules about indoctrination.

FredaFrogspawn · 24/12/2019 09:42

That was some years ago. He was sacked. But you’d think they’d be much more sensitive about safeguarding now.

HandsOffMyRights · 24/12/2019 09:49

I'm appalled that any school would tweet this.

I hope the governors receive a number of complaints from very concerned parents. Imagine any other abusive term being proudly tweeted to bash that very oppressed group with?

This is atrocious.

HandsOffMyRights · 24/12/2019 09:52

Can't we report to OFSTED?

I think Ofsted drinks from the Kool Aid trough too.

OhHolyJesus · 24/12/2019 09:53

Contacts and Governor info here - they need to look at who doing their Twitter and what the hell is going on with their Safeguarding team.

WOODSIDE HIGH SCHOOL
White Hart Lane, Wood Green London, N22 5QJ
© 2019 · Legal Information
020 8889 6761
020 8365 8164
[email protected]

www.woodsidehighschool.co.uk/Our-Team/Governing-Body/

OhHolyJesus · 24/12/2019 09:53

If not OFSTED then Min or Ed?

OhHolyJesus · 24/12/2019 09:55

Grasping at straws but just appalled by this. Those poor kids!

AutumnRose1 · 24/12/2019 09:55

yes, I mentioned that on the JK Rowling thread but probably should have started a separate thread

this has really shocked me and going into the replies there are parents who have seen similar in their DC schools, or at least the vibe is similar, even if there aren't any receipts.

I am a bit shocked that so many parents aren't complaining - but sadly this probably means they have the same mentality as the school and aren't bothered about it?

this is such a worry.

Greenkit · 24/12/2019 09:57

Can someone explain to a newbie what a TERF is please

PeterRouseTheFleshofMankind · 24/12/2019 10:10

What. The. Actual. Fuck?

Calling pupils TERFs?

This really does ring alarm bells of wider issues in that school.

TiredofthisBS · 24/12/2019 10:12

T@RF is derogatory term used as an insult to any woman or man (mainly women) who disagree or question gender ideology.

TRA's say that it stands for Trans excluding radical feminists

PeterRouseTheFleshofMankind · 24/12/2019 10:13

TERF stands for 'Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist'.

You will be told that 'its just a descriptor' and that its perfectly fine to call a woman that.

But if you look online, you will see that it has been hurled at women by misogynists in all sorts of disgusting contexts and is finally starting to be seen as an unacceptable acronym to use.

terfisaslur.com/

AutumnRose1 · 24/12/2019 10:13

Greenkit

short version - Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist.

usually used as an attack on those of us who aren't okay with transwomen in women's toilets, women's hospital wards etc.

PeterRouseTheFleshofMankind · 24/12/2019 10:19

That school's Twitter is very odd. Lots of very political posts since the holidays began. You have to scroll down quite far to get to the 'well done to our Year 10 netball team winning their match today' posts that would be typical of a school.

They do seem to have deleted the 'TERFs' tweet though.

SarahTancredi · 24/12/2019 10:21

peter I'm wondering if that's deliberate.

Black people and gay peope are always used to hide gender crap behind.

So they are complicit in alot of racism too!