Why do you think males can be women?
Cos only males can be transwomen. Females can not be transwomen. And vice versa with transmen.
If sex is irrelevant then how do you define what a transwomen is and what transphobia is?
If sex isn't irrelevant why are you pretending it isn't as part of your policy making?
There was a suggestion by the Beaumont Society in the 90s that the wives of transsexuals were at high risk of psychological breakdown following them coming out. This was when the numbers coming out was much lower.
As far as I am aware, there hasn't been any meaningful research into the impact on families in this area. There seems, anecdotally, that there is a need to look into this area to help families as a whole. There is a real taboo about the subject which no one is willing to face up to. Families are merely expected to accept it, with no regard as to how this impacts their own identity.
Therefore have you done research into the psychological impact on the close families of trans people, as part of your proposals to 'end the spousal veto'?
What support is there available for transwidows and their children (and the parents / siblings) struggling to deal with the effects of such a change in the family which centres their emotional needs first? Keeping in mind that children's emotional security and needs should be the most important concern in a safeguarding context.
All existing support I am aware of, is centred on the trans persons identity and is centred on that with families only added on to that as an afterthought and with an emphasis on validating the trans identity rather than listening to how others might be struggling.