Trig (makes me think of only fools and horses) I see your point about how feminists asked for it (I know you aren't putting it in those terms.)
My view is, to a degree some feminists did, at least they call themselves feminists. Men have been in women's spaces for decades, I think it's fair to say that women have been taught to be kind, quiet and to step aside and there has been talk on this board that there was a tacit agreement where we saw a man in a wig and a dress using the women's loos and we wouldn't complain (but we never had to use the word woman to describe him). To a degree this was fine, for a while. Then men like this, but not all of these men, wanted more but they didn't ask politely, in fact no one actually asked us, they just took it. Men did that, not women.
I know two women personally - one who doesn't have a problem with mixed sex toilets and another who uses phrases like 'pregnant people'. For me, they are partly responsible and I now struggle to be around them. Many of us have lost friends, have been silenced to varying degrees, have been accused of awful things and been given awful labels. None of this we asked for, it is not our fault.
Like many of the women here, I am angry and scared and that comes across in a different way here than it would if we were face to face having a calm debate like you did with Posie.
I'm going back to your channel to watch the India W episode, I will watch out for more. Posie has raised your profile!
Please stick around and tell us what is happening with getting Posie's episode reinstated and there's a good thread for Newbies if you're interested, also the Break it Down for Me thread and the It Never Happens thread, along with the Trans Widows and Parents of RODG kids would be a good read for you to find your feet. All questions welcome.